February 2018 Moms

WTF Wednesday (or MBF, or TW Tues) 10.11

Given we missed Monday Bitch Fest and Twatwaffle Tuesday, vent anything you want to here!
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18

Re: WTF Wednesday (or MBF, or TW Tues) 10.11

  • I'm getting a headache trying to figure out the prepayment of an estimated copay for delivery. Our doctors office wants us to pay $400+ a month to prepay for this kid and that apparently won't be applied to this years deductable and it doesn't include the actual hospital portion? We didn't pay anything for our first so we're lost and DH looks like the bug eyed emoji over this new expense. My brain can't brain insurance nonsense. 
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    edited October 2017
    The same person at worked has asked me 3 times now if I am wrapping up for maternity leave as if I will be giving birth any day now.... um no still not planning on having this baby until Feb... thank you for reminding me I am huge


    @Melissa9481 my OB office tried that last time even though we had a very low deductibe. I told them no, we would pay after we received the service. We hit our max out of pocket in the second trimester so I would have been arguing with them to reimburse since insurance picked up the rest.
  • Went to a home and garden show the other week and was asked by no less than 3 vendors if I wanted to sit down..... no. No I don’t. Like wtf. 
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • I'm getting a headache trying to figure out the prepayment of an estimated copay for delivery. Our doctors office wants us to pay $400+ a month to prepay for this kid and that apparently won't be applied to this years deductable and it doesn't include the actual hospital portion? We didn't pay anything for our first so we're lost and DH looks like the bug eyed emoji over this new expense. My brain can't brain insurance nonsense. 
    We've been making the payments but we changed insurance and now know that we will only be $600 short of our deductible when I give birth so I have to go over all of this with her next week.  Should be a pain in the butt
  • My patience is unusually short the last few days. I was sick Monday and I've been worried about all our mamas on here. DH is making me nuts house shopping and we've had my 3 year old nephew here for the last 3 days. I have no idea when he's going home. My brother and his girlfriend don't really miss him when he's gone which is sad but he's making me crazy! He and DD largely do well together but he's so much needier than she is and I just want to chill. 

    General complaint about everything basically 
  • @smorzandoj Holy crap! What's wrong with kids, no respect! I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that today. Hopefully the rest of the week goes better for you. 
  • @smorzandoj I’m so sorry. Kids can be the best and worst part of our job. The only thing getting me through this school year right now is the countdown to Feb. Everytime I have a day like today, I pack up something in my room that I won’t need anymore. It helps me “keep my eye on the prize.”
  • @smorzandoj: that sounds awful! Sorry he was such an ass to you. It's always made worse when the parents excuse the bad behavior and disrespect too. So frustrating!
  • @smorzandoj I’m so sorry. Kids can be the best and worst part of our job. The only thing getting me through this school year right now is the countdown to Feb. Everytime I have a day like today, I pack up something in my room that I won’t need anymore. It helps me “keep my eye on the prize.”
    I didn’t even unpack anything major this year. I just couldn’t. 

    And thanks ladies. My SO is begging me to get out of urban ed and I’m actually debating it. 
  • This is why I couldn't teach @smorzandoj.  I would be in jail.

    Sorry your having a crappy week @SarahFoley725

    Do you have to go @magnolia305?  I wouldn't.  Let her buy her own owls!
  • @chucksmom15 I am not going. Thankfully my MIL made plans to have the grandkids pictures taken for her Christmas cards. So that will be my excuse to miss out all day. 
  •  I'm my own twat waffle _wtf Wednesday. I decided we needed to level our dining room floor.  I thought it would take a day or a weekend.  I was wrong,  and I'm  doing 90% of the work now,  and standing - sitting - squatting constantly is not something i can n apparently do anymore over and over for hours.  I can also not duck under things with out getting lightning crotch. And my dining room is spread out all over,  the dining chairs and benches are in my room,  our fireplace is in the kitchen along with all of our collectables China and crystal on every counter space,  and or dining table is in the living room.  It's chaos, and realistically going to take at least a whole nother week to finish...
    BabyFruit Ticker
    older siblings: ds 16 dd 14 ds 13 dd 11 dd 7 
  • @smorzandoj what a nightmare. I’m sorry! 

    @mamaof5already i have bright ideas like that all the time and usually regret them. Hang in there!

    My bitch for today is just that I watched someone fail to get a conviction on a guy who was charged with DV battery for strangling his wife’s because of poor lawyering and it was and should have been an open and shut case. I lose sleep over stuff like that. Makes me so mad. 
  • @smorzandoj OMG What a brat. And his mom saying he doesn't like to be yelled at... is she afraid of him or something? Come on, be a better parent and teach your kids respect! Sorry you had to go through that.
  • @smorzandoj Wow!  That is unbelievable!  Kids can't even hug their friends anymore and this punk shoved you?!?!  I hope he was disciplined by the school.
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