TTC After a Loss

New here

Hi everyone. I wanted to introduce myself. I don't feel like I "fit" anywhere right now but miss chatting with my birth month board so I thought this might be a good place to come. I found out today I'm having a miscarriage. Baby didn't grow and a heartbeat was never found. I have a 5 year old DD and had 1 miscarriage before her. I was earlier along with the first so I'm nervous about how this will go but I'm hoping I'll be able to let this resolve naturally. This was not a planned pregnancy but our hearts quickly attached to the idea of expanding our family and now want to try again once I recover from this. It will be a little while until we are TTC since I am just going through this process but I wanted to go ahead and introduce myself here. 

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  • etnyahetnyah member
    edited February 2018
    I’m sorry for your loss. I’m in the same camp: unplanned pregnancy, quickly got excited about starting a family (we have no children currently) only to have an mc early on.

    This forum has been very helpful to me, it’s nice to talk and read the experiences of people who have been through the same. Everyone here are really supportive and knowledgeable, and very welcoming to us new people! Hopefully your stay will be short! 
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
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  • So sorry for your loss.  Welcome to group join in wherever you feel you comfortable 
  • Sorry for your loss. Welcome to the group. I hope your stay here is short and you get your rainbow baby soon. 
  • So sorry for your loss. Take time and be kind to yourself. We are here whenever you feel ready
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  I hope you find the support you need here.  Unfortunately, we all get it.  
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
  • Welcome to the group, and sorry for your loss.  There is a lot of support on the board from ladies going through the same thing.
  • I’m so sorry for your loss, but welcome to our group. This group has been a lifesaver for me, as all these amazing women really understand what we’re all going through. We’re here if you need us. 
  • I'm really sorry you are here, but glad to have you.  <3  It sounds like it was a blighted ovum?  That's what I experienced as well.  Here for support! 
  • @ccvslp it might have been. I'm not really sure to be honest. Thank you!!  I'm glad to have somewhere to come where others have been there too. 
  • Hi, I am new here as well. I had my first baby last March, but as I am 37 we didn’t want to wait before having a second,especially as it took us three years of trying with the first. Well this past December I got a an early positive... then two days later started bleeding. I guess it was what they call a chemical pregnancy, but I was shocked at how attached I had become to the little potential life! I think in some way to a faster, deeper degree then my first pregnancy because now I know how much love could exist for a little human that comes out of you!

    sadly a month later... I had a second chemical pregnancy. I am now swearing off pregnancy tests until two weeks after a missed period! It’s just too heart breaking to know when I might have thought I just had an extra long cycle.

  • @onechoctawgirl so sorry for your losses.  
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