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WTO Weekend 2/24-2/25

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GTKY: If you could live anywhere else in the world where would it be and why?
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    Month/Cycle: 12/12

    CD: 45 - WFAF still

    WAYDTGKU: Nothing right now

    R/R: Sorry I’ve been a terrible Bumper - Vienna was incredible for all those that asked and I did get three days to sightsee and shop before the conference started. We finished the conference yesterday (which was also incredible) and flew to London and now we are here for 4 more nights to do some exploring and on Monday we will do a day trip up to Edinburgh as well so looking forward to the next few days but also to getting back home and into routine!

    CS/Q: No chart - wishing my body would figure out wtf it wants to do! Although at this point I’d rather AF waited until I was home!

    GTKY: I honestly don’t think there’s anywhere else in the world I would want to live - Canada is awesome! Most of my family is in BC and it’s a beautiful province with decent systems in place and I know that’s hard to find elsewhere!
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    Month/Cycle:9/7

    CD:7

    WAYDTGKU:stuff and things
     
    R/R: Holiday tomorrow!! So cleaning the house and packing at the moment.

    CS/Q:nope 

    GTKY: If you could live anywhere else in the world where would it be and why? Probably the UK, it's where i was born and its where H is from. Occasionally I toy with the idea but really love where we are.

    @elothair pretty jealous of your trip right now!
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    @lokibear89 I am seriously so blessed to have the chance to go in this trip! This portion I have to pay for myself but everything up to now was paid via my work, including flights - Otherwise I likely wouldn’t have been able to afford to see this part of the world until way later in life. And it is seriously amazing here! Where do you live now?
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    @emmasemm I’m from Canada so this weather is totally fine by me! In London today it’s amazing a sunny - 3 degrees which is definitely chilly but totally manageable! Looks like tomorrow should hold out for us and then Tuesday the snow might start but that’s the day we plan to shop a bit and have a few meetings so works out pretty well. I hope you get in for your appointment and hooray for approval to do it locally - that’s way easier I would assume! Sounds like where you want to live is BC, Canada - where I’m from!
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    @elothair sounds like when we were in London just before Xmas - so long as you have a good coat, hat and gloves it’s picture postcard weather!
    Me 43 DH 45
    Married 12/2016
    TTC #1 since 04/2015
    AMA, DOR (AMH 0.65, AFC 2-4) and autoimmune issues (RA, APS), low TSH, adenomyosis
    7 retrievals, 3 transfers
    Jun19 FET BFP, due date 7th March 2020, DD born Feb20
    Sep17 IVF1 - 1ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
    Nov17 IVF2 - 1ER, 0F
    Jan18 IVF3 - 3ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
    Feb18 - second opinion and additional testing
    Apr18 IVF4 - cancelled (E2 too high)
    May/Jun18 IVF4 - 4ER, 0M, 1F, 1 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
    Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - 5 ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
    Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - 4ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (good quality)
    Aug/Sep18 IVF7 - cancelled (cyst)
    Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - 3ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen Day 3 (excellent quality)
    Oct18 IVF8 - Cancelled (cyst and too low TSH)
    Oct18-Jan19 bringing TSH under control
    Feb19 ERA and hysteroscopy
    Mar19 Investigation for fibroid and adenomyosis
    Apr19 adenomyosis confirmed, polyps removed
    Jun19 FET after 2 months Lupron, autoimmune protocol, transferred two day 3 frozen embryos
    Sep17 - Pergoveris 10-17 Sep, Orgalutran 15-18 Sep, Ovitrelle 18 Sep, ER 20 Sep for 2 follies, 1 mature egg, fertilized, ET 1x 2d 4-cell embryo 22/09, 05/10 BFN
    Nov17 IVF2 - Pergoveris 2-14 Nov, Orgalutran 5-14 Nov, Ovitrelle 15 Nov, ER 17 Nov for 3 follies, 1 mature egg, did not fertilize
    Jan18 IVF3 - Pergoveris 30 Dec - 8 Jan, Orgalutran 5-8 Jan, Ovitrelle 9 Jan, ER 11 Jan 3 eggs, 2 mature, 1 fertilized, ET 1x 4d 12-cell embryo 15/01, 24/01 BFN
    May/Jun18 IVF4 - Rekovelle 25-29 May, Menogon 30May - 2Jun, Zomacton 25 27 29 31 May and 2Jun, Cetrotide 30May - 3Jun, Gonasi 3Jun, ER 5Jun 4 eggs, none mature, two matured overnight, 1 fertilized with ICSI, Frozen day 3 but not good quality
    Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - Rekovelle 21-24 June, Menogon 25Jun-3Jul, Puregon 4-5Jul, Zomacton 21 23 25 27 29 Jun, Cetrotide 25Jun-5Jul, Gonasi 6Jul, ER 8Jul 5 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 but not good quality
    Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - Rekovelle 26-29 Jul, Menogon 30Jul-7Aug, Buserelin 26Jul-7Aug, Zomacton 26 28 30 Jul 1 3 Aug, Gonasi 7Aug, ER 9Aug 4 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized (normal IVF), 2 frozen day 3 good quality
    Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - Menogon 19-30Sep, Buserelin 19-30Sep, Zomacton 19 21 23 25 27 Sep, Ovitrelle 1 Oct, ER 3 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 excellent quality 

