R/R: (rant): MH is getting more serious about doing house renovations. All I can see is that it will cost a lot of money (as in we need a home improvement loan) and it will be a big inconvenience. I know the changes will be beautiful in the end, but these types of projects always take longer and are more expensive than you initially expect. (rave): 6 mile run to start my day!
CS/Q: n/a
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? I absolutely love Thanksgiving and Christmas because it is such a joyful time with family, friends, and yummy food. (Now I'm hungry! lol)
CS/Q: Temp dipped back down but after my + OPK yesterday I have a feeling we are there. I want to HIO one more time tonight and then MH is off the hook. Yesterday was a slight struggle, but not too bad. Poor man is TOO satisfied right now, lol. FX for temp jump tomorrow.
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why?
R/R: Its a bad day. It is not even 10am and I should just go back home and back to bed. I am going to dig deep and not flip any tables today.
CS/Q: Positive OPK's but no shift temp to go along with it. MH is still away so irrelevant, but wondering if I am going to have my first ano cycle. Oh well.
GTKY: Christmas. I love the spirit of giving and being around family. And plus cookies!
@dukestar5 Renovations always cost more than you think they will. Even when you price them out in detail and try and account for everything. Sometimes it is worth it. Maybe some smaller stuff you can do without the loan? That may make him feel better about it for now? @nimmle GL hio one more time. Your timing is great though!
WAYDTGKU: I'll be specific today: HIO, OPK, BBT/CM/CP, B-complex, Vit D/E
R/R: Having "friends" over for dinner. They're really just a couple DH knows. I don't really know how to feel about it but oh well...Our menu for tonight sounds delicious, so I'm just planning on stuffing my face (Chicken stuffed with asparagus/provolone with a white wine bacon cream sauce, spinach salad, and I forgot what DH said is the side). DH leaves here in just a few days, so I'm bummed because not only am I going to miss him, but I still haven't O'd yet, and I feel like we're going to miss it. He'll be gone for two months
CS/Q: Temp dip, but OPKs are still negative
GTKY: Christmas...I love the pine tree smell and all the bright, beautiful decorations. 4th of July is a close second because of fireworks and watermelon
@dukestar5 Does DH know how you feel about the renovations? Good job on your run! @nimmle Hope you O' tonight/today! You've got good timing! @nitnat007 Sorry you're having a bad day...mine has been pretty shitty too. Got anything planned to lift your spirits?
@nitnat007 that was me yesterday, I didn't go to work because I wanted to keep my job.. @dukestar5 Nice job on the run! I did 3.5 miles yesterday. I need to redo our living room and paint the trim white and walls some shade of gray.
Month/Cycle:3/2
CD:39
WAYDTGKU: all the things
R/R: I am ready for this cycle to be over. I think I am 1 dpo, but am staying here til its confirmed. I had spotting this morning which I never have had. It totally freaked me out til Dr. google said it was normal. However, I think even with good timing there isn't much of chance of me conceiving on this wonky cycle. Maybe it will help me to hold off on testing.
CS/Q: Anyone else spot on 1 dpo before?
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? xmas, because its just got such amazing food and it feels magical somehow.
WAYDTGKU: Just started temping today, Green Tea, RRL Tea, and I ordered some preseed to try out
R/R: Rave: Even though sleep was a bit rough last night, I woke up to temp and go for a jog first thing. I'm hoping to make a habit of both those things starting with this cycle. Rant: I wish I was in much better shape right now.
CS/Q: Nothing to see yet. Wondering how this will go, since I woke up with an open, dry mouth, but hopefully it will work out (I'm not really keen on the idea of vaginal temping, I'm already putting enough things up there! LOL)
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? Toughie because I love so many holidays. I think I've gotta go with New Years though. I really love reflecting back on the year behind and the fresh start the new year brings. We often spend it with friends (the family you choose) and even if we have low-key plans or have had a hard year, there is something nice about hitting the refresh button and starting anew.
@dukestar5 nice work on you 6 mile run! Are you training for something specific right now? @nitnat007 sorry for the crappy day. Hope it gets better! @josie12367 I hope your dinner goes well. It sounds very yummy! @Stargazer1lily Sorry about AF's arrival.
