@kiwi2628 I hope the day flies by for you!! I can't imagine how hard it is to wait for that phone call. I hope you have so many fertilized eggs!! Keep us updated!!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
Cycle Day/DPO: 28/8
Timing: -4, -2, -1, 0
Typical LPs length: 10ish?
Testing: Trying not to
R/R: Rant: Sad morning. I feel like I'm out for this cycle. It's hard to stay positive. Rave: My mom made my DH and I an icebox cake. I'm definitely enjoying a piece when I get home!
CS/Q:
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving? I'm with you @kiwi2628! Why jump out of a perfectly good airplane?!
Hi. I’m new. Allow me to discuss my period with you? Thanks!
I hope 2 comes quickly @kiwi2628! I don’t think I’d be able to function waiting for that info!
@meladams10 is it weird that I have no idea what an “icebox cake” is?
Month/Cycle: ? (Trying-ish for a year or so)
Cycle Day/DPO: 24/9
Timing: -2, 0
Typical LPs length: 13-14 days
Testing: I have tested negative today. I have tried to be a chill “no test til period is late” type, but have long since accepted that I cannot resist. With my 2nd I had positive tests at pod 10, so I always lose hope around that time if no positive by then.
R/R: As I have said in my intro, my husband is very non-commital to getting pregnant again. Months like these when we have good timing are so hard to see negatives. I’m 36 years old! I don’t have years to decide! I really wish he would just give a strong “yes” or a strong “no” instead of every now and then giving me hope!
CS/Q:
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving?
No way! I live near a sky-diving facility and it is not uncommon for people to be injured (and at least 2 deaths that I can think of in recent years)! I’m fine being thrilled by eating a fine cookie.
Welcome @knottie599000b4c3b1d557 ! The icebox cake my mom makes is homemade whipped cream with chocolate wafers, think cookies and cream! It's SO GOOD! It's hard to be a no testing person!!
R/R: I’ve
been a terrible bumpie lately. Sorry!...
I just want this cycle to be over with. I know I’m out, and I know it was because
of stress. I just want a new, fresh,
stress free cycle. AF should show
tomorrow, but this has been a weird cycle so we’ll see if she behaves. On a good note, we finally have an SA
scheduled for MH for this Friday! He’s
super nervous about it. He now all of a
sudden doesn’t want to adopt or have any major medical interventions if we can’t
conceive naturally. He wants me to
consider life without children… I think he’s just saying all this because he
thinks the SA is going to be bad and putting those thoughts in my head will “lessen
the blow” so to speak. But still, you can imagine how I feel.
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: Have
you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving? I would love to go! I am deathly afraid of heights but love the
adrenaline!
@kiwi2628 FX for you. I’ll be thinking about you today
@meladams10 It is very hard to
stay positive during the TWW. I hate it!
*TW* TTC history
Me:32 DH:31 Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017 Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal DX: Unexplained 8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN 9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN 11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN 12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst 1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019 10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
@LJMoon6 Sounds like we're having the same kind of cycle! We just gotta keep staying positive even though it sucks!! Fx for your DH's SA Friday. It stinks that he is being like that. I don't think men understand us at all sometimes. Maybe just tell him ya'll will cross each bridge as you get to it and ya'll don't have to make any big decisions until you find out the SA results. Hang in there!!
@meladams10 Sounds like a thrilling dessert! Also, you are an expert tagger getting my whole “knottie” name typed out. My username was supposed to be/is Lechels796 (not sure what happened to turn it into “knottie6848462738573625272!:)37282’qj” but hoping it will be fixed soon....)
@kiwi2628 I bet the wait until 2pm will be torturous! I'm crossing my fingers for good news for you. @meladams10 I'm sorry you already feel out. You're only 8dpo though so you still have time. You had great timing so no reason to worry yet that this cycle will be unsuccessful! The cake sounds delicious. Hope it helps raise your spirits a bit. @lechels796 Welcome! I see your new screen name now. Thanks for changing it; it'll be so much easier to tag you and get to know you. Just FYI, it's best to add TW's to any mentions of past pregnancies as it can sometimes be hurtful for some people who've been trying a long time to see. We try to make these daily threads a safe space for everyone. Thanks! @LJMoon6 Oh no! I'm so sorry that YH has been saying those things. I'm very glad he scheduled the SA and I hope the results come back good. I bet YH just needs more time to process all of the "what ifs" in case trying naturally doesn't work out for you. Do you think maybe he's mostly scared about the cost of those things?
