TTC After a Loss

November TWW

Hope no one minds me starting a new TWW thread since we’re now into November! I didn’t see one started yet. Good luck to all this month! 
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Re: November TWW

  • I think I go here now!!! Got a temp rise this morning paired with a negative OPK (after a positive yesterday and the day before), so I think yesterday was O day! 

    Timing was ok (-1 And -2) but I wish we had BD yesterday for good measure too. DH was super tired from getting up at 3am for work, so I gave him the night off :wink:

    If nothing else, I’m just happy to see my O day slowly getting earlier and more normal. This month is CD22, after having o’d on CD29 and CD26 the last two months. 

    @Kath525 sorry for your BFN. Definitely eat all the Halloween candy. Hugs! 
  • @pumpkinpancake Thanks for starting the new thread! Glad to hear that your LP seems to be returning to some semblance of normal. I know my cycle is still wonky post-loss, so I feel your pain.

    AFM, I go here now. Had a CD14 ultrasound and trigger shot on 10/27 and then some pretty obvious O pains and a positive OPK that weekend. So, I'm approximately 5dpo and our timing was pretty good. Now I just have to refrain from going BSC and SS for the next 10 days or so. FX!

    Also, some jerk brought an entire bag of leftover Halloween candy into work. I can't stop eating it...ahhhhh!
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  • I'm 8 DPO. I posted in the TTCAL Week 10/30 about my FF and how it bumped my ovulation day out from CD11 to CD15 due to my "high" temp yesterday of 98.2. So this morning I took my temp early and it was 97.57 (which I have been ranging from 97.1-97.7. So I decided to discard the 98.2 temp and it put me back on track for 8 DPO. Has anyone had that happen where one high temp makes the whole chart off? 
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • @cassafrass15 haha I was that jerk at work yesterday who brought in all my candy... I just couldn’t leave it in the house for me and DH to eat it all!! :blush: 
  • @MelissaMay82 I have had that happen to me before.  Sometimes mine are off because I don’t take them at the same time.  I have found that taking them at the same time no matter how I slept is better that taking it after my longest sleep. I’ve also gotten up and gone to bathroom and then temped and that only changed it Slightly 
  • @Mack2342 I think that is one of my problems is that I get up at 4:45-5:00am 3 days a week and then the rest of the week I usually sleep in later. Today my DH got up for work and I woke up at 5am, so I took it then.

    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    edited November 2017
    @MelissaMay82 I think you just have to find what works for you.  I forget sometimes and then I just put in something similar to the day before.  They are never that different except for after O day.   I would maybe stick with days that you get up the same time most of the time and make the other 3 days up.  If you are using OPKs then if I suspect I Od then I might set an alarm for that time you have set the other days and wake up just to take temp to confirm you Od. 

    Thats a tough one. I have a hard time sleeping so sometimes I wake up at 2 or 3 am and just lay in bed hoping to go to sleep.  I’m up at 530am every day so on those days I just wait and take at 530.  I tried the longest sleep but temps were all over the place 
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    So we finally got power back today and I got BFP the other morning. Getting betas done tomorrow. I can actually shower at my own house which will be amazing! 
  • Yay congrats!!!
  • @sprkls8506 congratulations!!
  • Congratulations!
    Ivy: July 2010  |  Stella: Dec 2012  |  BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020

  • Thanks everyone. Last yr on Nov 1st I got the horrible news I would miscarry and this yr I got the opposite. Still obviously nervous about all of it and really hoping for good betas tomorrow. I am so thankful for these boards and all of you ladies. The support has helped me so much. 


    Has anyone else had trouble with this app?? Half the time I open it I get an error! 
  • YAYY @sprkls8506! Congrats!! Hope you have a healthy 9 months!  Let us know how your betas go!! 
  • Yahoo @sprkls8506 this is great news! I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months! 
  • @sprkls8506 YESSSS!!!! Such good news. Way to start November off to a good start. FX for strong betas and a nice shower :) 
    *Signature TW*

    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

  • @sprkls8506 YAYYYY!!! Congrats!!!! Here's to hoping your November BFP is the first of many for the board :) Good luck with your beta! I'm doing a happy dance for you!!!!


    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • Congrats @sprkls8506. We have a private TTCAL Graduates board. PM me if you are interested in joining and I will send you and invite.  
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • yessss! @sprkls8506 - FX it's a sticky and your numbers continue to rise.  Keep us updated!
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  • sprkls8506sprkls8506 member
    edited November 2017
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     My betas look great. They said I can even lower my endometrin to once a day. That is a little scary to me.
  • ***lurking***

    @sprkls8506 Congrats Lady!!!!!!  Come join us in the grad group : )
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @sprkls8506 Hooray! Congrats! Hoping for a sticky baby and a happy 9 mos.

    @pumpkinpancake I am STILL eating my co-workers candy, thankyouverymuch.
  • I go here now.  IUI yesterday and temp shift this morning so I Od yesterday.  
  • Congrats @sprkls8506
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • @Mack2342 fx so hard for you. Sounds like the IUI was good timing 

    As for me, CD 28 and I'm spotting, so I'm probably going to be back to WTO by tomorrow. I just knew this wasn't my month. The good news is that my cycles seem to be back to normal now, so I should be able to predict O better this month. 
  • FX @Mack2342!!!

    @fishee333 Sorry about the spotting, but great news that your cycles are getting back to normal.

    AFM, just over here going BSC and SS like a maniac. At 8dpo. Thank goodness I've run out of pregnancy tests...otherwise I would be POAS hourly. 
  • lurking @sprkls8506 Congrats! Whoo hoo!
  • Congratulations @sprkls8506!!!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @cassafrass15 I’m only 6dpo today and already going BSC. My temps have been the highest and most consistent the past few days than they have been in any cycle since my loss, which is just adding fuel to my BSC fire. I haven’t POAS yet since it’s obviously too early, but I have way too many cheap ones for my own good. I can already tell I’ll have no self control in a few days. 
  • @pumpkinpancake Girl, I feel you. My temps are still up, I've been sleepy and hungry. So of course I caved, bought some cheapie tests, and have been peeing on all the sticks since yesterday. To make matters worse, my trigger shot must have still been in my system so I got a really faint *TW* BFP yesterday, but then a really stark BFN this morning. *End TW* And then this afternoon (CD26) I had some really light spotting, more like brown-tinged CM, and in my BSC state-o-mind I decided it was IB instead of the obvious answer: AF. Ugh! Hope you have more will power than I do! May the force be with you.
  • @cassafrass15 I've totally been in your shoes where I've picked up the trigger - what a roller coaster of emotions. I always try to remind myself that I'm not out until AF shows, so I've got my FX for you still! 

    @MelissaMay82 Yay! Congrats! November is already way better than October!
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • @cassafrass15 ugh that sucks about picking up the trigger on the test. It’s still early though, and you’re not out till you’re out! 

    @MelissaMay82 yay congrats! Hopefully more of us will have good news this month! 

    7dpo here and I’m still feeling optimistic for some reason. Last month AF came on 7dpo, but today my temp was still high and no signs of spotting or anything, so I’m already doing better this month. And I didn’t POAS this morning, so that’s a win too! :wink:
  • ***Lurking***

    Congrats @MelissaMay82! We have a private TTCAL Graduates board. If you are interested in joining us there, PM me and I will send you an invite.

    ***TW in siggy***

    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • *lurking from WTO*
    MelissaMay82 Congrats!! I hope you have an uneventful 9 months.
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