Ok so I had my first pregnancy ugly cry last night... Went to happy hour last night. Our friend grabbed my drink (club soda with lime in a highball glass) and smells it, then shouts to the whole group OMG she’s pregnant! I had to deny deny deny while they all teased me terrribly. Some of these people I don’t even know very well. I cried on the way home because I was so angry! My body is none of your business people and there is a very good reason why I can’t tell you what’s really happening. It isn’t safe!
Ok so I had my first pregnancy ugly cry last night... Went to happy hour last night. Our friend grabbed my drink (club soda with lime in a highball glass) and smells it, then shouts to the whole group OMG she’s pregnant! I had to deny deny deny while they all teased me terrribly. Some of these people I don’t even know very well. I cried on the way home because I was so angry! My body is none of your business people and there is a very good reason why I can’t tell you what’s really happening. It isn’t safe!
It’s going to be a long wait until 12 weeks!
Wtf?!? I don't think I'd ever talk to her again. Who does she think she is?! This is beyond rude and intrusive. I'm so sorry @quiltandknit
@quiltandknit omg so sorry that happened. Some people just don't understand how personal and private the first trimester of pregnancy can be for some. I hope you get an apology!
Me 33 DH 41 TTC since 2016 Due: October 12, 2018 Location: Ontario, Canada
@chopchop25@hellopartyof5@chyvie Thanks guys. I am feeling much better about it today. MH and I had a long talk about it. Next time he sees this friend (it's a work friend) he's going to talk to him about how not cool that was and it should never happen again. I might text him later if I can do it without being too harsh.
@chopchop25@hellopartyof5@chyvie Thanks guys. I am feeling much better about it today. MH and I had a long talk about it. Next time he sees this friend (it's a work friend) he's going to talk to him about how not cool that was and it should never happen again. I might text him later if I can do it without being too harsh.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. Honestly, sometimes you need to be harsh. I personally find some of the harshest things that I say can be said without cussing. Cussing has its place too.
My husband told his sister it was fine to let her friends know via Facebook. Men can be idiots. When I found out I got mad since we weren't going to tell extended family and friends until later and he said, "I didn't know she was going to link us."
Me: 25 | DH: 34 Married since 2010, TTC since Dec 2013 Dx: PCOS
I KNEW my boss was stressed this morning, yet I popped in anyway to talk about a change in my work transition for next week. He got super annoyed. (He's already a pretty emotionally volatile guy anyway.) I went back to my desk and cried. He should be better under pressure anyway so I'm still pissed as F at him for not being a better sport with my transition, but definitely no reason to cry. YAYYY hormones.
Re: (Feb) Why my pregnant self is crying...
Went to happy hour last night. Our friend grabbed my drink (club soda with lime in a highball glass) and smells it, then shouts to the whole group OMG she’s pregnant! I had to deny deny deny while they all teased me terrribly. Some of these people I don’t even know very well. I cried on the way home because I was so angry! My body is none of your business people and there is a very good reason why I can’t tell you what’s really happening. It isn’t safe!
It’s going to be a long wait until 12 weeks!
TTC since 2016
Due: October 12, 2018
Location: Ontario, Canada
Married since 2010, TTC since Dec 2013
Dx: PCOS
He should be better under pressure anyway so I'm still pissed as F at him for not being a better sport with my transition, but definitely no reason to cry. YAYYY hormones.