This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's.... formula feeding items! We have a later thread more generally focused on bottles, but we can touch on that now as well as brands of formula, formula making devices, anything that's related.
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Re: Product Spotlight Series: Formula Feeding Items
Favorite [formula feeding item]: Kirkland brand formula (Costco)
Link/picture: https://m.costco.com/Kirkland-Signature-Non-GMO*-Infant-Formula-3-count--34-oz.product.100292648.html
Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.): ~$16-17 a package
What you like about it: Price and quality. It’s very similar to the more expensive pro Similac but cheaper. We actually did the math and got a Costco membership to buy this formula because it still saved us a ton of money to get it. One thing about this one is that is doesn’t contain Palm Olein which was something that was important to my husband. Some research says it interferes with bone development.
What you don't like about it, if anything: it’s a bit foamy when mixed. We combated that by adding a few infant gas drops to the mix and never had any tummy troubles that way. The other thing was that DS is just in general constipated by formula. Pedi encouraged me not to change though because otherwise he wasn’t refluxinf or having any other issues. What she told me to do was add just 1/2 an ounce of pure apple juice a day (so not every time) to the formula per months old he was. The fiber in the juice helped keep him regular. Once we introduced purees I didn’t need it anymore. It was so little he never noticed it was there, but it helped him be regular.
Is there a [formula feeding item] you don't have but are considering? Why?: no
Is there a [formula feeding item] you've tried that you absolutely hate? Why?: nope
Additional thoughts on [formula feeding items]?: Honestly the best kind is 100% the already mixed kind they were giving him in the NICU. But that stuff is so expensive. I wish I could have afforded it but nah. Also, I just want to say, they put a lot of pressure on mamas to breastfeed but sometimes it isn’t possible or sustainable. I couldn’t get any more than an ounce combined from pumping and my NICU baby and I never could establish a nursing relationship. Things happen, and real life isn’t a textbook of ideals. If you have to use formula or want to for your own mental health/self care that’s more than okay. I’m going to try to breast feed this time, but honestly if I can’t, I’m going to be 100% okay with that because I had a really good experience formula feeding my first.
Similar to what @pupsicle23 said, our hospital/ped office does once weekly Well Baby check in’s where baby gets weighed, measured, visit with a nurse/CLC, etc and every week you show up you can grab a free sample can of formula, or trade in any samples you received in the mail for the kind you actually want to use.
DD had reflux so we had to use a reflux specific formula. I also BF first, and then would supplement with formula. We didn't fully FF until she was 6 months.
Favorite [formula feeding item]:
Enfamil A.R. Link
Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
Well, if you do subscribe and save on Amazon it wasn't too bad. You just really gotta shop around and look for deals. I eventually switched to the Walmart version of it, and did half Enfamil and half Walmart.
What you like about it:
It helped DD's reflux.
What you don't like about it, if anything:
It was foamy so it was difficult to get to go through a nipple. I spent days upon weeks upon months frustrated with this. Eventually we found a formula pitcher that helped so much. I could make a big batch, sit it in the fridge, and the foam would disperse. This is the pitcher. (I didn't have this problem with we were just supplementing. Something about it being mixed with BM i guess)
Additional thoughts on [formula feeding items]?:
Figure out a system that works for you. I would make a pitcher right before bed so it was ready to get her bottles ready in the morning. Don't get discouraged if one type doesn't work at first either. And don't be afraid to try Costco/BJs brand! It really is all the same stuff. I got hung up on using the "fancy" name brand, but when I actually compared the two, there wasn't much difference.
I'll save my bottle talk for the next spotlight
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
Plus, using formula doesn’t mean the end of BFing or that you won’t be able to EBF in the future. I combo fed for 10 months.
We used Baby’s Only before switching to Honest. After a ton of research + availability these were the ones I was most comfortable with.
I second the formula dispenser that @lisa2589 suggested. Necessary for daycare and when you are out of the house.
Also, DS never had warm bottles and ultimately disliked them when daycare tried. He had BM and formula from the fridge.
We never bought the special water for formula, just microwaved it for the first six months.
also agree with room temp water if baby allows it. We never warmed a bottle. I'm sure that helped when we were out and about and couldn't warm one.
we did off brand formula also. Think we used Walgreens brand most often cause it was closest, besides the brand name ones at the grocery store.
DS: born oct 2012
TFAS: BFP #1 aug16. miscarriage sept16
BFP #2 nov16 MMC dec16. d&c jan17
BFP #3 sept17 EDD 5/31/18
fingers crossed for our rainbow baby
we had to warm DDs formula. It was the only way she took it. To the point where it was almost too hot. This took forever to break. Try not having to warm it lol. We were warming her whole milk for awhile at first too because of this. Ugh.
We used our normal tap water. When we visited my dads, we would use bottled water only because he has well water. I had no idea you were supposed to use “special” water. Oh well.
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
I also combo fed my son for the first seven months. He switched between BM and formula bottles without issue. If you also elect to combo feed, it is generally recommended to NOT mix formula and BM in the same bottle. BM has a much longer shelf life, so you can save a bottle for up to a couple days if your baby doesn’t finish it (my kid was a snacker sometimes). Unfinished formula has to be tossed after an hour.
Husband: 35
Married: June 2007
Son Max born 1/10/17
BFP #2: 10/5/17; EDD: 6/11/18
First Son - born 2013
Third Son - due June 9, 2018