@josie12367 Dinner sounds delicious! But I hear you, sometimes it just takes more out of you to be around people you don't really know that well. I hope that you have fun though and stuff your face! ((hugs)) I totally understand missing YH. I truly hope that you catch that egg this cycle though. And if you ever need to vent, I am just a PM away! @Katm89 Really hope that your day is better today! If my car hadn't given me issues on the way into work, I probably would have turned around and gone home. But....I need the car to be fixed. Sigh @Stargazer1lily Sorry for CD1! @mrsinterweb Good work today! That is a great new habit to get into! GL with temping! I know there are a few ladies here that temp vaginally. Hope tonight is better.
Not posting my own stats today but popping in to say hi. @Stargazer1lily Did you have an an-o cycle? Big hugs to you, friend. @josie12367 Dinner sounds fab. YH is cooking? Hope you have a good time even though you don't know them well. A glass of wine always helps me loosen up. Is wine on the menu too? @dukestar5 GL figuring out your renovations with YH. That's so stressful especially when you know it will cost a lot. We took out a home equity loan a while ago in order to replace our HVAC. The rates were a lot lower than a regular loan (I think...I'm terrible at financial stuff). @nimmle Yay for your gifs! Love them both so much.
Omg, in a taxi in NYC and I'm DYING of heat! Turn on the AC please! Will miss hearing from you guys for the next several days. Have a great rest of the week and GL for you all Oing on time and getting great timing. Hugs to everyone!
@duekstar5Good luck with the renos, even if you don't want to do them. I'm sure your house will be beautiful! @nimmleFX you O'd yesterday! @nitnat007I'm sorry you are already having a bad morning. Just remember that you got this! Or maybe some online retail therapy will make you feel better. @josie12367Can I come over too? That meal sounds amazing! @katm89I haven't, but I've heard it's normal from the egg being released. @Stargazer1lilyDo you know what you are dressing up as this Halloween? @mrsinterweb Good for you for getting up and going running!
Month/Cycle: 5/5 (2/2 after losses)
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: PNV, HIO, CM, CP, ute juice, OPKs,
R/R: Rant: the company I work for is getting audited (for work safe procedures) and I have to get interviewed by the guy to make sure I know all the policies... Rave: it's hump day?
CS/Q: Not temping.
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? CHRISTMAS!!!! I love the decorations, the presents, all the food, getting together with family, and the list goes on an on. But I don't decorate until after Remembrance day and our Christmas tree goes up the first weekend of December.
Good morning! @dukestar5 maybe watch a few hours of renovation tv shows with DH, he'll soon think twice @josie12367 sorry your timing might not work out, still keeping FX for you! Your dinner sounds delicious! @nimmle can MH join the 'too satisfied' club... I almost said to him this morning "sorry, we're going to have to HIO again today" - then I checked myself!! @Stargazer1lily sorry for CD1!! *hugs and wine to you* @ChloandCoco LOL nice usage of the ute-juice!!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 20
WAYDTGKU: staring at my FF chart....
R/R: We're entering into a municipal election here, and I get to go to an all mayoral candidates forum today (I'm a huge political junkie) - very excited... then since I'll be downtown already, leaving work early for happy hour with some friends!!
CS/Q: A slight temp rise from the past few days, but definitely nothing higher than my normal pre-O temps. I've also put in positive OPKs but TBH, these aren't true positives. Well the one today might have been a true positive...the line was probably AS dark as the control, but definitely not darker (definitely not like the super-true positive I got last cycle, so I am confused). Last cycle I got a positive OPK on the same day as O, so hopefully today this nonsense will end.
Question: For those who temp vaginally - how do you clean the thermometer between temps? I was thinking maybe I'd use baby wipes but any advice would be great (I temp orally right now, but thinking about vaginal temping if there is a next cycle).
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? Christmas for sure - love having family around, and warm and snuggly things, and the movies....all of it!! We are having both sets of parents come for our first Christmas in our new house this year...I started a Pinterest board for decorations months ago!!! Also my Bday is in December so it's generally my fave month!
@dukestar5 -what reno's are you doing? Sorry if I didn't see it before. We seriously considered doing that as well, but we would have literally needed to change Everything from the garage, to the kitchen to adding on to our second story. It made more sense to just buy a new house. I'm curious to see how it all goes for you. That will be nice to have everything the way you want it but I definitely understand the hesitation.
@canucklehead123 & @ChloandCoco I love Christmas too, I have so many pins. Congrats on getting a new house! That's so exciting!
