TTC After a Loss
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Hello ladies,

I wanted to introduce myself. We aren't TTC yet (and I'm not sure we will try again) but I figure you all will understand my state of mind right now.

We were told Monday that our baby no longer had a heartbeat at 8 weeks and I chose to have a dnc. This pregnancy had been a terrible roller coaster being told several times that they didn't think it was a viable pregnancy. Then last week we had a perfect ultrasound with a beautifully clear heartbeat. Unfortunately, baby speed growing 2 days after that ultrasound.

My doctor has said we can start trying whenever we are ready but obviously this is all so fresh. 

Sorry for the rambling post but thank you all in advance for your support!

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    @staylor3 I’m sorry for your loss. This is not an easy journey. Take the time you need for yourself. This is a great supportive group, I hope you can find the support you need here. Welcome. 
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    Sorry for your loss.  
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    @staylor3 I’m so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and know it is ok to not be ok. 
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    @staylor3 I'm sorry for your loss
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

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    @staylor3 I'm so sorry.
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    I'm sorry for your loss
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    Thank you all for the kind words. I'm learning already that I have good days and bad days. I appreciate all your support!

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    so sorry for your loss - it's a horrible roller coaster.  I'm 11 months out from mine and I'm finally feeling very happy with the current life I have.
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    @staylor3 I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby. This is all such a roller coaster of a ride. Days do get easier in time but then sometimes just when you think you're doing Ok, something may trigger a memory and hit you like a ton of bricks. And that's our new normal. May you find strength from this amazing group of ladies. 
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Ivy: July 2010  |  Stella: Dec 2012  |  BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020

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    Welcome to the group and so sorry for your loss.
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    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

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    @staylor3 so sorry to your loss, but welcome to our group. There’s a great bunch of ladies here, and tons of support for you as you need it. 
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    Sorry for your loss. Take the time you need to recover physically and emotionally. Welcome to our group.

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.  Hopefully FET after that.

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

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    Welcome. I’m so sorry for your loss. We are one of the shittiest clubs but also one of the coolest. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
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    Sorry for your loss,  this group will give you the support you need. Great group with such a positive vibe!
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    So sorry you're here - how have you been?
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