Trophy - to my SIL who had to deal with my TW sister regarding my baby shower last saturday. My sister just has no concept of what other people might want and that it isn't about her. She wanted people to bring a book everyone thought was meaningful (totally fine) and then go around in a circle (getting less fine, this isn't group therapy) explaining the moral that person wanted to instill in my child (NOT FINE). I'm sorry, no, what? You don't get to tell other people how to raise their children. Huge thanks to my SIL who squashed that idea. I'm sure it took repeated squashing.
TW goes to DH. Why set your alarm for 5:45 If you're not going to get up until 6:30?? I actually slept through the night and could have slept almost an HOUR longer...grrrr.
Trophy also goes to DH though, because he made this past weekend "Happy Wife Weekend" and I got to relax all weekend without DD, AND he knocked out most of my pre-baby to do list. I suppose I should forgive him for the whole alarm thing.
TW goes to my damn dog! I've never liked the sound of a dog licking themselves, but lately it's like the worst sound in the history of sounds to me (I'm gonna guess it's the pregnancy rage talking). I can't fall asleep when it's happening. Well, one of our dogs seems to CONSTANTLY be licking herself lately. And I'm constantly waking up in the middle of the night. Not sure if it's just to pee or if I'm uncomfortable or if my body is just like, "Oh hey, the dog is licking herself, so you should wake up so you can't sleep." Then I have to move to the guest room. I moved to the guest room at like 1:30 a.m. because of this. Then said dog scratched at the door at 3 a.m. so I moved back. But she was licking herself, so I immediately had to go BACK to the guest room.
My pregnancy rage is not loving this situation. And WHY DOES SHE LICK HERSELF SO OFTEN AND WHY ALWAYS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT?!
TW to my OB's office for rescheduling the same NST for the fourth time, still having no options at all other than the middle of the day and zero flexibility because they're closed the next day. When I explained that I still have to work, suddenly there's a 9am appointment available. (Not great, but better than 10:45am or 1pm).
TW--- just found out my Monster In Law tried to fish for delivery room information from my mom at my baby shower on saturday!!! I told SO from now on the only ones whose gonna know about labor is him and my mom cause im tired of all the shit. Shes already trying to hoard my post partum room with people who can take pictures so im not having it. Nobody is gonna know anything until we are home unless we are stuck at the hospital a long time (like weeks not days). Further more, the going home outfit she picked out is god awful!!! My baby is going home in a TARDIS onesie and a monkey jacket thank you very much!!!
ugh @kyrwyn that is the worst. especially if you have to schedule multiple appts EVERY WEEK. my commute is hella long and my OB / MFM / hematologist / EVERYONE ON EARTH are near my home. i'm always like, hello, early morning or latest in the afternoon you got is still going to cost me three hours of work. make it happen people.
"how about 11:30?" "death glare at phone" "ok well how about 12:30?" "you're getting colder" "how about 3pm?" "what's the latest you can do?" "315?" "...." "ok 330?" "...." "oh well i guess we could do 4pm."
Met: September 2005Married: October 2008 DS: 09/2014
@MJDsquared Just in case it's not preggo nuttiness & the dog is licking extra & asking to go out extra, please consider a vet visit to check for UTI or an anal glands issue (this is ALWAYS why my dog goes licky).
my TW is two loose dogs that came to our house (we're on 10 acres and a 1/4 mile from the road BTW) and killed 4 of our chickens. Actually, dogs are gonna dog, my real problem is with the owners that let the dogs run loose. WTF. ESPECIALLY since one of the dogs was aggressive towards me when I went outside to shoo them away.
Trophy goes to to my own dog for shutting down the dog who snarled at me and then chasing the loose dogs back towards the road. She was perfect...didn't get in a fight, got the dogs away, then kept an eye out for trouble while I assessed to damage & cleaned up.
babybison
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Re: TW/Trophy Tuesday - 10.24
Married: Oct 2015
TTC #1: Sept 2016
BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
BFP: 3/24/17
TTC #2: July 2018
BFP: 8/26/18
Trophy also goes to DH though, because he made this past weekend "Happy Wife Weekend" and I got to relax all weekend without DD, AND he knocked out most of my pre-baby to do list. I suppose I should forgive him for the whole alarm thing.
My pregnancy rage is not loving this situation. And WHY DOES SHE LICK HERSELF SO OFTEN AND WHY ALWAYS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT?!
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
Married May 2014
DD born August 2016
Baby #2 due December 2017
"how about 11:30?"
"death glare at phone"
"ok well how about 12:30?"
"you're getting colder"
"how about 3pm?"
"what's the latest you can do?"
"315?"
"...."
"ok 330?"
"...."
"oh well i guess we could do 4pm."
Met: September 2005 Married: October 2008 DS: 09/2014
my TW is two loose dogs that came to our house (we're on 10 acres and a 1/4 mile from the road BTW) and killed 4 of our chickens. Actually, dogs are gonna dog, my real problem is with the owners that let the dogs run loose. WTF. ESPECIALLY since one of the dogs was aggressive towards me when I went outside to shoo them away.
Trophy goes to to my own dog for shutting down the dog who snarled at me and then chasing the loose dogs back towards the road. She was perfect...didn't get in a fight, got the dogs away, then kept an eye out for trouble while I assessed to damage & cleaned up.
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020