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Mack2342Mack2342 member
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i went in last week for US and should have been 6 wks but only measured 5w1d.  RE said we had 50/50 chance went in today and still only measured 5w4d.  Just an empty sac.  Not really sure where we go from here.  Scheduled d & c for Tuesday and RE hoping to be able to test tissue but unsure if he will be able to.  I also had blood clot which I had last MC so he said he will check fo clotting disorder but has to wait for hormones to settle back down. If there is something to the clotting issue I think we will try again but otherwise I’m not sure.  Just not sure how many more I can go through 
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    tosh24tosh24 member
    No No No :( Oh, @Mack2342, I absolutely did not want to see you back here and I am so sorry that you've had to endure the heartache of another loss. Not that I want any issues to be found, but I hope that if a clotting disorder is contributing to the SIF and losses, it is a relatively easy fix and you will have a successful pregnancy once you are treating it. Please be kind and gentle with yourself. You are in my thoughts. (((hugs)))
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

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    vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    Damn it!!! @Mack2342 was just thinking about you this morning and how you were doing. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this again. Do you think now that you've had 3 they will do loss testing?
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    vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    I understand if you might stop trying, take it easy on yourself. I've already kinda put the 2 year limit on us.
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    Kath525Kath525 member
    Oh no. I'm so sorry...
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    robyn2201robyn2201 member
    No! I'm so sorry @Mack2342! 
    Ivy: July 2010  |  Stella: Dec 2012  |  BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020

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    dpjenniferdpjennifer member
    Mack2342  NO!!!  What absolute crap. :( ::goes off on a swear rampage:: I did NOT want you to have to come back here! 

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.  Hopefully FET after that.

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    40momma40momma member
    Noooooooo! My heart broke when I saw it was you posting. @Mack2342 please take extra care of yourself and know that we are all thinking of you. I am so sorry.
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    pumpkinpancakepumpkinpancake member
    Ugh @Mack2342 I’m so sorry to see you back here too. Life just isn’t fair. Take care of yourself, and we’re here for you. 
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    lumosmaximalumosmaxima member
    I'm so sorry, I am new here but wanted to share my condolences. I hope that any information you get from testing moving forward will bring you peace. 
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    amberrukaamberruka member
    @Mack2342 I am so, so sorry girl. That is so unfair. You are in my thoughts. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
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    lin0442lin0442 member
    @mack2342 I’m so sorry to see you back here. 
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    mybigfatgreekfetusmybigfatgreekfetus member
    @Mack2342 my heart goes out to you. Take care of yourself.
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    Mack2342Mack2342 member
    Thanks ladies 
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    So sorry to see you here... I am new, but it sounds like you've had a rough road.  :'( ((((Hugs + wine))))
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    myjessesgirlmyjessesgirl member
    So sorry for your loss. I’m also new, but it looks like you are loved by so many “internet strangers,” so know that you have a few more thinking of you. Hopefully they can find the cause and treat it. 
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    cassafrass15cassafrass15 member
    Oh no! I am so very sorry @Mack2342. Be kind to yourself. We are here for you.
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    honeybeebubhoneybeebub member
    Oh @Mack2342 this is so heartbreaking :( I don't have the right words to say because I know myself how hard this is. I hope you are doing well. 
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    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

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    Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @cassafrass15 and @honeybeebub thank you. I’m home today recovering from d & c.  Physically I’m ok emotionally is another story but I’m hanging in there and I know that things will get better.  
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    Racso12Racso12 member
    @Mack2342 I am so sorry. Take time for yourself to heal.  <3
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    NYTino24NYTino24 member
    *lurking* 

    @Mack2342 What have they tested you for clotting - wise? I had to take baby aspirin during pregnancy and DDAVP during / after delivery to make sure my levels were right. I had signs of APLS, but we ultimately defaulted back to my original diagnosis of Von Willebrand disease with ITP added. Let me know if you need any info.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
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    Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @NYTino24 thanks.  RE never tested for anything I have a 2 yr old with a text book pregnancy.  My first loss was before my LOs first birthday and they assumed chromosomal.  I was also over 40.   We went to see RE bc it was taking too long to get KU after that loss.  They only checked my egg reserve at that time since I had recently been pregnant with healthy boy.   Just after consult I found out I was KU again and that is when they saw blood clot.    At that time he said it’s normal and body should absorb it which it did but still resulted in loss.  Used medicated IUI cycles this last time and also saw blood clot which did not absorb so he will test for clotting disorder this time.  We are unsure if we will continue trying at this point.  It depends on genetic testing and clotting testing. 
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    Mrs CarboMrs Carbo member
    I'm new too... but I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss. FWIW they were able to test the tissue after a D&C for my first loss around the same GA.
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