That is frustrating @AllyTheKid. I do think he needs to learn ways to cope so you all can enjoy time out together. Didn’t you say he has a therapist? Definitely something he should talk about so you especially aren’t feeling like a prisoner in your own home.
@Ladybug2821 His doctor isn't a therapist, and he hasn't actually utilized his therapy options yet. I need to just be open with him about this issue first though honestly. He isn't going to know it's a problem to me if I don't tell him. Wish me luck, I'll cross whatever bridge necessary when we come to it I suppose. Uuuugh, I hate confrontation... I have to keep reminding myself that "communication is key".
Can I just complain about how flat my butt has gotten? It is the absolute worst. I used to have a nice little butt and now it doesn’t even fill out pants. WTF
@ladybug2821 squats, lunges, and protein my lady. I have the opposite problem. I've gotten round everywhere, and not the supple, attractive kind of round. The loppy, misshapen, disproportionate kind. I look like an exploded can of biscuits.
@AllyTheKid I give props to the moms who find time to work out because I don’t know how they manage to do it lol. I used to be able to walk and do some things at work but we are working on a huge project that takes up so much time that I haven’t been able to for awhile. I have to figure out something though because it looks crazy.
@Ladybug2821 I can’t find the time to workout either! And my butt has also gotten flatter and my husband says I now have chicken legs. I do the best I can and working out just isn’t high on my priority list at the moment.
@allythekid wishing you luck. I'm sure that's a sticky situation to be in... hopefully you will be able to go to the friends place to enjoy a glass of wine.
*American lady living in Tanzania.
DH - Tanzanian Maasai
BFP #1 - MC Dec 2, 2015 (@ 9weeks) BFP #2 - Feb 2, 2016 --EDD 10/10/16 --Abigail- October 6, 2016. Heart warrior. October 2017- Began fostering to adopt T, (DOB:November 19, 2013)
@Ladybug2821 don't get me wrong, I fell off the fitness wagon months ago haha but should you find the time, those will be your butt's best friend.
@kmolleltz We got the situation handled, it took a few days to let it all sink in, but we're on the same page now. That actually made a pretty big and important imprint on our communication and relationship I think. I'm pleased with the direction we're headed.
@AllyTheKid I had a lazy day today watching forensic files reruns and was shocked to see HLN advertising a NEW episode tonight at 8!! Thought of you instantly
Re: October Randoms
I have the opposite problem. I've gotten round everywhere, and not the supple, attractive kind of round. The loppy, misshapen, disproportionate kind. I look like an exploded can of biscuits.
BFP #2 - Feb 2, 2016 --EDD 10/10/16 --Abigail- October 6, 2016. Heart warrior.
October 2017- Began fostering to adopt T, (DOB:November 19, 2013)
@kmolleltz We got the situation handled, it took a few days to let it all sink in, but we're on the same page now. That actually made a pretty big and important imprint on our communication and relationship I think. I'm pleased with the direction we're headed.