Month/Cycle: 8/7 (1 benched AL)
Cycle Day/DPO: CD 20/not counting DPO because I wasn't charting this cycle.
Timing: Good
Typical LPs length: 11
Testing: Jan 22nd, the day of my first RE appointment, jic.
R/R: DH and I made Indian food in the instant pot for dinner yesterday and it was delicious!
GTKY: Never! I never would because I'm scared of heights and I hate the feeling of falling.
R/R: HOW DOES ANYONE SURVIVE THE TWW WITHOUT SEEMINGLY GOING INSANE?!
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving? Hell. No. Driving a car is as close to living on the edge as I can manage.
@kiwi2628 Good luck, let us know what they say this afternoon!
@meladams10 Looks like you had great timing, so don't lose hope yet.
@ljmoon6 Afraid of heights? Yes. Adrenaline junkie? Nope! I prefer the boring and predictable life.
@lechels796 Have you asked your husband for more encouragement? Mine was acting rather nonchalant about having a baby, and I finally just said that I needed him to show more excitement and make me feel like he's in this with me. Since that talk, he's been much more vocal about how he feels.
@offtoneverland Thank you for the uplifting comments! How do you like the instant pot? I have heard lots of good things about it! @stithof Thank you for the positive vibes! Sometimes other people's driving is down right terrifying!!
Testing: I'm not sure yet, maybe next week or just WFAF and see what happens
R/R: I have a work ladies happy hour tonight which will be nice. My H just bought us a 75 inch flat screen for the new house. He's insane. We barely watch TV but when we do he wants our home theater to be perfect. I swear it's not blood that runs through his veins, he's connected by wires.
CS/Q:
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving?
@meladams10
I am more of the type of person who wants a plan. Of course you can’t really know how you’re
going to feel when you’re in the moment. We talked about all this last cycle around
this same time and I thought we were on the same page. He’s the type of guy
that says one thing and then a day later changes his mind and says
another. He’s very bull headed too… ugh
men.
@offtoneverland
I know it’s about the money. Everything
is always about the money. It is
insanely expensive but we both have great jobs.
We live below our means. I know
his aunt and uncle had problems TTC and decided against adoption (for money
reasons too). And they are very
happy. It’s a good example to look at
but I didn’t think we were even close to thinking this yet. I mean we haven’t even seen an RE yet! WTH.
@stithof
I love adrenaline! Bridge jumping,
ziplining, dangling feet off of the edge of a cliff (picture of my younger self
in spoiler). It’s so much fun!
*TW* TTC history
Me:32 DH:31 Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017 Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal DX: Unexplained 8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN 9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN 11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN 12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst 1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019 10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
@galactickates Yaaaay, you joined me in TWW! MH is the same, wires in the place of blood. lol! We had a fancy TV from a couple of years ago, but he had to upgrade us to a new 4k one as soon as the new Xbox came out. He also just bought some app for $15 to upgrade the sound through his video game headphones. I couldn't believe he actually spent money on that. I think our husbands would get along well. Enjoy your happy hour! Hope you have something yumy to drink. @stithof The first TWW is horrible and it's easy to get super anxious. I've found the subsequent TWWs to not be as bad, although I still test early every cycle because, why not? GL to you! @LJMoon6 Hopefully YH can let go of these thoughts for a little while and just take things as they come. It's definitely not worth it to stress about it just yet when you don't know what's going to happen. @darkstar42 I see your lovetits. Hope you're having a good day!
@meladams10 Sorry, I just realized I forgot to respond to your question. I got my instant pot for Christmas and so far I really like it. It's super handy because you can saute in it, then add the other ingredients and cook it all really quickly. So it's a legit one pot meal which makes clean up super easy!
