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ChasingTheDog ChasingTheDog member
in May 2018 Moms
I feel like this may need a TW but I’m not exactly sure the classification. TW possible impending loss?? 

Had my 1st US sound and it’s not great. Baby had a hb but is measuring about 1 week behind. Based on when we had sex, there’s no way that the baby is 6 weeks along rather than 7. I rescan in 2 weeks. 

So, hold my hand. Tell me it will be okay no matter what. This has 2 possible outcomes and I know which is the more likely of the two. Even then,  I haven’t given up so if you have stories that start like this and turn out okay, I’d appreciate them.  


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    artlea2013artlea2013 member
    No stories, but all the love. Ultrasounds can certainly be off by a few days, and a heartbeat is a great sign! Best of luck, try to relax, and hold strong. There's nothing to do now but keep hopeful and wait
    Me: 32 DH: 31 *The old lady by 5 whole weeks*
    Married: 11/2013
    M: 6/2016  E: 5/2018
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    rachelg777rachelg777 member
    I also don't have any experiences to share, but I'll be thinking about you and hoping for the best. Ultrasounds can definitely be off. 
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    bwow615bwow615 member
    @chasingthedog sorry you are going through this, sending my prayers to you
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    SLC1102SLC1102 member
    Hugs lady. I'm in the same/ similar situation except for 1 week behind mine was 2. What was the HB measuring? I go back in 2 weeks (4 weeks from my apt) and am hopeful all will be ok. I also don't agree with their date based on sono, and know they can be off. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone. Try and stay positive. 
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    ChasingTheDog ChasingTheDog member
    SLC1102 said:
    Hugs lady. I'm in the same/ similar situation except for 1 week behind mine was 2. What was the HB measuring? I go back in 2 weeks (4 weeks from my apt) and am hopeful all will be ok. I also don't agree with their date based on sono, and know they can be off. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone. Try and stay positive. 
    I don’t know what the hb was at. We’ll hold hand together and hope for the best. <3 
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    GeekBeagleGeekBeagle member
    Sending prayers your way!
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    pandakovpandakov member
    Good luck! Like others said - there are so many factors that can affect things. Thinking of you and hoping for the best. 
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    Poppy0419Poppy0419 member
    The scan can be a few days off too. I was 12 days off and ovulated late. Everything looks good even though it doesn't make sense.  <3 we're all here to hold your hand 
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    SaratiffSaratiff member
    Praying for you and for a sticky healthy bean. I know the waiting game. Try to stay positive and we are holding your hand. 
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    justsuziejustsuzie member
    The waiting game sucks but everything is out of your control so try to stay positive. 
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    zaclinazaclina member
    Medical tech is not perfect, but what it does say is you are pregnant.  So hugs to you and it will be ok no matter what.
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    cassloumycassloumy member
    edited September 2017
    My last pregnancy I knew exactly when I ovulated (mettleschmerz cramps or however it's spelled) and we only DTD once that month because I had been sick with a cold. At the ultrasound they told me I was measuring 9 days behind that. When I went for the nuchal translucency screen at a specialist (a month and a half later!) they told me it was too late because I was too far along, and my due date got switched to exactly when I had known it was.

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    tacosandvirginmargaritastacosandvirginmargaritas member
    justsuzie said:
    Not to mention one click of their mouse being a mm off equals days! 
    Yes this!! I went in last Friday thinking I was 7 weeks exactly. Then my doctor said it's measuring at exactly 6 weeks, I said there's no way I know what days we had sex, he agreed to measure again, zoomed in more, clicked around and said "oh looks like it's measuring at 6 weeks and 4 days. I didn't measure correctly." Still not the 7 weeks like I thought but that extra mm he missed the first time added 4 days! 
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    ChasingTheDog ChasingTheDog member
    Y’all are the fucking best. Thank you <3<3 
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    duck_duck_gooseduck_duck_goose member
    @ChasingTheDog I will be thinking of you the next two weeks. Heart beats are good, and dates are an estimate.  <3 
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    gildahgildah member
    I had an ultrasound that was a week off. That little girl is now a healthy 6 year old. I wouldn't worry about it. I have a love hate relationship with ultrasounds. I've had various "false alarms" because of routine ultrasounds, and they caused me significant anxiety while pregnant. 
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    heelsideheroheelsidehero member
    gildah said:
    I had an ultrasound that was a week off. That little girl is now a healthy 6 year old. I wouldn't worry about it. I have a love hate relationship with ultrasounds. I've had various "false alarms" because of routine ultrasounds, and they caused me significant anxiety while pregnant. 
    U/s are the devil. We also had a "false alarm" that I'll likely get into later on but i now dread them when they are supposed to be a happy time. 
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    mommabmbmommabmb member
    Ovulation can be wonky, the measuring can be wonky, and throw in some stress and I'm sure this is all scary. BUT... you have a heartbeat! And at this stage, that's really the only "confirmation" you can get of health. SO, congrats on your baby. No matter what happens, this board is great support!! 
    Married DH <3 : 7/7/12; 3 fur babies (2 dogs and 1 cat)
    DS born 9/3/13; DD born 7/22/15; LO due 5/28/18
    FS (age 5) and FD (age 2) to become AS/AD very soon!

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    sandbar517sandbar517 member
    Thinking of you, and hoping for the best @chasingthedog.  Keep us updated!!


    Me, 35 Hubs, 32
    Married June 2012
    BFP June 2013- blighted ovum, D&C Aug 2013
    BFP Oct 2013- twins!  A&H born May 2014
    BFP Aug 2017- EDD 5/8/17


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    suchaglencocosuchaglencoco member
    @ChasingTheDog , hope you're finding a little more peace today with all the great stories above.
    Hugs to you.
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    labgrand2012labgrand2012 member
    Sorry you are going through this, but a heart beat is a good sign! Sending you lots of positive thoughts for a sticky bean!
    BFP #1 1/4/14  |  Diagnosed with Trisomy 13 at 12 weeks 3/6/14  |  MMC 3/21/14  |   D&C 3/24/14
    BFP #2 7/1/14  |  DS born March 2015
    BFP#3 5/22/17 | MC 6/17/17 at 7w3d
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    CerisrichardCerisrichard member
    Thinking of you. I have had 2 early scans because of scares. They were measuring at least 2 days different. They told me the scan is only accurate to 3-4 days at this stage. I agree with others that you may have ovulated a few days after you think and that would combine to make up the time.

    even with the 12 week scans for ds1 and ds2, they were off by a couple of days as they were giving me dates before I could possibly have conceived!
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    heelsideheroheelsidehero member
    I had an u/s Friday at the hospital in fetal imaging and was told I was measuring right on (7w 6d). I had another u/s today in my OB's office that said I was measuring 7w4d. My OB immediately told me not to freak out that my baby hasn't grown in the last couple days. She said their equipment isn't as good plus it was an abdominal u/s not vaginal and if I was concerned they could do a vaginal scan to get more accurate. 

    Hope this helps. 
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