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TWW Tues 2/13


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GTKY: What is your favourite thing to get or give on Valentines Day? 
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  • Lurking from WTO: YAY @josie12367!!! I'm sad you're not starting WTO but SOOO happy for you!!!
  • Unfortunately I'm moving to WTO. Fx for all you ladies! 
  • cate03cate03 member
    edited February 2018
    Month/Cycle: 2/2

    Cycle Day/DPO: 23/9

    Timing: pretty good

    Typical LP length: 13-14 days

    Testing: BFN today but I know it was too early to test. 

    R/R: Rant: Is it Friday yet this week is just dragging on at work. Rave: No boss in the office today!

    CS/Q: temps are still high so I'm hopefull

    GTKY: What is your favorite thing to get or give on Valentines Day? The last few years my husband has sent shari's berries to the office so I am hoping he sends them again this year. He once tried to send flowers but it ended up being a mess. They arrived at the end of the day, they had obviously not been cut or trimmed and instead of a dozen there were only 11 and a balloon. He was so pissed off he actually waited on hold for over an hour to complain to 1-800 flowers.  Photo in the spoiler because I don't think my explanation does it justice. I ended up throwing away half the green and spending over 30 minutes to make it decent. Honestly my favorite flowers are the $5 ones from the grocery store. 


  • Month/Cycle: 12/9 (Took 3 months off for asthma control)

    Cycle Day/DPO: 21/6

    Timing: pretty good

    Typical LP length: 12

    Testing: Only if AF doesn't show

    R/R: No real rant. Just trying to keep positive. My fiance isn't the most sexual of men so it can be difficult to come up with ways to get him in the mood other than lingerie. Any tips would be appreciated.

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY: I do love getting flowers. My fiance tends to buy something pretty unusual which I like. I love to give him something he has talked about wanting recently. It makes me feel good when I see his reaction.
  • suzycupcakesuzycupcake member
    edited February 2018
    Month/Cycle: 3rd treatment cycle

    Cycle Day/DPO: 17/1

    Timing: -5, -3, IUI on 0 and on 0 on our own

    Typical LP length: varies with treatment

    Testing: WFAF. I don't think I will do the beta either this time.

    R/R: I feel a little down about our timing. We've never gotten anything beyond "Good" and we made a considerable effort this time even. I'm hopeful though because we've done better than we have since trying with communication and making the effort in the intimacy department. So if this cycle doesn't work, at least we have grown and have the opportunity to take that into the next. It's not like I can tell MH that we still had only good timing even with all of the extra effort we made.

    We did end up getting a 31M sample which the NP said is incredible. He's all excited about that. I didn't have the heart to tell him that we got 28 last time it didn't work and also that more doesn't mean we get a higher chance than someone who had a smaller sample. The Nurse Practitioner looked at us when the procedure was done and said, "Have intercourse tonight and tomorrow morning". MH looked at me when we left and was like, "Is she freaking serious? Who has sex that close together? What planet does she live on?"

    I'm trying very hard to be optimistic about this. This moment right now is hard.

    CS/Q: No

    GTKY: What is your favourite thing to get or give on Valentines Day? I'm not really a holiday person or a forced merriment type of girl, but this year, I did get some cologne for MH as well as I got some lingerie that he will like.

    People think we become mothers when we give birth but the truth is we become mothers the moment we start calling our babies to us in our thoughts, dreams and prayers. Some paths are short and some are so long that you can easily forget where you were headed.

    How I feel all of the time.
    My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
    IVF
    IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
    Back on Levothyroxine
    FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
    FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
    Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt, 
    1st Beta on 7dpt 93
    2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!

    TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
    Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
    New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF

    IUI
    IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
    IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
    IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
    BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine 
    IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
    Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
    Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
     

  • @josie12367 yayyy. Happy for you!!!! 

    Month/Cycle: 7/7

    Cycle Day/DPO: 42/?16

    Timing: not good at all, -5

    Typical LP length: 12

    Testing: tested with Frer 2 days ago. BFN

    R/R:  i dont know whats up with AF. Ive never had such a long cycle. Longest before this was exactly a year ago, 38 days.  Had some pink watery discharge after BD last night and really expected AF to show up today but nothing. Rave: going to miami tom. Sunny warm days here i come! Although would have loved to have gone after AF was done and gone but oh well....


    GTKY: What is your favourite thing to get or give on Valentines Day? The cheesy red roses :) 
  • Month/Cycle: 4/4

    Cycle Day/DPO: 19/6

    Timing: not nearly as great as I'd like 

    Typical LP length: 13 days

    Testing: trying not to test until 2/21 and only if AF doesn't make an appearance. 

