Hayden is all boy honestly I think Finley is too. Wilder is just so trying to be cool. I would avoid an H name if you have two. Two is a coincidence three is a theme.
Aren't you tired of the Hayden, Jayden, Brayden trend? So over done an unoriginal. I just cant get behind these trends that time stamp your children (another time stamp is boy names on girls). If you want an H name, Hugh Henry Harvey Howard Hudson Hugo Hannah Halena Hillary Hilda Heloise
It’s a boy name. And personally I wouldn’t go with three pretty trendy H names. With your current sib set, my favorite girl name is Quinn, or Xander for a boy. Both different but not quite as trendy maybe?
I know 2 Haydens: one is a boy and the other a girl. I think it works for both of them, the way Taylor used to. I also met my first Wilder in the pediatrician's office the other day-- he was 15 months old. For a girl, what about:
Lindley Haven Marlowe Hadley Eden Bristol Kerrigan Paisley India Maren Loren Paycen
and for a boy: Weston Wyatt Aidan Dylan Gavin Ian Carson Carter
Also, 3 kids whose names all start with the same letter calls the parents' judgment into question. 2 names with the same letter? Coincidence. The parents just happened to love 2 names that both started with the same letter. I think this is especially possible with a boy and girl name. I speak as a parent of a daughter and son whose names both start with "T." It was coincidence. One of the only names we both loved for our son happened to be a T name, so we just went with it, knowing he was our last child.
3 siblings whose names all start with the same letter? A guarantee that the parents were intentional and trying to be "cute." It's not cute.
Re: Hayden ok for either gender?
If you want an H name,
Hugh
Henry
Harvey
Howard
Hudson
Hugo
Hannah
Halena
Hillary
Hilda
Heloise
Eva
Ada
Lauren
Vera
Cecilia
Petra
Marcus
Edison
Keller
Isaac
Otto
I don't like Hayden for a boy at all, so of the two, I would pick Wilder, but neither is my style.
Henrik
Vaughn
Van
Milo
Miles
Ames
Orrin
Arlo
Roman
Harvey
Abel
Cole
Colton
Shane
Lindley
Haven
Marlowe
Hadley
Eden
Bristol
Kerrigan
Paisley
India
Maren
Loren
Paycen
and for a boy:
Weston
Wyatt
Aidan
Dylan
Gavin
Ian
Carson
Carter
Also, 3 kids whose names all start with the same letter calls the parents' judgment into question. 2 names with the same letter? Coincidence. The parents just happened to love 2 names that both started with the same letter. I think this is especially possible with a boy and girl name. I speak as a parent of a daughter and son whose names both start with "T." It was coincidence. One of the only names we both loved for our son happened to be a T name, so we just went with it, knowing he was our last child.
3 siblings whose names all start with the same letter? A guarantee that the parents were intentional and trying to be "cute." It's not cute.
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