    Fav Quote: The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return

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    @elothair living in New Zealand. I'm pretty much a kiwi been here most of my life  :)

    @emmasemm I was born in Warrington, family is from liverpool. H is from Cheshire, but he has a pretty mongrel accent as he has lived all over. Where abouts are you from?
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    @lokibear89 I’m from the east coast - but also no accent as I’ve lived in so many different places around the world 
    Me 43 DH 45
    Married 12/2016
    TTC #1 since 04/2015
    AMA, DOR (AMH 0.65, AFC 2-4) and autoimmune issues (RA, APS), low TSH, adenomyosis
    7 retrievals, 3 transfers
    Jun19 FET BFP, due date 7th March 2020, DD born Feb20
    Sep17 IVF1 - 1ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
    Nov17 IVF2 - 1ER, 0F
    Jan18 IVF3 - 3ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
    Feb18 - second opinion and additional testing
    Apr18 IVF4 - cancelled (E2 too high)
    May/Jun18 IVF4 - 4ER, 0M, 1F, 1 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
    Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - 5 ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
    Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - 4ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (good quality)
    Aug/Sep18 IVF7 - cancelled (cyst)
    Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - 3ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen Day 3 (excellent quality)
    Oct18 IVF8 - Cancelled (cyst and too low TSH)
    Oct18-Jan19 bringing TSH under control
    Feb19 ERA and hysteroscopy
    Mar19 Investigation for fibroid and adenomyosis
    Apr19 adenomyosis confirmed, polyps removed
    Jun19 FET after 2 months Lupron, autoimmune protocol, transferred two day 3 frozen embryos
    Sep17 - Pergoveris 10-17 Sep, Orgalutran 15-18 Sep, Ovitrelle 18 Sep, ER 20 Sep for 2 follies, 1 mature egg, fertilized, ET 1x 2d 4-cell embryo 22/09, 05/10 BFN
    Nov17 IVF2 - Pergoveris 2-14 Nov, Orgalutran 5-14 Nov, Ovitrelle 15 Nov, ER 17 Nov for 3 follies, 1 mature egg, did not fertilize
    Jan18 IVF3 - Pergoveris 30 Dec - 8 Jan, Orgalutran 5-8 Jan, Ovitrelle 9 Jan, ER 11 Jan 3 eggs, 2 mature, 1 fertilized, ET 1x 4d 12-cell embryo 15/01, 24/01 BFN
    May/Jun18 IVF4 - Rekovelle 25-29 May, Menogon 30May - 2Jun, Zomacton 25 27 29 31 May and 2Jun, Cetrotide 30May - 3Jun, Gonasi 3Jun, ER 5Jun 4 eggs, none mature, two matured overnight, 1 fertilized with ICSI, Frozen day 3 but not good quality
    Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - Rekovelle 21-24 June, Menogon 25Jun-3Jul, Puregon 4-5Jul, Zomacton 21 23 25 27 29 Jun, Cetrotide 25Jun-5Jul, Gonasi 6Jul, ER 8Jul 5 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 but not good quality
    Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - Rekovelle 26-29 Jul, Menogon 30Jul-7Aug, Buserelin 26Jul-7Aug, Zomacton 26 28 30 Jul 1 3 Aug, Gonasi 7Aug, ER 9Aug 4 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized (normal IVF), 2 frozen day 3 good quality
    Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - Menogon 19-30Sep, Buserelin 19-30Sep, Zomacton 19 21 23 25 27 Sep, Ovitrelle 1 Oct, ER 3 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 excellent quality 