    R/R: Rant: it's insanely humid (100% humidity) here and I haven't slept in 3 days for more than a couple hours at a time. Mood swings are making me think I should test although I know it's too early and I need to calm the farm. Rave: just bought some amazing carbon fiber knitting needles from overseas and I'm having a blast playing with them. About to start a beanie but waiting for my Valentines Day present from DH (see below)

    GTKY: What is your favourite thing to get or give on Valentines Day? I love doing the quirky gifts.  This year DH's ordered some Harry Potter stitch markers for my knitting from etsy and I got him a handcrafted dice box for his DnD dice set. We really suck at surprises though so we told each other ages ago what we're giving. He has DnD on Thursday just so he can use his new box. 
  • Month/Cycle: 9/6

    Cycle Day/DPO:26/8

    Timing: -3,-1,0,+2

    Typical LP length: 15-17 days

    Testing: Monday if AF doesn't turn up

    R/R: Hot humid and there is supposed to be another storm next week. Also have a cold which has given me a headache, so feeling just great today. On the bright side I went through all the charting rubbish with my DH last night and he wasn't a total arse and actually listened to me.

    CS/Q: Temps staying high for now.

    GTKY: What is your favourite thing to get or give on Valentines Day? Don't celebrate it, but  forgot about pancake tuesday so we might do that for dinner tonight (its Wednesday here)
  • @josie12367 Yay Fx for you that is a very pretty temp increase.

    @offtoneverland Testing the same, I am hoping I can hold off till monday but we will see how crazy I am feeling on sunday morn@melrrr

    @meladams10 Sorry, FX for next time.

    @darkstar42 What is it you do if you don't mind me asking. I deffo don't miss working on projects with others from my Uni days. THere was always one in every group that did nothing.

    @meri-mac Can't say I have been particularly romantic lately, I mainly just tell him when we are doing it. And then continue to do it after O'ing so he doesnt think I am using him for his body  ;) In all seriousness I am pretty boring and just start making out with him.

    @suzycupcake It can be so hard to stay positive FX it happens for you soon.

    @nasah15 enjoy your holiday!

    @mrsduddles Humidity is awful where I am it has got to a point where everything just feels damp.



  • @lokibear89 I know the feeling!  My office is climate controlled and the outside of the window is weeping with condensation. Pancakes sound good. Really good. I might have to do that for dinner tonight myself.
  • @meladams10 I'm so sorry about AF  :'( Be kind to yourself tonight.
    @darkstar42 It's soooo good to be on the daily with you again! I feel like it's been forever. That stinks about the student who's not pulling his weight on the research project. Hope the meeting went well!
    @suzycupcake I'm so sorry you're feeling down about your timing. I so hope the timing was perfect and that things will work out for you. That's too funny about YH being so excited about his sperm sample. 
    @lokibear89 I'll try and hold off on testing until Monday with you! Well, maybe I can test on Sunday since that's technically Monday in your time zone.  :p I hope you feel better soon! 
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    DD1: 8/2014  <3
    TTC #2: 6/2017
    BFP 8/3/2017 | CP 8/4
    BFP 10/16/2017 | CP 10/21
    BFP 12/18/2017 | CP 12/28
    BFP 2/15/2018 | EDD: November 2nd | It's a girl!
    DD2: 10/2018  <3
  • @offtoneverland I don't know that I can live without my bed heater anymore... My husband's not even warm enough. Hope you can replace it ASAP!

    Month/Cycle: 8/7

    Cycle Day/DPO: 26/6

    Timing: -1

    Typical LP length: 13

    Testing: Next week. I hope. Maybe this weekend. 

    R/R: Rant: My husband and I do a bunch of random jobs for work (property managers/assistants/nannies, etc), and tomorrow HAPPENS to be a day my boss has his children, and so we have to make their Valentine's dinner. We'll do our thing on Thursday, I guess, but it is what it is. Not a big deal, I know, but I didn't realize until the other day, and had to re-schedule everything. Rave: I volunteer at a cat/dog rescue, and convinced my boss to adopt a cat from my rescue, which is really exciting!

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY: What is your favourite thing to get or give on Valentines Day? My husband takes me out to a fancy restaurant every year! And he never chooses wrong, since I make the reservation!  :D 
  • R/R: Rant: As I get closer to testing time, I keep analyzing every little symptom: the abdominal pressure, nausea, the frequent bathroom runs. Each month I perceive symptoms and then AF shows up, it is so hard. I'm trying not to get my hopes up, just in case, but it is hard. I'm afraid of another BFN.

    Rave: I get to leave work early today and I have Monday off. Video games, here I come.
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