R/R: Rant- I hate this stupid audit at work. Plus I'm pretty sure it's for the sale of our company. It's really annoying to have extra work. Rave: DH is home now and going to take pictures of our living room to update our home listing. FX we get a bite!
CS/Q: I decided I'm not going to temp anymore. We HIO every night - humble brag? I know... cue eye roll, I figure if that's not going to change then does it really matter? We're either going to get a BFP or BFN no matter what.
GTKY: What is your favorite holiday and why?
New Years - There is something about everyone coming together no matter what age, race, religion to usher in a new year. I love the lights, fireworks, and love that night brings. I'm always filled with hope.
WAYDTGKU: Prenatals, about to start basal temping, ovulation detector strip thingies
R/R: I wanted to start temping today to see where I'm at but I ordered the wrong dang thing on amazon and now I have to wait till tomorrow. This is so not a big deal as I am on my period still but I was curious!
CS/Q: I did start one on ff but its not saying much yet so I'll hold off.
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? Thanksgiving!! The best food! It feels less hectic for me.
@dukestar5 Heck yes its expensive! In my experience, 3x the expectation. But it could be so pretty! @josie12367 Omg that sounds amazing. Can I come?! lol.
@dukestar5 I feel like renovations never really end...hopefully it wont be too disruptive! @nimmle lol love that gif!! (ETA) Youre in NYC too? haaaaaaay! @nitnat007 ugh, sorry youre having such a bad day! @josie12367 so hoping your egg shows up today!! @katm89 maybe that was O spotting! @stargazer1lily Halloween is my favorite non food holiday @mrsinterweb I wouldn't worry about waking with an open mouth just yet... just keep temping and see if theres a pattern. I feel like something is different every day for me (cat sleeping on me, husband hogging the sheets, etc) and I just keep plugging in the temps... as long as I can tell ive o'ed that's good enough @offtoneverland Hey! I just got OUT of a cab I NYC...lol we had air! @Chloandcoco ugh for auditing blah! @canucklehead123 ive never temped vaginally, but make sure the wipes are ph balanced for lady parts... I'm sure most of the stuff evaps away, but I would make sure just in case @galactikates wow more audits? ugh! So nice you can ditch the temping! @mygoodlucycat did you order the wrong thermometer?
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: prep for ivf
R/R: no rants, rave, started back with acupuncture today and I feel soooooo good.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? Thanksgiving, FOOD!!!
I have never done acupuncture, I'm glad it makes you feel good! I don't especially like needles so I'm not so sure about that for myself.
I hate needles and still sometimes cry a little when getting blood drawn (if you can believe that after ive had so many ivf cycles). The poking of the acupuncture needles can feel like nothing with the right therapist, and I get so much relaxation out of it. I always tell people its worth a try, but if you hate it its not worth it!
So update, I have continued spotting all day and am having pretty terrible cramps. I wonder if my body is just like.. well this cycle was too long lets flush your system. Gee, I hope not. It would have sucked to wait 38 days just to have to wait another 35 days to try again.
Sorry to post & run this morning--crazy day! Back for tags for all of my favorite bump gals
@nimmle Yay for a positive OPK! FX you all are able to HIO tonight. You may have to throw in some lingerie or role play to get him pumped up for it! @nitnat007 Hoping your day gets better! Do you have a favorite cookie recipe to bake (or eat) around the holidays? @josie12367 That dinner sounds yummy...what time should I come over? lol Do you do most of the cooking or does YH? I am sorry that he is leaving so soon and that you have not O'd yet. FX your body gets it together to O before he leaves. Waiting on the bench is so tough. (P.S. To answer you question--yes MH knows my feelings on the renovation, but once he gets an idea in his head, he just runs with it! We are going to meet with the bank re: loan options as well as the contractor to get ideas/narrow them down and figure out a possible budget. Hopefully thinking through costs and also interest rates will help MH be a bit more reasonable about the project). @Katm89 No, I do not usually spot, but I know other ladies do during their cycles. Are you temping? Perhaps it could be implantation spotting if you are further along dpo than you think? @Stargazer1lily Sorry to see you over here with AF. And I love dressing up for Halloween too! Any fun costume ideas for this year? Or a favorite costume you wore in the past? @mrsinterweb Way to get up and go for a jog this morning! (And yes--I am training for a half marathon this fall. Training for a race usually helps motivate me to run! ) Remind me--what does RRL tea help with? @offtoneverland Have soooooo much fun on your trip! We will miss you! (P.S. Update us when you get back! Are you still in WTO or TWW now?) @ChloandCoco Sorry for the audit at work! FX it goes smoothly. What is Remembrance day? @canucklehead123 I love watching the reno/fixer upper type shows. FX I can get MH to watch some. He knows it will be a big project, but has been dreaming of doing it forever--we live in an older home. I'm sorry for the temping frustrations. Enjoy happy hour and the candidate forum tonight. @galactickates MH wants to re-do the kitchen as well as tear down a wall between the den and the kitchen. Also MH wants to re-do the laundry room and office. (Not a small project! haha) Good luck on updating your home listing. FX it sells quickly. @mygoodlucycat I hope your BBT arrives soon. I actually do not start temping until about CD8 because I'm lazy. @dragonette505 CD buddy! Are you having to take any meds right now or what does the ivf prep entail at this point in the cycle? (Forgive me if you've explained it before!) Also, how did you find your acupuncturist? @Katm89 I just saw your update. I am sorry for the spotting and cramps. On average, how long are your cycles? FX it is not AF yet.
