This was my first pregnancy and first miscarriage. I was 15 weeks when the pregnancy no longer showed on the ultrasound. I waited 13 weeks to tell everyone. Now I have to spread the news of the end... Everyone that I have told this far as ask "well what happened?" Or "why?" I don't know the answer neither does my midwife and I don't think it matters. I just tell them about how I found out. I don't know how else to make them stop asking. What have you ladies found has worked? I find myself losing patience and tact. I'd just like to know I'm not alone in this.