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IF-safe movies and TV shows

adiratadirat member
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Hi all, 

My first FET is on Monday and my RE recommended a day of bed rest afterward. Can anyone recommend some good movies or TV shows for me? 

Ideally I am looking for things that are completely 100% free of baby, pregnancy, infertility, loss, etc., plotlines. 

Thanks in advance! 


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Re: IF-safe movies and TV shows

  • rainbows2018rainbows2018 member
    I’ve been binge watching Gossip Girl and it turned out to be safe until almost the end of season 3. 
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  • Holls214Holls214 member
    We have been watching Stranger Things on Netflix. It’s pretty good. 
    TTC 4 years. 7 failed IUI's with either Clomid, Femara and/or Trigger Shots. Started IVF journey in February 2017. Polyps removed in May. 1st IVF Transfer September 26th. BFP. Expected due date 6/14/18. Baby boy born 5/25/18 at 6 lb 9 oz. My bundle of joy. 
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  • safire3safire3 member
    Well for me yesterday we finished Stranger Things 2 on Netflix and caught up on episodes of Scandal and Inhumans that we had missed during the week. After that I figured we are supposed to watch something funny so we watched Girls Trip but definitely do NOT watch that because there is was an unexpected IF storyline (although it was mentioned so briefly I almost missed it). I personally don’t mind when IF is mentioned though because I think it is an effort to shine a light on the topic. Most people know absolutely nothing about it and do not even consider that as a possibility, hence all the stupid ‘when are you having kids?’ type questions. I hope seeing it in movies/tv will at least make them stop and think in future. Of course I understand wanting to avoid seeing it that day though.
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  • laurad75laurad75 member
    American Vandal on Netflix was really fun and a great distraction.  

    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


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  • KLake42KLake42 member
    I love Stranger Things, but there's a big "child in danger" plot line, and (trying to avoid spoilers) a minor character who lost a baby. It might not be that totally trigger-free.

    Obviously, do not watch Call the Midwife. I love it, but had to put it on hold for a while.

    I think the first season of Kimmy Schmidt is safe. I'm also watching Big Mouth, which is raunchy and so wrong, but safe for this purpose.

    There is an Israeli study that found that humor (having a clown in the recovery room) led to higher success rates for IVF, after a transfer. Try to watch stuff that will make you laugh! Take some time even to watch funny cat videos on YouTube, or whatever tickles you most. I'd recommend Big Mouth for this, so long as the offensiveness doesn't bother you (it's about puberty, and honestly, part of what makes it funny for me is seeing my wife get scandalized by it).
    Me- 39 (turning 40 in April), TTC for the first time ever (since Jan 2015), low ovarian reserve
    Married 3/14/14 to my wonderful wife, but her sperm count is rather low
    TTC with frozen donor sperm and science

    7 IUIs, 7 BFNs.
    2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs.
    Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire.
    Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus!  
    fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP! 
    Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)

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  • laurad75laurad75 member
    I've heard The Crown is good for TWW.  I've never seen it.  
    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


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  • sarcasticowlsarcasticowl member
    The Great British Baking Show is fantastic! Also on Netflix. Brits are hilarious. :)
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  • emmasemmemmasemm member
    @sarcasticowl on behalf of all Brits thanks ;-)




    Me 43 DH 45
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    AMA, DOR (AMH 0.65, AFC 2-4) and autoimmune issues (RA, APS), low TSH, adenomyosis
    7 retrievals, 3 transfers
    Jun19 FET BFP, due date 7th March 2020, DD born Feb20
    Sep17 IVF1 - 1ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
    Nov17 IVF2 - 1ER, 0F
    Jan18 IVF3 - 3ER, 1F, 1ET, BFN
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    Apr18 IVF4 - cancelled (E2 too high)
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    Sep/Oct18 IVF7 - 3ER, 3M, 2F, 2 frozen Day 3 (excellent quality)
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  • sarcasticowlsarcasticowl member
    @emmasemm My husband and I laugh harder at that show than most things in life. I’ve always appreciated your humor (humour  :D)!
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