Sorry if this isn't the right place to post, but I wasn't sure. If it isn't, I can rename and erase the thread. I just couldn't think of another board or area that would be able to provide responses. I was previously a participant on this board after my CP back in December 2016 and you ladies were helpful, now I find myself in a different situation.
***TW***I am currently 8 weeks postpartum*** and I found out today that I have partially retained placenta that is causing non-stop bleeding. Because it poses a risk of infection or hemorrhage, my OB recommended a D&C.
I have never had any kind of surgery or been put under before. I know it's a short procedure, but I have a lot of anxiety about it. The past few weeks have been a whirlwind of issues from dealing with an abscess in my breast that had to be surgically removed but while awake and with local anesthetic (making breastfeeding difficult on the right side), multiple rounds of antibiotics and now dealing with this. I don't know if it's having the procedure or just everything piling up that is making me anxious.
Given the unfortunate reality of why many of you ladies are on this board, I figured there might be some who had a D&C. Would you be able to share your experiences? Was it painful after for recovery? Does it impact future fertility?
Thank you in advance.
Re: Experience with D&C? Please share.
TW I had a D&C in early November. I was only 6 1/2 weeks and we were trying to test the tissue in the hopes of understanding my third loss. I was put under very briefly - I think the procedure was only about 15-20 minutes for me, woke up maybe an hour after I went to sleep. I had some cramping but they give you pain stuff which helps. I stayed in bed and rested that day and then the next day was back on my feet. I did have some residual cramping over maybe the next 4 days, but it wasn’t terrible at all. I did have the worst period ever my first cycle post-procedure. However,being pp I expect your first period will be terrible no matter what.
The biggest risks are that your ute could be punctured or you could develop Asherman’s (adhesions). Make sure you have a dr who performs these procedures regularly. I think in your case the risk of NOT doing this is much highter to your overall fertility than having the procedure. Unfortunately it’s a pretty common procedure and is low risk. I would also ask your dr what to expect as your mileage may very given you just gave birth. Good luck to you.
I agree the risk of not having it is greater than having it. My doc gave me a prescription of percoset for after the procedure. Having never gone under, I know its short, it gives me the most anxiety.
Its reassuring to hear that it was mostly mild cramping after. I havent had my first PP period that I know of (can't tell between current bleeding), but you are right, its probably going to be bad regardless.
ETA I have no idea how often my OB performs this procedure but my practice doesn't let us switch doctors. I will ask her but not sure of my options even if she hasnt done it much.
dragonfly87-2 I remember you from late 2016. Congrats on the rainbow baby and sorry you need a D&C. But it’s really not a big deal, procedure-wise. Mine was easy-peasy. I had one for my first MC. I was put under and didn’t have much pain at all right away. I was SUPER exhausted for several days after the surgery. I think I tried to do too much, too fast, because I felt ok… so I ended up with a lot of pain several days afterward. (I twisted/turned digging up sweet potatoes like 4 days post-op. *sigh* I’m an idiot). I can’t speak for future fertility since… I’m still here and obviously have had no luck. I guess be grateful you’re going in post-partum and that you have your LO at home, and that you’re not going in for a MC!
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
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@Spartanrd4 @dpjennifer thank you for sharing your experiences and sorry for your losses/having to go through that. It is reassuring that many felt it was a pretty easy procedure and not a lot of issues on the back end. Definitely grateful to have my LO at home and crossing my fingers it goes smoothly and this will be the last of my postpartum issues.
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
It really helped me stay calm in anticipation of the procedure. I had it done this past Wednesday morning. My doctor insisted on the anesthesia since it is her normal protocol, so I went with it. Other than the IV hurting during insertion (I have small veins), I didn't have any pain. In total, it took about 40 minutes because there small fragments of placenta in different spots, but she said it's all gone now. No pain or cramps after either. Ended up feeling like a power nap and the only negative side affect was my blood sugar dropped a bit (which is common for me), so I was dizzy after. I am glad it's over and hoping the bleeding stops in the next few days. It's noticeably less at this point though.
Unfortunarely I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. They gave me 3 options: natural, induced with medication and D&C. I wanted it to be as less invasive as possible but also to make sure the tissue got released, so I chose the #2 (induced with meds).
Long story short, they had to do it twice because the first time was not enough to release the sac. Since all the process was very painful, I chose to have the D&C the same day when they told me the second induction was not enough to release all the tissue.
After the D&C I thought that was the best decision I made because I went to sleep, did not feel anything and after waking up had minimal bleeding. After 2 months I got my period back and hopefully my husband and I will start TTC again.
I hope this is helpful
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1