@katm89 Do you have a chart we could look at? Maybe we could help decipher it for you, see if there are any other options about what is going on. You may have had an anovulatory cycle....those suck. I have had them quite frequently in the past. @Stargazer1lily So sorry about AF...An-O cycles are a bitch! @mrsinterweb I wish you all the best in your new goal. It's such a good one too! Sometimes if I wake up with a dry, open mouth I will just lay in bed for five minutes with my mouth closed,and wait. Then I will temp once I feel like it's a bit warmer. Maybe not as accurate, but like Dragonette said, as long as you see the shift, you're good! @nitnat007 Dinner was delicious! BUT it was awkward AF. His wife just sat there for the most part looking bored, and like she wanted to leave. Plus, she didn't really eat her food. I was kind of bummed out...but there was wine, so there's that! And yes unfortunatley I know you understand all about the DH thing. Same goes for you, my inbox is always open. Hopefully both of our men will be home for the holidays @offtoneverland YES! DH cooked everything! He's the best, mainly cause he knows i'm about to starve when he leaves! lol. Dinner was delicious but sooooo awkward! It was so quiet, and the conversation was dull. I definitely enjoyed a beverage or two! @Chloandcoco Come on over! We have leftovers and WINE...Boo on audits, and on the spot interviews. Yuck. Hope it's not too awful. @Canucklehead123 YEA for good politics and for good friends! and happy hours! I don't know who came up with the idea of a happy hour...but they need billions of dollars if they don't have it already...OPKs are so frustrating. I don't think i'm going to do them next cycle. I fell like they stress me out more than help. @galatickates I get the not wanting to temp for trying to plan BD, but you might want to just so you know when your TWW is starting, that you didn't have an an-O cycle, and you have an idea of when to test. It still might give you lots of good info, and peace of mind. Just something to consider @mygoodcatlucy Good luck at getting your right stuff from Amazon! Thank goodness for prime! And yes, we have tons of leftovers and WINE ...so come on over! @dragonette505 Thanks! I hope this egg drops soon too! So glad you had a good acupuncture day So you'll have to forgive me if you already said, but what is the next step for you? Are you scheduled for a transfer? Or are you guys trying to do another ER? Hoping that everything so far for you is going smoothly
@dukestar5 You can come over anytime! Leftovers and wine....and Ben and Jerry's are all stocked and ready to go! Well I guess it's good that he knows where you stand on the renovation issue. Sometimes I'm not too clear with my stance on issues in the house, and it bites me in the bum later because by then my DH is so set on whatever he was thinking. I do hope that your meeting with the contractor slows him down a little. Is he maybe trying to push it sooner because y'all are TTC? Did he say whey he's in such a hurry to start a massive project now?
R/R: Forcing H to have sex whether he wants to or not tonight. Boom.
CS/Q:
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? Thanksgiving. It's the one day that everyone in the family gets together without pretenses. Christmas is great, but it revolves around presents.
R/R: work today. Not terrible though. One more day and then done with testing... then I'll wait
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? HALLOWEEN!!!!! How are more prone not thrilled about this! Candy and dressing up. What is better?