Re: TWW Tues 1/16
Month/Cycle: 17/20
Cycle Day/DPO: 15/1
Timing: The sperm were injected into the eggs exactly 36 hours after an LH surge, so I would say pretty damn good
Typical LPs length: I am on meds, so it doesnt matter
Testing: No idea, I will find out on Saturday if I even have any blasts to transfer
R/R: Waiting for everything is so nerve wracking! Just waiting until 2 when I get a call about how many of my eggs fertilized, hopefully a bunch!
CS/Q:
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving? Hell no
@kiwi2628 I hope the day flies by for you!! I can't imagine how hard it is to wait for that phone call. I hope you have so many fertilized eggs!! Keep us updated!!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
Cycle Day/DPO: 28/8
Timing: -4, -2, -1, 0
Typical LPs length: 10ish?
Testing: Trying not to
R/R: Rant: Sad morning. I feel like I'm out for this cycle. It's hard to stay positive. Rave: My mom made my DH and I an icebox cake. I'm definitely enjoying a piece when I get home!
CS/Q:
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving? I'm with you @kiwi2628! Why jump out of a perfectly good airplane?!
Hi. I’m new. Allow me to discuss my period with you? Thanks!
I hope 2 comes quickly @kiwi2628! I don’t think I’d be able to function waiting for that info!
@meladams10 is it weird that I have no idea what an “icebox cake” is?
Month/Cycle: ? (Trying-ish for a year or so)
Cycle Day/DPO: 24/9
Timing: -2, 0
Typical LPs length: 13-14 days
Testing: I have tested negative today. I have tried to be a chill “no test til period is late” type, but have long since accepted that I cannot resist. With my 2nd I had positive tests at pod 10, so I always lose hope around that time if no positive by then.
R/R: As I have said in my intro, my husband is very non-commital to getting pregnant again. Months like these when we have good timing are so hard to see negatives. I’m 36 years old! I don’t have years to decide! I really wish he would just give a strong “yes” or a strong “no” instead of every now and then giving me hope!
CS/Q:
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving?
No way! I live near a sky-diving facility and it is not uncommon for people to be injured (and at least 2 deaths that I can think of in recent years)! I’m fine being thrilled by eating a fine cookie.
Month/Cycle: 9/9
Cycle Day/DPO: 28/13
Timing: -3, -1, 1
Typical LPs length: 13
Testing: BFN all weekend long… Ugh!
R/R: I’ve been a terrible bumpie lately. Sorry!... I just want this cycle to be over with. I know I’m out, and I know it was because of stress. I just want a new, fresh, stress free cycle. AF should show tomorrow, but this has been a weird cycle so we’ll see if she behaves. On a good note, we finally have an SA scheduled for MH for this Friday! He’s super nervous about it. He now all of a sudden doesn’t want to adopt or have any major medical interventions if we can’t conceive naturally. He wants me to consider life without children… I think he’s just saying all this because he thinks the SA is going to be bad and putting those thoughts in my head will “lessen the blow” so to speak. But still, you can imagine how I feel.
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving? I would love to go! I am deathly afraid of heights but love the adrenaline!
@kiwi2628 FX for you. I’ll be thinking about you today
@meladams10 It is very hard to stay positive during the TWW. I hate it!
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
@meladams10 I'm sorry you already feel out. You're only 8dpo though so you still have time. You had great timing so no reason to worry yet that this cycle will be unsuccessful! The cake sounds delicious. Hope it helps raise your spirits a bit.
@lechels796 Welcome! I see your new screen name now. Thanks for changing it; it'll be so much easier to tag you and get to know you. Just FYI, it's best to add TW's to any mentions of past pregnancies as it can sometimes be hurtful for some people who've been trying a long time to see. We try to make these daily threads a safe space for everyone. Thanks!
@LJMoon6 Oh no! I'm so sorry that YH has been saying those things. I'm very glad he scheduled the SA and I hope the results come back good. I bet YH just needs more time to process all of the "what ifs" in case trying naturally doesn't work out for you. Do you think maybe he's mostly scared about the cost of those things?
Month/Cycle: 8/7 (1 benched AL)
Cycle Day/DPO: CD 20/not counting DPO because I wasn't charting this cycle.
Timing: Good
Typical LPs length: 11
Testing: Jan 22nd, the day of my first RE appointment, jic.
R/R: DH and I made Indian food in the instant pot for dinner yesterday and it was delicious!
