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TGIF 12/22

tosh24tosh24 member
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Wohooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hopefully you ladies have lots of fun things planned for this weekend (and not just Christmas stress)!


Me: 35 I DH: 38
*TW loss and children mentioned*
DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

TFAS since 2012

Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

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  • tosh24tosh24 member
    AFM, it's mainly just Christmas stress LOL! I'm hosting this year so I still have to go grocery shopping to get everything I need. Tomorrow morning I pick up the turkey from a local farm which I will brine all weekend (yummy!). And DH and I are going to have a massive cleaning party 'cause lord knows my mom will be looking at the state of my baseboards when she's over on Monday......
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

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  • lin0442lin0442 member
    @tosh24 I have to go grocery shopping soon too! That turkey sounds amazing, though- I’m sure it will come out great :)

    I’m so glad my parents are generally good guests, because I’m feeling the BSC *hard* right now and I don’t think I could handle toxic relatives this weekend. Also on the plus side, I get to go to my friend’s house on Christmas Eve- he’s a professional event planner and his get togethers are always a blast!
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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    Tonight my parents have DD so we are going on a date night and finally seeing bad moms.  I have to wrap gifts today, bake some cookies and go over some xmas music for a service I'm playing at.

    Saturday is with my ILs for lunch and then dress rehearsal for sunday service

    Sunday is with my parents and then xmas eve service that night.  Also my car has a coolant leak so we need to get it fixed.

    Hope everyone has a great holiday!

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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    We are no longer hosting holidays.  My DH got mad at his family after they screwed thanksgiving up the past two years so he said no more.  So my SIL is hosting it tomorrow and we just have to take an appetizer.  Shopping is done and gifts are wrapped so really we have nothing else except enjoying the days 
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  • dpjenniferdpjennifer member
    vlagrl29 FYI, I heard that Bad Moms was an awful movie. 
    Mack2342 Less stress for you if you don't have to clean the house and do all the prep-work for a major holiday ordeal at your house!  We host Thanksgiving, which I love. But being able to travel for Christmas and not have to prep/plan all the food and cleaning is awesome!

    We're driving to my parents house tonight to stay until Christmas morning when we'll be going to DH's parents. Seeing Star Wars (again) but in IMAX 3D on Saturday with my sister and fam, so that should be nice. I'm honestly  just looking forward to some time off of work and hopefully doing some relaxing things!

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

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  • tosh24tosh24 member
    edited December 2017
    @lin0442 I wish I had a friend like that! Sounds like you're in for a great time!

    @vlagrl29 Happy date night! Sounds like you have a busy weekend!

    @Mack2342 Nice! I wish I was as organized as you, but alas, I am not. Enjoy a nice relaxing weekend with the fam :)

    ETA: @dpjennifer we must have posted at the same time. Drive safe tonight! Sounds like you have a great holiday planned. 

    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    I actually like bad moms the original - either way it will be fun date night.

    I just booked a funeral for next week wens playing background music.  $200 going straight to RE fund.  Now at $1,100 - oh how I really wish I could put that money somewhere else lol.
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  • dpjenniferdpjennifer member
    vlagrl29 Hopefully you'll have a great date night!

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @lin0442 enjoy your party

    @vlagrl29 date nights are always fun.  Glad you are earning  some extra funds for RE.  When you get that rainbow baby it will be money well worth spent!

    @dpjennifer safe travels and enjoy your time with your family

    @tosh24 im not really that organized but last week when I was home recovering from d &c, I finished everything up.  
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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    Well I’ve developed laryngitis. Kept thinking it would go away but no such luck 
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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    Hope you feel better @Mack2342 I'm still fighting sinus issues and feeling more tired than normal.
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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    Ugh @vlagrl29 I hope you feel better too
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  • 40momma40momma member
    @Mack2342 and @vlagrl29 ah crap, being sick sucks any time of year but it sucks even more over the holidays. Hopefully you can both kick back and relax a bit at least.
    We don't have too much going on over the holidays. We're heading to see my dad and his new gf on Christmas Eve until boxing day but that's about it. I have to say, I'm not really in the Christmas mood much this year. I'm sure my last year of 3 losses hasn't helped with my mood. I'm going to go pour myself a fireball and eggnog and hopefully kick this bah humbug attitude.
    Happy holidays to everyone here, my Christmas wish is for every single one of you to get knocked up! 
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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    I second that @40momma
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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    I think part of my problem was that I had forgot to take my Zoloft all week. I take it for anxiety. Too busy taking vitamins I forgot about it.

    yes let's all get knocked up! @40momma
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  • coco2787coco2787 member
    I hope everyone has a great Christmas, I know the holidays are hard for all of us  <3  
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
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    Hope everyone had a nice weekend! My brother left yesterday, and my mom is heading out today, so I've got to get her over to the airport, and then get the dogs to the vet before my vacation ends.  I came down with something too @Mack2342 so I hope were both feeling better soon!
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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @BusinessWife that sucks.  I’m still hanging on to mine.  It could go anytime.  

    So RE just called and said testing came back inconclusive on fetal tissue.  He said they are running 2nd test to see if any further results so we wait. 
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  • 40momma40momma member
    @Mack2342 ugh. Sorry about the test results. I know how much it sucks to not have answers. Hopefully something will come from the 2nd tests
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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    Thanks @40momma.  I have follow up appt today so maybe RE can explain better about 2nd test and any follow up testing 
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  • lumosmaximalumosmaxima member
    I'm sorry @Mack2342 :(
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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    I'm sorry mack2342 - it sucks to not have answers.  Maybe this is too soon to ask but will you TTC again?
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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @vlagrl29 I’m not sure.  Had follow up today.  He said that they took fetal tissue and placenta when they did d & c but when lab did testing the sample they took from specimen didn’t contain any fetal tissue so that is why they are doing a 2nd test.  He gave me a script for bloodwork to see if there is clotting disorder and is checking a few other things as well.  So I’m hoping to get those results in a couple of weeks and then we will decide.  He said the chances of miscarriage for my age is like 40%! I didn’t realize it was that high.  I knew higher but didn’t think it was that high 
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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    Wow that high @mack2342 I hate statistics sometimes. 
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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @vlagrl29 me too!
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  • 40momma40momma member
    @Mack2342 my OB told me I'm around 25% and I'm 41. I think statistics need to be taken with a grain of salt. 
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  • dpjenniferdpjennifer member
    Mack2342 So sorry that the test was inconclusive. :( I hope the second test gives you more answers. Also, woah to the high MC rate! I didn't realize it was that high either!

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @40momma well I’m 42 I like your OBs better
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