@dukestar5 You're right that reno is always more expensive than anticipated. Its because there's tiny projects you forgot to think about. But it will be amazing when you're done. We need to do a few things but we'll hold off until money since they aren't immediate needs - just my wishes.
Woohoo @Stargazer1lily! Yay for someone who understands the awesome that is Halloween. Also sorry for cd1.
@dukestar5 GL with your 1/2 marathon! RRL is for Red Raspberry Leaf Tea. It's supposed to help strengthen/tone your uterus (so instead of ute juice, it's ute tea!). Here's an excerpt from something I found on mamanatural.com
Best known as “the woman’s herb”, red raspberry leaf tea contains the alkaloid, fragrine, which can help strengthen the uterus as well as the pelvic area. Red raspberry leaf is known to:
Ease menstrual discomfort
Improve reproductive health
Balance hormones to increase fertility
May improve chances of implantation
May prevent miscarriage by strengthening and toning the uterine wall
The uterus needs a lot of vitamins and minerals to function properly and red raspberry leaf tea has almost all of them. Red raspberry leaf is high in Vitamins C, E, A, B and has significant amounts of major minerals like magnesium, potassium, calcium, and phosphorus. It also contains essential trace minerals such as zinc, iron, chromium and manganese. These vitamins and minerals are in a readily absorbable form, making Red Raspberry Leaf tea a wonderful, food-based “supplement” during preconception, pregnancy and beyond. The nutritional boost that RRL gives you can help improve your immune system as well.
@josie12367 Wine, yummy food, and ice cream?! I'm sold! Coming over right now... Well, once he has an idea for something, he really likes to run with it; however, it is definitely the biggest project or idea he has had, so we will see what happens once we get more information on the budget and loan offer. He is anticipating it taking about 2-3 months, which in my head means 4-6. @izza2 Go Izza! Get it girl! @Mylitta How is the testing going? Also, yes to Halloween! Our friends usually throw a big, fun party and everyone dresses up. I am hoping they will host it again this year. Any ideas on what you will be for Halloween? @mrsinterweb Thank you! Do you just taking it until you ovulate or throughout the whole cycle? (I know with green tea, it is recommended to drink it just from CD1 to O).
@dukestar5 I'm conflicted about whether to drink it only until O and then stop - or if I should keep going. I've read things that support both ways and as is the case with most natural remedies there aren't really any actual studies to tell you what's the best way. Probably to play it safe, I will drink until O - stop - and then start back up again at CD1 (or after 1st tri, if happen to get KU'd).
Re: WTO Wednesday 9/27
Month/Cycle: 6/6
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: charting, temping, green tea
R/R: (rant): MH is getting more serious about doing house renovations. All I can see is that it will cost a lot of money (as in we need a home improvement loan) and it will be a big inconvenience. I know the changes will be beautiful in the end, but these types of projects always take longer and are more expensive than you initially expect.
(rave): 6 mile run to start my day!
CS/Q: n/a
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why?
I absolutely love Thanksgiving and Christmas because it is such a joyful time with family, friends, and yummy food. (Now I'm hungry! lol)
CD: 24
WAYDTGKU:
R/R: Eh...not much today
CS/Q: Temp dipped back down but after my + OPK yesterday I have a feeling we are there. I want to HIO one more time tonight and then MH is off the hook. Yesterday was a slight struggle, but not too bad. Poor man is TOO satisfied right now, lol. FX for temp jump tomorrow.
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why?
Because food...
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: Nothing atm
R/R: Its a bad day. It is not even 10am and I should just go back home and back to bed. I am going to dig deep and not flip any tables today.
CS/Q: Positive OPK's but no shift temp to go along with it. MH is still away so irrelevant, but wondering if I am going to have my first ano cycle. Oh well.
GTKY: Christmas. I love the spirit of giving and being around family. And plus cookies!
@nimmle GL hio one more time. Your timing is great though!