GTKY: Never! I never would because I'm scared of heights and I hate the feeling of falling.
DD1: 8/2014
TTC #2: 6/2017
BFP 8/3/2017 | CP 8/4
BFP 10/16/2017 | CP 10/21
BFP 12/18/2017 | CP 12/28
BFP 2/15/2018 | EDD: November 2nd | It's a girl!
DD2: 10/2018
Month/Cycle: 1/1
Cycle Day/DPO: 23/8
Timing: -1, 0, 1
Typical LPs length: Hard to say.
Testing: Saturday...if I can wait!
R/R: HOW DOES ANYONE SURVIVE THE TWW WITHOUT SEEMINGLY GOING INSANE?!
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving? Hell. No. Driving a car is as close to living on the edge as I can manage.
@kiwi2628 Good luck, let us know what they say this afternoon!
@meladams10 Looks like you had great timing, so don't lose hope yet.
@ljmoon6 Afraid of heights? Yes. Adrenaline junkie? Nope! I prefer the boring and predictable life.
@lechels796 Have you asked your husband for more encouragement? Mine was acting rather nonchalant about having a baby, and I finally just said that I needed him to show more excitement and make me feel like he's in this with me. Since that talk, he's been much more vocal about how he feels.
@stithof Thank you for the positive vibes! Sometimes other people's driving is down right terrifying!!
Month/Cycle:5/3
Cycle Day/DPO: 18
Timing: really good
Typical LPs length: 13 days
Testing: I'm not sure yet, maybe next week or just WFAF and see what happens
R/R: I have a work ladies happy hour tonight which will be nice. My H just bought us a 75 inch flat screen for the new house. He's insane. We barely watch TV but when we do he wants our home theater to be perfect. I swear it's not blood that runs through his veins, he's connected by wires.
CS/Q:
GTKY: Have you ever, or would you ever, go sky diving?
That's a big hell no.
@meladams10 I am more of the type of person who wants a plan. Of course you can’t really know how you’re going to feel when you’re in the moment. We talked about all this last cycle around this same time and I thought we were on the same page. He’s the type of guy that says one thing and then a day later changes his mind and says another. He’s very bull headed too… ugh men.
@lechels796 Hi and welcome!
@offtoneverland I know it’s about the money. Everything is always about the money. It is insanely expensive but we both have great jobs. We live below our means. I know his aunt and uncle had problems TTC and decided against adoption (for money reasons too). And they are very happy. It’s a good example to look at but I didn’t think we were even close to thinking this yet. I mean we haven’t even seen an RE yet! WTH.
@stithof I love adrenaline! Bridge jumping, ziplining, dangling feet off of the edge of a cliff (picture of my younger self in spoiler). It’s so much fun!
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
@LJMoon6 I love the picture!! So cool!
@stithof The first TWW is horrible and it's easy to get super anxious. I've found the subsequent TWWs to not be as bad, although I still test early every cycle because, why not? GL to you!
@LJMoon6 Hopefully YH can let go of these thoughts for a little while and just take things as they come. It's definitely not worth it to stress about it just yet when you don't know what's going to happen.
@darkstar42 I see your lovetits.
DD1: 8/2014
TTC #2: 6/2017
BFP 8/3/2017 | CP 8/4
BFP 10/16/2017 | CP 10/21
BFP 12/18/2017 | CP 12/28
BFP 2/15/2018 | EDD: November 2nd | It's a girl!
DD2: 10/2018
@LJMoon6 I’m sorry your H is not being nice about the whole thing!
@offtoneverland again my mouth is watering at your dinner choice.
Month/Cycle:2/2
CD: 22/9???
Timing: Hopefully good.
LP: 14 days
Testing: Only if I’m late
Rant/Rave: Rant: I’m anxious about my annual GYN tomorrow, last year my PAP was abnormal. Rave: ***TW***I finally weaned DS! ***END TW***
CS/Q: nada
GTKY: No, i don’t even like planes.
DD1: 8/2014
TTC #2: 6/2017
BFP 8/3/2017 | CP 8/4
BFP 10/16/2017 | CP 10/21
BFP 12/18/2017 | CP 12/28
BFP 2/15/2018 | EDD: November 2nd | It's a girl!
DD2: 10/2018