I came to ask a serious question if you can't answer ma question please keep the rude answer to ya self thanks!!!
There were seriously zero rude answers. Like... If any of those are your idea of rude I hate to see how you handle the real world.
Also, if you're interested in being a part of the community, try introducing yourself and participating in our regular threads, where things like showing and not showing are discussed frequently. Your one off AW post isn't kosher.
I came to ask a serious question if you can't answer ma question please keep the rude answer to ya self thanks!!!
OK...so a few things:
please change your user name from knottiexxxx so we can get to know you and tag you easier; see thread pinned at the top "Does your username start with knottie?"
introduce yourself so you're not just some stranger popping into an established community and we can get to know you; see "Introductions (part 2)" pinned at the top
see the "Read this first" thread; you guessed it pinned at the top
Lurk and get to know us (then you would have known our love for snark and gif's); we are not your personal google
every pregnancy is different, even in the same person
lastly at 12 weeks your uterus is barely above your pubic bone it is normal to not be showing; see below
lastly 2.0, I think we're pretty funny
*TW LC*
Me & MH: 32 DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU) TTC #2: 12/2019 Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
@krashke@LaceyBee522 FYI, there are a ton of those graphics, and they're all vaguely different, which is annoying. Also duh the length of your torso varies so blargh. So I'm 14 weeks (really more like 15 weeks based on how baby is measuring), and I can feel my uterus - it's like, really more like where the 12 is in that image. But I have a long torso, so that's probably part of it.
I sort of thing these side view versions are more helpful for me to visualize.... but I'm not sure they're any more precise based on my body type, etc.
@krashke ~ Just poke your belly. Start low and it will be hard as a rock. And as you go up, it will eventually get squishy. Once you reach squish, you are above the top of your uterus. I can feel it better when I’m standing up
@krashke I couldn't feel mine until a few days ago (and I'm measuring more like 15+1 so factor that into your ute search, lol), but basically if I finger walk, pressing fairly firmly but not painfully, from my belly button down, it feels distinctly different once I get to my uterus, and I can sort of trace around that edge in a semi circle, ish. If that makes sense. I have to lay on my back, and I have to try to relax my stomach muscles to be able to do it.
@doxiemoxie212 I might have to attempt this naked tonight. I am trying right now but my waistband, tank top and underwear are confusing me. Also, I have to pee so when I push I just feel like I'm pushing on my bladder.
Also, I love when drive by's turn in to actual useful conversations.
*TW LC*
Me & MH: 32 DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU) TTC #2: 12/2019 Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
@krashke yeah I couldn't feel mine at that point. But I made DH poke my tummy a lot so that when I thought I could feel it, I could have him check too lol. He actually can feel a difference now, so it helps me know I'm not crazy. (My apps tell me it's fine to poke baby a little, and that although I can't feel it, baby pokes back no idea if that's true.)
@doxiemoxie212 I think it is true!! Today when they couldn't get Baby A to corporate for the scan, the tech started poking on my stomach and A sort of kicked/punched back at it. Crazy isht.
@sabby2 My son was one of those baby's. I had several appointments where the nurse would give up and just say "I heard the heartbeat and it sounds fine. I'm not sure exactly what it was because he's kicking it off before I can finish counting." My son would kick it hard enough that the doppler would come off my stomach a bit. He really hated that thing.
Me: 28 Husband: 31 TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016 Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
@NamelessAria toward the end, when they’d have me go to L&D to be monitored, they’d strap that heartbeat monitor to my belly and DS would just go to war with it. He’d kick it and move away from it, they’d come back and move it to find him and he’d fight it and move away from it some more. He hated that thing.
I'm 14+4 with baby number two and I have quite the little bump going right now. DH pressed on my lower abdomen last night and said, "Here's your uterus, the rest of this is...(long pause as he considered his mortality) other stuff that got pushed up."
But then again, I'm still waiting to find out if I've had undiagnosed type 2 diabetes so this kid could already be sumo wrestler sized.
Me: 33 DH: 34 DS1: March 18, 2016 DS2: due June 7, 2018
Re: I'm 12 weeks an 6 day why am I not showing?
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
Like... If any of those are your idea of rude I hate to see how you handle the real world.
Also, if you're interested in being a part of the community, try introducing yourself and participating in our regular threads, where things like showing and not showing are discussed frequently.
Your one off AW post isn't kosher.
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023
- please change your user name from knottiexxxx so we can get to know you and tag you easier; see thread pinned at the top "Does your username start with knottie?"
- introduce yourself so you're not just some stranger popping into an established community and we can get to know you; see "Introductions (part 2)" pinned at the top
- see the "Read this first" thread; you guessed it pinned at the top
- Lurk and get to know us (then you would have known our love for snark and gif's); we are not your personal google
- every pregnancy is different, even in the same person
- lastly at 12 weeks your uterus is barely above your pubic bone it is normal to not be showing; see below

lastly 2.0, I think we're pretty funnyDS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
That movie freaked me out when it came to this part and everything after it!
No way, Jose.
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023
I sort of thing these side view versions are more helpful for me to visualize.... but I'm not sure they're any more precise based on my body type, etc.
The point is..
Enjoy your flat belly for now and then come back and laugh at this post when you're huge and uncomfortable in May.
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
Also, I love when drive by's turn in to actual useful conversations.
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
But really, enjoy not showing. 3rd baby here and I'm definitely showing. I'm already getting asked if it's twins (spoiler alert, it's not!).
We love a good swearing and snark!
Then MH scolded me saying I was poking the baby. I think it might still be too low at only 12+3.
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
@sabby2 My son was one of those baby's. I had several appointments where the nurse would give up and just say "I heard the heartbeat and it sounds fine. I'm not sure exactly what it was because he's kicking it off before I can finish counting." My son would kick it hard enough that the doppler would come off my stomach a bit. He really hated that thing.
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
But then again, I'm still waiting to find out if I've had undiagnosed type 2 diabetes so this kid could already be sumo wrestler sized.
Me: 33 DH: 34
DS1: March 18, 2016
DS2: due June 7, 2018