CD: 21
WAYDTGKU: I'll be specific today: HIO, OPK, BBT/CM/CP, B-complex, Vit D/E
R/R: Having "friends" over for dinner. They're really just a couple DH knows. I don't really know how to feel about it but oh well...Our menu for tonight sounds delicious, so I'm just planning on stuffing my face (Chicken stuffed with asparagus/provolone with a white wine bacon cream sauce, spinach salad, and I forgot what DH said is the side). DH leaves here in just a few days, so I'm bummed because not only am I going to miss him, but I still haven't O'd yet, and I feel like we're going to miss it. He'll be gone for two months
CS/Q: Temp dip, but OPKs are still negative
GTKY: Christmas...I love the pine tree smell and all the bright, beautiful decorations. 4th of July is a close second because of fireworks and watermelon
@dukestar5 Does DH know how you feel about the renovations? Good job on your run!
@nimmle Hope you O' tonight/today! You've got good timing!
@nitnat007 Sorry you're having a bad day...mine has been pretty shitty too. Got anything planned to lift your spirits?
**sauteed mushrooms! That's the other side!
@dukestar5 Nice job on the run! I did 3.5 miles yesterday. I need to redo our living room and paint the trim white and walls some shade of gray.
Month/Cycle:3/2
CD:39
WAYDTGKU: all the things
R/R: I am ready for this cycle to be over. I think I am 1 dpo, but am staying here til its confirmed. I had spotting this morning which I never have had. It totally freaked me out til Dr. google said it was normal. However, I think even with good timing there isn't much of chance of me conceiving on this wonky cycle. Maybe it will help me to hold off on testing.
CS/Q: Anyone else spot on 1 dpo before?
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? xmas, because its just got such amazing food and it feels magical somehow.
CD:1
WAYDTGKU:BBT,CM,OPK,HIO
R/R: AF showed up this morning
CS/Q:nope
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? Halloween, dressing up in whatever you want.
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: Just started temping today, Green Tea, RRL Tea, and I ordered some preseed to try out
R/R: Rave: Even though sleep was a bit rough last night, I woke up to temp and go for a jog first thing. I'm hoping to make a habit of both those things starting with this cycle. Rant: I wish I was in much better shape right now.
CS/Q: Nothing to see yet. Wondering how this will go, since I woke up with an open, dry mouth, but hopefully it will work out (I'm not really keen on the idea of vaginal temping, I'm already putting enough things up there! LOL)
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? Toughie because I love so many holidays. I think I've gotta go with New Years though. I really love reflecting back on the year behind and the fresh start the new year brings. We often spend it with friends (the family you choose) and even if we have low-key plans or have had a hard year, there is something nice about hitting the refresh button and starting anew.
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19
@nitnat007 sorry for the crappy day. Hope it gets better!
@josie12367 I hope your dinner goes well. It sounds very yummy!
@Stargazer1lily Sorry about AF's arrival.
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19
@Katm89 Really hope that your day is better today! If my car hadn't given me issues on the way into work, I probably would have turned around and gone home. But....I need the car to be fixed. Sigh
@Stargazer1lily Sorry for CD1!
@mrsinterweb Good work today! That is a great new habit to get into! GL with temping! I know there are a few ladies here that temp vaginally. Hope tonight is better.
@Stargazer1lily Did you have an an-o cycle? Big hugs to you, friend.
@josie12367 Dinner sounds fab. YH is cooking? Hope you have a good time even though you don't know them well. A glass of wine always helps me loosen up. Is wine on the menu too?
@dukestar5 GL figuring out your renovations with YH. That's so stressful especially when you know it will cost a lot. We took out a home equity loan a while ago in order to replace our HVAC. The rates were a lot lower than a regular loan (I think...I'm terrible at financial stuff).
@nimmle Yay for your gifs! Love them both so much.
Omg, in a taxi in NYC and I'm DYING of heat! Turn on the AC please!
Will miss hearing from you guys for the next several days. Have a great rest of the week and GL for you all Oing on time and getting great timing. Hugs to everyone!
DD1: 8/2014
TTC #2: 6/2017
BFP 8/3/2017 | CP 8/4
BFP 10/16/2017 | CP 10/21
BFP 12/18/2017 | CP 12/28
BFP 2/15/2018 | EDD: November 2nd | It's a girl!
DD2: 10/2018
@nimmleFX you O'd yesterday!
@nitnat007I'm sorry you are already having a bad morning. Just remember that you got this! Or maybe some online retail therapy will make you feel better.
@josie12367Can I come over too? That meal sounds amazing!
@katm89I haven't, but I've heard it's normal from the egg being released.
@Stargazer1lilyDo you know what you are dressing up as this Halloween?
@mrsinterweb Good for you for getting up and going running!