    Fav Quote: The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return

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    **lurking from TWW**
    @lokibear89 Ohhhh, it's my husband and mines DREAM to not only visit New Zealand, but to live there. We have heard amazing things about the people there and I know how beautiful it is. Ohhh what I wouldn't give to get out of stupid Texas, the U.S. in general, and live there. 
    Me: 32 | DH: 33
    Met: 2005 | Started Dating: 2009 | Married: 2013

    TTC#1: 06.2014;   BFP: 12.2015; DS Born: August 16, 2016
    TTC#2: 12.2017; BFP: 02.26.2018; CP 03.02.2018
                                BFP: 04.26.2018 DD Born: December 26, 2018
    Surprise Pregnancy #3; BFP: 01.11.2020; Due Date: September 19, 2021




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    @darkstar42 I'm sorry to hear you've been feeling down. I know how you feel, seeing a therapist sounds like a great idea. It's interesting how I can get so caught up in the IF world and thoughts revolving around it, and then the rest of life seems to happen. I'm glad you have the conference to look forward to. Work has also been a wonderful distraction for me. 

    Month/Cycle: 9/10
    CD: 12
    WAYDTGKU: HIO, OPK (digital one), acupuncture (including herbs this month), charting
    R/R: I'm grateful that all of my IF testing came back normal, including a repeat AMH, FSH, and an HSG. But, now what do I do.. just wait it out for several more BFN months until the RE feels comfortable starting medicated cycles..?
    CS/Q: Has anyone else noted a difference in length of their LP-- where it used to be 13 days, and then extended to 16?
    GTKY: If you could live anywhere else in the world where would it be and why? London.. I live in NYC and it's amazing but the diversity and old school vibe of London is just so cool
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    @Whitmore1027 it's pretty lovely we live up in Auckland which is mainly beaches but just arrived today in Queenstown which is more the way everyone imagines New Zealand and I'm not gonna lie it's pretty fantastic.

    View from where we are staying. 
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    @darkstar42 therapy might be helpful. It's so easy to just live and breath ttc.

    @blumoon18 hopefully in the interim you will get a bfp, but the wait must be frustrating.
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    @darkstar42 hugs friend. Hope you have a great time at the conference. 
    Is your DH not keen on you going to a therapist or just going himself? Mine will not go himself, but is ok if I want to - I said in case we need to move to DE then I think I need someone professional to make sure I’m really ready for it).This TTC journey is so damn tough. You’re already a rockstar, but even rockstars need support from time to time.  <3

