Trigger Warning: I'm out, mommas.

Duckie678 · December 2017

I wanted to thank you all for being supportive for these past couple months. I had my first ultrasound Wednesday and it seems that I have an empty gestational sac. My doctor and husband are trying to be optimistic and think I'm just not as far along as I thought, but scientifically I don't see how that's possible, and plus I just know that's not the case. They want me to wait a week or two and see if another ultrasound will show something, but I would rather just move on. I wish my doctor would listen to me, and I wish I can explain to my husband without crushing him that its not a viable pregnancy, and I don't want us waiting and clinging to hope and be let down again. Since there hasn't been bleeding they don't want to move forward just yet.

I took yesterday off of work and came back today, but thankfully its a half day because of our holiday party. I don't plan on staying, I just want to go home. Thank you again for everything, and I wish you all happy and healthy pregnancies.

4deep · December 2017

Oh sweetie, I’m sorry. That’s awful news going into this weekend. I’m so sorry they aren’t respecting your wishes to move on. Are you 100% sure on your dates? Is there any way at all there could be a viable pregnancy if you wait? I’m so very sorry. I wish I had words to help. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

babybakie · December 2017

I am so deeply sorry to hear this.

You are in my Prayers.

powellgirl · December 2017

I’m so sorry about your news. Take some time for yourself. Praying for you, your husband, and your doctors.

WorkinWeezel · December 2017

@Duckie678 I'm so sorry, sweetie. It has to be difficult to know what is going on in your body but not being able to move on. You'll be in my thoughts.

acunamatada · December 2017

Oh no, I'm so so sorry for your loss. And I'm sorry you're not being heard, I've been there, it's twice the hurt. Please take care of yourself.

stillcozy · December 2017

im so sorry for your loss

busymommy23 · December 2017

Im so sorry for your loss.

comealongponds · December 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.

safire3 · December 2017

So sorry to hear this. Please take care of yourself and take time to grieve. Did they also check your hcg? I really hope you can move on soon.

morethanamama · December 2017

I'm so sorry this happened. Take care and let yourself grieve as long as you need to.

purplepelican · December 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss and that you feel like you're being given false hope. Take good care of yourself and feel whatever you need to feel.

celainev · December 2017

So sorry this is happening and right around the holidays too. Lots of love! Echoing others in saying take care of yourself! Maybe it’ll be closure for your DH to see another ultrasound to grieve? Again I’m so sorry.