I know our group is getting smaller, but figured it might be nice to put some tips or things that you are planning to do or have done for last minute prep for LO's arrival. Those with LO's who have arrived, feel free to jump in and mentione what you did or wish you had done!
Re: Last Minute Prep for LO's Arrival
Our approach is pretty low key, but we have the bag packed, the nursery is fairly done and we just need to:
my hospital has breast pumps for you to use during your stay and in the NICU if needed. They give you a set or two of parts to use with it.
prior to coming home, I would suggest discussing with your partner what your expectations are for their involvement in nighttime duties, feedings, bottle washing etc.
But with that, I have set up the pack n play, attempted to install carseat - DH has to check it, did dishes and laundry, started the hospital bags for all of us, took all the animals into the vet for checkups.
I still have to clean the living room and dining room of crap. We have things stored in there, and they need to go! Put the second carseat in DHs truck, wash bottles and pump parts, finish hanging the decor in the nursery, finish hanging photos/decor in the house (they're all on the floor right now), move dog kennels/cat litter to make room, clean baby's bathroom (which will also be the guest bathroom, and where the litter is right now), and get things to storage for the winter.
Just when I think I've gotten a good chunk of my list done, I realize I have even more that still has to get done. 10 days to go!
The day before he arrived DH and I went and got last minute things we needed mainly for me or the hospital and packed our bags.
I feel like when we went into the hospital I was feeling pretty prepared. My house hasn't sparkled since I've been pregnant but at least it was tidy enough for when we came home.
I had pads already at home but really should have got dermaplast spray and epsom salt(for baths) before hand.
I just got the L&D Nurse gift today, so I went ahead and wrapped it in case something happens between now and my scheduled Monday c-section. I've been cleaning random things as I have the energy to do so. I'm also forgetting EVERYTHING, so I'm sure Sunday night I'll be doing some sort of last minute something or other. I was hoping to have all of my Christmas shopping done and wrapped before little girl came, but I don't think that's going to happen either.
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Currently my my list is at 15 things! I wanted a pro to deep clean the house but that didn’t get scheduled. Maybe I can get someone to come out on Monday even though I’ll be home or this Friday.
I need to to finish my bag and my girls overnight bag. We haven’t installed the car seat but it’s not important until Thursday. Camera batteries are charged and memory disk is clean. Now I’m trying to finish all the laundry, fold it, pack/pull out clothes for the girls and deep clean the kitchen.