Babies on the Brain

Waiting Room Wednesday 11/22

I know it's technically still Tuesday (at least for me) but I'm gonna go ahead and get this thread started :)

***General TW that this thread might contain discussions mentioning MC and loss.***

Welcome to Waiting Room Wednesday!

You can express your thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on not TTC and connect with others who are in the same boat. TTC can be a long journey, and having to wait makes it feel even longer -- even if it is for a good reason. I invite you to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have something to say. Treat this like an ongoing conversation.

Benched = involuntarily not NTNP/TTC and "out of the game," usually due to medical reasons

TTA = avoiding pregnancy by using protection or FAM, usually for non-health-related reasons __________________________________________________________________

Are you benched or TTA?

What brings you here?

How long do you think you'll be here?

How have things been going?

Any R/R?

GTKY: What is something besides family that you're thankful for this year?
DS1 born 2/28/16
DS2 due 12/12/18

Re: Waiting Room Wednesday 11/22

  • Are you benched or TTA?
    TTA

    What brings you here?
    I love talking to you ladies!

    How long do you think you'll be here?
    At least until April unless a financial miracle happens before then

    How have things been going?
    Not bad this week,y mind is distracted since my mom is in town :)

    Any R/R?
    UGH work sucks...I won't get into detail, but I spent about 85% of my day working on one counties tax bills (getting them ready to pay), but probably 95% of my day was spent on taxes in general.

    GTKY: What is something besides family that you're thankful for this year?
    As much as I'm complaining about it...I'm thankful for my job. I got hired with this bank almost exactly 2 years ago as a part time teller. In those 2 years, I've been part time, gone on maternity leave, come back as part time, moved up to full time by my 1 year mark, and then by about the 1.5 year mark got this position with the loan department. I've been very blessed with this job!!
    DS1 born 2/28/16
    DS2 due 12/12/18

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  • Are you benched or TTA? TTA

    What brings you here? I’ve learned a lot about this whole process from lurking and thought I’d try and participate!

    How long do you think you'll be here? At least until the end of May, so about 6 months. 

    How have things been going? Working on building our savings so that we feel financially comfortable enough to start TTC. We’ve both been looking into new job opportunities so if we end up making changes, we may end up delaying TTC another year.

    Any R/R? Rant: One wall in our bedroom started making this obnoxious tapping noise once we turned the heat on for the winter. It seems to only happen at night when we’re trying to sleep, and it’s like a moderately loud tap every 15 seconds for HOURS. I have enough trouble falling asleep as it is! Now it looks like we’ll need to tear up the drywall to insulate the wall and hopefully stop the noise. 

    GTKY: What is something besides family that you're thankful for this year? My job. I’ve started looking at other options to advance my career but I also need to be thankful for where I am now. I am very fortunate.
  • Are you benched or TTA?
    TTA

    What brings you here?
    Community

    How long do you think you'll be here?
    May/June 2018

    How have things been going?
    Ok

    Any R/R?
    A work issue called DH in last minute (daycare is closed today) so he’s bringing DD in for me to take care of while he goes in for an hour or so.

    GTKY: What is something besides family that you're thankful for this year?
    Today especially, I’m thankful for the flexibility my job allows me. Being able to take off, or take my daughter in with me (although it obviously limits my work progress, but we’re slow today) takes a lot of stress out of being a working mom.
    DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
  • @CecilB93 That's so great about your progression at your job!  You must be showing the right people the right stuff, good for you!
    @dogmomma271 Good luck with the tapping noise.  Repetitive noises like that drive me bonkers.
    @meggyme That's nice you can have your little one at work!  I can't imagine I would get any work done, haha.

    Are you benched or TTA?  TTA

    What brings you here?  I need someone to talk to about babies so I don't make myself crazy.

    How long do you think you'll be here?  Few more months?

    How have things been going?  Well enough.

    Any R/R?  I went for a massage last night but my hip is still killing me.  I know one massage won't fix it but I thought it would help more than it did.  Still haven't talked to DH about timing yet (in case you missed it, I accidentally pulled my own IUD out the other day so TTC could be happening sooner than later)

    GTKY: What is something besides family that you're thankful for this year?  We have a beautiful home, live in a beautiful city and are pretty happy for the most part.  We are lucky to be where we are.

    Me: 31
    H: 36
    L & N twin girls: 3yo. Born at 30 weeks. 2 month NICU stay
    BFP Aug 2018: EDD April 2019
    Babysizer Cravings Pregnancy Tracker
  • @mermaidca it’s funny, because I work with a bunch of older men, but as soon as she showed up there were toys and snacks and a train set! Half of them are grandpas.
    DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
  • @meggyme that is so sweet!  Grandpas are the cutest around little kids!
    Me: 31
    H: 36
    L & N twin girls: 3yo. Born at 30 weeks. 2 month NICU stay
    BFP Aug 2018: EDD April 2019
    Babysizer Cravings Pregnancy Tracker
  • Are you benched or TTA? TTA

    What brings you here? As always, the conversation with everyone here. I'm just sad I haven't had the time to poke around the past few months.

    How long do you think you'll be here? 1-2 more weeks, hopefully.

    How have things been going? Busy, waaaaaay to busy, but generally good. AF is this week and O should happen the week of the 4th. 

    Any R/R? Why is it so hard to remember to take my PNVs?!?

    GTKY: What is something besides family that you're thankful for this year? That's a hard one! I'm thankful for my car!! I had a screw in my tire the first week of my new job, but I didn't realize it until Friday. As I rolled up into the dealershop Saturday, the tire went flat, flat, FLAT! I was so lucky that didn't happen on my way home on the highway! 

    @CecilB93 - I hope you enjoyed the time with your mom! 

    @dogmomma271 - Good luck finding the source of the tapping and you are able to quiet it! That's awful it's effecting your sleep! 

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