    @blumoon18 great news on your testing. Sorry, I don’t remember how old you are? 
    If you do need to wait, why not double check your timing - if your LP seems to vary it might be down to sometimes taking a little longer to O from having the positive OPK (so LP would be the same) in which case keeping HIO EOD until +2 might be an idea. My naturopath says she sees a lot of people who just stop HIO one day early and then when they keep going the week after FW find success in the next few months.
    Also if you haven’t already, read It Starts With An Egg and see what you want to implement - at least CoQ10 doesn’t hurt anyone, also check your general vitamin levels with your PCP, and if your RE didn’t check your thyroid then check that. If you don’t have success by the time when the RE is ready to start with you, you’ve at least done the groundwork.
    Me 43 DH 45
    Married 12/2016
    TTC #1 since 04/2015
    AMA, DOR (AMH 0.65, AFC 2-4) and autoimmune issues (RA, APS), low TSH, adenomyosis
    7 retrievals, 3 transfers
    Jun19 FET BFP, due date 7th March 2020, DD born Feb20
    Sep17 IVF1 - 1ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
    Nov17 IVF2 - 1ER, 0F
    Jan18 IVF3 - 3ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
    Feb18 - second opinion and additional testing
    Apr18 IVF4 - cancelled (E2 too high)
    May/Jun18 IVF4 - 4ER, 0M, 1F, 1 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
    Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - 5 ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (not best quality)
    Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - 4ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen day 3 (good quality)
    Aug/Sep18 IVF7 - cancelled (cyst)
    Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - 3ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen Day 3 (excellent quality)
    Oct18 IVF8 - Cancelled (cyst and too low TSH)
    Oct18-Jan19 bringing TSH under control
    Feb19 ERA and hysteroscopy
    Mar19 Investigation for fibroid and adenomyosis
    Apr19 adenomyosis confirmed, polyps removed
    Jun19 FET after 2 months Lupron, autoimmune protocol, transferred two day 3 frozen embryos
    Sep17 - Pergoveris 10-17 Sep, Orgalutran 15-18 Sep, Ovitrelle 18 Sep, ER 20 Sep for 2 follies, 1 mature egg, fertilized, ET 1x 2d 4-cell embryo 22/09, 05/10 BFN
    Nov17 IVF2 - Pergoveris 2-14 Nov, Orgalutran 5-14 Nov, Ovitrelle 15 Nov, ER 17 Nov for 3 follies, 1 mature egg, did not fertilize
    Jan18 IVF3 - Pergoveris 30 Dec - 8 Jan, Orgalutran 5-8 Jan, Ovitrelle 9 Jan, ER 11 Jan 3 eggs, 2 mature, 1 fertilized, ET 1x 4d 12-cell embryo 15/01, 24/01 BFN
    May/Jun18 IVF4 - Rekovelle 25-29 May, Menogon 30May - 2Jun, Zomacton 25 27 29 31 May and 2Jun, Cetrotide 30May - 3Jun, Gonasi 3Jun, ER 5Jun 4 eggs, none mature, two matured overnight, 1 fertilized with ICSI, Frozen day 3 but not good quality
    Jun/Jul18 IVF5 - Rekovelle 21-24 June, Menogon 25Jun-3Jul, Puregon 4-5Jul, Zomacton 21 23 25 27 29 Jun, Cetrotide 25Jun-5Jul, Gonasi 6Jul, ER 8Jul 5 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 but not good quality
    Jul/Aug18 IVF6 - Rekovelle 26-29 Jul, Menogon 30Jul-7Aug, Buserelin 26Jul-7Aug, Zomacton 26 28 30 Jul 1 3 Aug, Gonasi 7Aug, ER 9Aug 4 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized (normal IVF), 2 frozen day 3 good quality
    Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - Menogon 19-30Sep, Buserelin 19-30Sep, Zomacton 19 21 23 25 27 Sep, Ovitrelle 1 Oct, ER 3 eggs, 3 mature, 2 fertilized with ICSI, 2 frozen day 3 excellent quality 

    Fav Quote: The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return

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    @elothair Vienna! You are so lucky! I'm so glad you got to do some sightseeing.

    @lokibear89 I am completely envious! I have had dreams about visiting New Zealand mainly from the POV of a LOTR nerd  B) My in-laws have gone and have said they would move there in a heartbeat if they could.

    @emmasemm FX for your appointment too! What are you writing your thesis on?

    @darkstar42 Take care of yourself and hopefully YH will come around. This process is all encompassing so I hope you get to relax and have fun at your conference.

    Month/Cycle: 12/10

    CD: 6

    WAYDTGKU: OT, HIO
     
    R/R: It's Monday, but it is AF's last day so I'm pretty pumped for that.

    CS/Q: - 

    GTKY: If you could live anywhere else in the world where would it be and why? It is pretty hard to beat Canada. I just wish my provincial government would stop ruining my beautiful province. I'd move to Montreal if my fiance would come with me :)
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    @emmasemm I'm 33, but my mom had POF at 37 or so, which is why I was quick to pull the trigger on seeing an RE. I will take your advice this cycle and keep going +1 or +2 from O day. I've been using Clearblue (this is my second cycle) and it's great to know when the estrogen is rising in addition to the LH surge.  I sure hope you can get some karyotyping done ASAP! I would totally make a flight to get that done if I were you, too. Is there a way to get the blood drawn locally and shipped overnight to the other country? I'm sure if it was possible, you would know by now. I hope your next IVF cycle comes very shortly!
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