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tporter44
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New Here, Seeking Advice
tporter44
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in Infertility
Hi all! I have been a part of the bump for a couple years, but I haven't really posted. I would like to talk about my infertility issues and maybe get some support and advice.
I have a laundry list of infertility problems that seem ever growing. Prior to my DH and I TTC I was diagnosed with PCOS, a prolactinoma, and endometriosis. I have had surgery for the endo, and take regular meds for PCOS and the prolactinoma. We have now been trying for 2 years and have completed 3 rounds of Fermara with my OB. I used OPKs for 2 of the 3 rounds with all negatives.
My OB then sent us to a Reproductive Endo. We had our first consultation in which he mentioned doing Clomid for 4 months and then moving on to the shots if they don't work. First he wanted to check my tubes to make sure they weren't blocked. During the HSG he found I had either a uterine septum or a partial bicornuate uterus. Neither of which he said we would operate on unless it became more of an issue once I got pregnant.
Yesterday we received my husband's sperm analysis back. We waited 3 weeks to get the results and we had to call even though they were supposed to email them. They told him he had 0 sperm and even asked if he had a vasectomy. We can't get into a urologist to see what's going on until January, so now we just have to wait.
I am trying to remain positive, but it seems like the odds keep stacking against us. We are both getting frustrated and this year has already been hard enough on my DH who lost both of his parents recently and found out he had a different biological father than the one he had been raised by. I am not usually one to post woe is me, but am feeling a little lost at this point. Our family and friends have been great to talk to, but none of them have experience infertility. It would be nice to talk to people who understand the struggle of it. Any advice would be so helpful.
Thanks!
I have a laundry list of infertility problems that seem ever growing. Prior to my DH and I TTC I was diagnosed with PCOS, a prolactinoma, and endometriosis. I have had surgery for the endo, and take regular meds for PCOS and the prolactinoma. We have now been trying for 2 years and have completed 3 rounds of Fermara with my OB. I used OPKs for 2 of the 3 rounds with all negatives.
My OB then sent us to a Reproductive Endo. We had our first consultation in which he mentioned doing Clomid for 4 months and then moving on to the shots if they don't work. First he wanted to check my tubes to make sure they weren't blocked. During the HSG he found I had either a uterine septum or a partial bicornuate uterus. Neither of which he said we would operate on unless it became more of an issue once I got pregnant.
Yesterday we received my husband's sperm analysis back. We waited 3 weeks to get the results and we had to call even though they were supposed to email them. They told him he had 0 sperm and even asked if he had a vasectomy. We can't get into a urologist to see what's going on until January, so now we just have to wait.
I am trying to remain positive, but it seems like the odds keep stacking against us. We are both getting frustrated and this year has already been hard enough on my DH who lost both of his parents recently and found out he had a different biological father than the one he had been raised by. I am not usually one to post woe is me, but am feeling a little lost at this point. Our family and friends have been great to talk to, but none of them have experience infertility. It would be nice to talk to people who understand the struggle of it. Any advice would be so helpful.
Thanks!
Re: New Here, Seeking Advice
sort of miraculous Sperm count, it basically wouldn’t have taken us out of the IVF criteria.
So, long story short we decided no need to put hubby through an unnecessary surgery if IVF was going to be the route regardless. We finished our first round of IVF about 2 months ago.
i know everything sounds overwhelming and scary right now, but have hope there are options and I wish nothing but the best for you both! This forum has wonderful ladies all willing to share their experiences.
Dx: MFI
TTC since 2016
August 2017: IVF #1 (11 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 3 fertilized with ICIS, 2 Frozen)
FET #1: October 11th -- Beta only 12. CP
FET #2: January 12th -- BFP!
Good luck with the IVF!
I appreciate the warm welcome.
We go back to the fertility doc next week so I'm hoping he'll be able to give us some answers to make the waiting a little easier.
I would also ask your RE for more information about the uterine septum/ bicornate uterus. Ask what the effect of each one would be on pregnancy and if anything can be done beforehand. I feel like waiting to see if it becomes an issue when you are pregnant is a big risk. Once again though I don’t have any personal experience with this. Hopefully others who do will chime in and give you some more good advice!
Good luck to you and sorry for such a difficult journey so far.
Yeah I was kind of confused on how nonchalant he was about the septum/bicorunate. I'm hoping he's able to give us more information next week. I think I just need to let him know we would like to be a little more aggressive.
We moved on to using donor sperm for IUI this summer, which hasn't worked yet for me (I'm in round 4 of IUIs), but FX we will get pregnant soon! I think my best advice is be patient. Its a long road even with a diagnosis and I've struggled with the waiting game. I'd also recommend you get a second SA, I think we did probably like 5 -10 total before giving up as its much cheaper than surgery! Also sometimes they prescribe Clomid for men if its just a hormone issue. It doesn't have really any side effects for men, so a lot of times its just worth a shot!