@dukestar5 maybe watch a few hours of renovation tv shows with DH, he'll soon think twice
@josie12367 sorry your timing might not work out, still keeping FX for you! Your dinner sounds delicious!
@nimmle can MH join the 'too satisfied' club... I almost said to him this morning "sorry, we're going to have to HIO again today" - then I checked myself!!
@Stargazer1lily sorry for CD1!! *hugs and wine to you*
@ChloandCoco LOL nice usage of the ute-juice!!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 20
WAYDTGKU: staring at my FF chart....
R/R: We're entering into a municipal election here, and I get to go to an all mayoral candidates forum today (I'm a huge political junkie) - very excited... then since I'll be downtown already, leaving work early for happy hour with some friends!!
CS/Q: A slight temp rise from the past few days, but definitely nothing higher than my normal pre-O temps. I've also put in positive OPKs but TBH, these aren't true positives. Well the one today might have been a true positive...the line was probably AS dark as the control, but definitely not darker (definitely not like the super-true positive I got last cycle, so I am confused). Last cycle I got a positive OPK on the same day as O, so hopefully today this nonsense will end.
Question: For those who temp vaginally - how do you clean the thermometer between temps? I was thinking maybe I'd use baby wipes but any advice would be great (I temp orally right now, but thinking about vaginal temping if there is a next cycle).
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why?
Christmas for sure - love having family around, and warm and snuggly things, and the movies....all of it!! We are having both sets of parents come for our first Christmas in our new house this year...I started a Pinterest board for decorations months ago!!! Also my Bday is in December so it's generally my fave month!
ETA: needed to call out the ute-juice!!
@canucklehead123 & @ChloandCoco I love Christmas too, I have so many pins. Congrats on getting a new house! That's so exciting!
@dukest
Month/Cycle:2/2
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: pnv, stopped drinking.
R/R: Rant- I hate this stupid audit at work. Plus I'm pretty sure it's for the sale of our company. It's really annoying to have extra work. Rave: DH is home now and going to take pictures of our living room to update our home listing. FX we get a bite!
CS/Q: I decided I'm not going to temp anymore. We HIO every night - humble brag? I know... cue eye roll, I figure if that's not going to change then does it really matter? We're either going to get a BFP or BFN no matter what.
GTKY: What is your favorite holiday and why?
New Years - There is something about everyone coming together no matter what age, race, religion to usher in a new year. I love the lights, fireworks, and love that night brings. I'm always filled with hope.
@ChloandCoco I`m not what to dress up as yet.
DD1: 8/2014
TTC #2: 6/2017
BFP 8/3/2017 | CP 8/4
BFP 10/16/2017 | CP 10/21
BFP 12/18/2017 | CP 12/28
BFP 2/15/2018 | EDD: November 2nd | It's a girl!
DD2: 10/2018
CD: 4
WAYDTGKU: Prenatals, about to start basal temping, ovulation detector strip thingies
R/R: I wanted to start temping today to see where I'm at but I ordered the wrong dang thing on amazon and now I have to wait till tomorrow. This is so not a big deal as I am on my period still but I was curious!
CS/Q: I did start one on ff but its not saying much yet so I'll hold off.
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why?
Thanksgiving!! The best food! It feels less hectic for me.
@dukestar5 Heck yes its expensive! In my experience, 3x the expectation. But it could be so pretty!
@josie12367 Omg that sounds amazing. Can I come?! lol.
@nimmle lol love that gif!! (ETA) Youre in NYC too? haaaaaaay!
@nitnat007 ugh, sorry youre having such a bad day!
@josie12367 so hoping your egg shows up today!!
@katm89 maybe that was O spotting!
@stargazer1lily Halloween is my favorite non food holiday
@mrsinterweb I wouldn't worry about waking with an open mouth just yet... just keep temping and see if theres a pattern. I feel like something is different every day for me (cat sleeping on me, husband hogging the sheets, etc) and I just keep plugging in the temps... as long as I can tell ive o'ed that's good enough
@offtoneverland Hey! I just got OUT of a cab I NYC...lol we had air!
@Chloandcoco ugh for auditing blah!
@canucklehead123 ive never temped vaginally, but make sure the wipes are ph balanced for lady parts... I'm sure most of the stuff evaps away, but I would make sure just in case
@galactikates wow more audits? ugh! So nice you can ditch the temping!
