Given we missed Monday Bitch Fest and Twatwaffle Tuesday, vent anything you want to here!
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
I'm getting a headache trying to figure out the prepayment of an estimated copay for delivery. Our doctors office wants us to pay $400+ a month to prepay for this kid and that apparently won't be applied to this years deductable and it doesn't include the actual hospital portion? We didn't pay anything for our first so we're lost and DH looks like the bug eyed emoji over this new expense. My brain can't brain insurance nonsense.
The same person at worked has asked me 3 times now if I am wrapping up for maternity leave as if I will be giving birth any day now.... um no still not planning on having this baby until Feb... thank you for reminding me I am huge
@Melissa9481 my OB office tried that last time even though we had a very low deductibe. I told them no, we would pay after we received the service. We hit our max out of pocket in the second trimester so I would have been arguing with them to reimburse since insurance picked up the rest.
I'm getting a headache trying to figure out the prepayment of an estimated copay for delivery. Our doctors office wants us to pay $400+ a month to prepay for this kid and that apparently won't be applied to this years deductable and it doesn't include the actual hospital portion? We didn't pay anything for our first so we're lost and DH looks like the bug eyed emoji over this new expense. My brain can't brain insurance nonsense.
We've been making the payments but we changed insurance and now know that we will only be $600 short of our deductible when I give birth so I have to go over all of this with her next week. Should be a pain in the butt
My WTF is me. I got a burst of energy and cleaned out a few closets today. Sat down to rest and play on my phone and realized I had no idea when I last had my phone. Thank goodness for the Find My iPhone app on my iPad. It was in the refrigerator next to the case of ginger ale.
I lost my shiz on a student today. First he started yelling at me when I asked him to take the computer from the desk next to him. I was not putting up with his shit so I told him to leave and go to another room. He refused. Then under his breath was saying “this is why pregnant people shouldn’t work.” In excuse me little boy. I called for support. This little f then stood in my doorway refusing to leave with support. I went to shit the door and he shoved it into me. Then it got real bc I lost my ever loving mind on him and got in his face...walked out and told security they better get him out. Then I went to a secret hole in the wall teacher room and cried. I’m so over my job. and it gets better. His mom said “he doesn’t like to be yelled at”. Funny neither do I. Maybe you should teach him to not be a little fart head.
My patience is unusually short the last few days. I was sick Monday and I've been worried about all our mamas on here. DH is making me nuts house shopping and we've had my 3 year old nephew here for the last 3 days. I have no idea when he's going home. My brother and his girlfriend don't really miss him when he's gone which is sad but he's making me crazy! He and DD largely do well together but he's so much needier than she is and I just want to chill.
@smorzandoj Holy crap! What's wrong with kids, no respect! I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that today. Hopefully the rest of the week goes better for you.
@smorzandoj I’m so sorry. Kids can be the best and worst part of our job. The only thing getting me through this school year right now is the countdown to Feb. Everytime I have a day like today, I pack up something in my room that I won’t need anymore. It helps me “keep my eye on the prize.”
@smorzandoj: that sounds awful! Sorry he was such an ass to you. It's always made worse when the parents excuse the bad behavior and disrespect too. So frustrating!
@smorzandoj What a shitty day. The disrespect kids display today is terrible. Even in preschool, it always shocks me when kids come back with hateful responses. I can’t imagine getting that from a “big kid”.
My WTF is my stepsister. First, we aren’t close. We became steps as adults and literally see each other at Christmas. I got a FB invite today to her baby shower. This is her third kid, same husband, and her youngest is four. A guest asked on the FB group what she “still needed” since she has two older children. She said, “everything! This time Baby will have an owl themed room!”. Umm, WTF—no. I am not buying you brand new shit bc you are changing themes.
@smorzandoj I’m so sorry. Kids can be the best and worst part of our job. The only thing getting me through this school year right now is the countdown to Feb. Everytime I have a day like today, I pack up something in my room that I won’t need anymore. It helps me “keep my eye on the prize.”
I didn’t even unpack anything major this year. I just couldn’t.
And thanks ladies. My SO is begging me to get out of urban ed and I’m actually debating it.
@chucksmom15 I am not going. Thankfully my MIL made plans to have the grandkids pictures taken for her Christmas cards. So that will be my excuse to miss out all day.
I'm my own twat waffle _wtf Wednesday. I decided we needed to level our dining room floor. I thought it would take a day or a weekend. I was wrong, and I'm doing 90% of the work now, and standing - sitting - squatting constantly is not something i can n apparently do anymore over and over for hours. I can also not duck under things with out getting lightning crotch. And my dining room is spread out all over, the dining chairs and benches are in my room, our fireplace is in the kitchen along with all of our collectables China and crystal on every counter space, and or dining table is in the living room. It's chaos, and realistically going to take at least a whole nother week to finish...
@mamaof5already i have bright ideas like that all the time and usually regret them. Hang in there!
My bitch for today is just that I watched someone fail to get a conviction on a guy who was charged with DV battery for strangling his wife’s because of poor lawyering and it was and should have been an open and shut case. I lose sleep over stuff like that. Makes me so mad.
@smorzandoj OMG What a brat. And his mom saying he doesn't like to be yelled at... is she afraid of him or something? Come on, be a better parent and teach your kids respect! Sorry you had to go through that.
Re: WTF Wednesday (or MBF, or TW Tues) 10.11
@Melissa9481 my OB office tried that last time even though we had a very low deductibe. I told them no, we would pay after we received the service. We hit our max out of pocket in the second trimester so I would have been arguing with them to reimburse since insurance picked up the rest.
General complaint about everything basically
My WTF is my stepsister. First, we aren’t close. We became steps as adults and literally see each other at Christmas. I got a FB invite today to her baby shower. This is her third kid, same husband, and her youngest is four. A guest asked on the FB group what she “still needed” since she has two older children. She said, “everything! This time Baby will have an owl themed room!”. Umm, WTF—no. I am not buying you brand new shit bc you are changing themes.
And thanks ladies. My SO is begging me to get out of urban ed and I’m actually debating it.
Sorry your having a crappy week @SarahFoley725
Do you have to go @magnolia305? I wouldn't. Let her buy her own owls!
older siblings: ds 16 dd 14 ds 13 dd 11 dd 7
@mamaof5already i have bright ideas like that all the time and usually regret them. Hang in there!
My bitch for today is just that I watched someone fail to get a conviction on a guy who was charged with DV battery for strangling his wife’s because of poor lawyering and it was and should have been an open and shut case. I lose sleep over stuff like that. Makes me so mad.