@mygoodlucycat did you order the wrong thermometer?
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: prep for ivf
R/R: no rants, rave, started back with acupuncture today and I feel soooooo good.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why? Thanksgiving, FOOD!!!
I have never done acupuncture, I'm glad it makes you feel good! I don't especially like needles so I'm not so sure about that for myself.
I hate needles and still sometimes cry a little when getting blood drawn (if you can believe that after ive had so many ivf cycles). The poking of the acupuncture needles can feel like nothing with the right therapist, and I get so much relaxation out of it. I always tell people its worth a try, but if you hate it its not worth it!
@nimmle Yay for a positive OPK! FX you all are able to HIO tonight. You may have to throw in some lingerie or role play to get him pumped up for it!
@nitnat007 Hoping your day gets better! Do you have a favorite cookie recipe to bake (or eat) around the holidays?
@josie12367 That dinner sounds yummy...what time should I come over? lol Do you do most of the cooking or does YH? I am sorry that he is leaving so soon and that you have not O'd yet. FX your body gets it together to O before he leaves. Waiting on the bench is so tough. (P.S. To answer you question--yes MH knows my feelings on the renovation, but once he gets an idea in his head, he just runs with it! We are going to meet with the bank re: loan options as well as the contractor to get ideas/narrow them down and figure out a possible budget. Hopefully thinking through costs and also interest rates will help MH be a bit more reasonable about the project).
@Katm89 No, I do not usually spot, but I know other ladies do during their cycles. Are you temping? Perhaps it could be implantation spotting if you are further along dpo than you think?
@Stargazer1lily Sorry to see you over here with AF. And I love dressing up for Halloween too! Any fun costume ideas for this year? Or a favorite costume you wore in the past?
@mrsinterweb Way to get up and go for a jog this morning! (And yes--I am training for a half marathon this fall. Training for a race usually helps motivate me to run! ) Remind me--what does RRL tea help with?
@offtoneverland Have soooooo much fun on your trip! We will miss you! (P.S. Update us when you get back! Are you still in WTO or TWW now?)
@ChloandCoco Sorry for the audit at work! FX it goes smoothly. What is Remembrance day?
@canucklehead123 I love watching the reno/fixer upper type shows. FX I can get MH to watch some. He knows it will be a big project, but has been dreaming of doing it forever--we live in an older home. I'm sorry for the temping frustrations. Enjoy happy hour and the candidate forum tonight.
@galactickates MH wants to re-do the kitchen as well as tear down a wall between the den and the kitchen. Also MH wants to re-do the laundry room and office. (Not a small project! haha) Good luck on updating your home listing. FX it sells quickly.
@mygoodlucycat I hope your BBT arrives soon. I actually do not start temping until about CD8 because I'm lazy.
@dragonette505 CD buddy! Are you having to take any meds right now or what does the ivf prep entail at this point in the cycle? (Forgive me if you've explained it before!) Also, how did you find your acupuncturist?
@Katm89 I just saw your update. I am sorry for the spotting and cramps. On average, how long are your cycles? FX it is not AF yet.
@Stargazer1lily So sorry about AF...An-O cycles are a bitch!
@mrsinterweb I wish you all the best in your new goal. It's such a good one too! Sometimes if I wake up with a dry, open mouth I will just lay in bed for five minutes with my mouth closed,and wait. Then I will temp once I feel like it's a bit warmer. Maybe not as accurate, but like Dragonette said, as long as you see the shift, you're good!
@nitnat007 Dinner was delicious! BUT it was awkward AF. His wife just sat there for the most part looking bored, and like she wanted to leave. Plus, she didn't really eat her food. I was kind of bummed out...but there was wine, so there's that! And yes unfortunatley I know you understand all about the DH thing. Same goes for you, my inbox is always open. Hopefully both of our men will be home for the holidays
@offtoneverland YES! DH cooked everything! He's the best, mainly cause he knows i'm about to starve when he leaves! lol. Dinner was delicious but sooooo awkward! It was so quiet, and the conversation was dull. I definitely enjoyed a beverage or two!
@Chloandcoco Come on over! We have leftovers and WINE...Boo on audits, and on the spot interviews. Yuck. Hope it's not too awful.
@Canucklehead123 YEA for good politics and for good friends! and happy hours! I don't know who came up with the idea of a happy hour...but they need billions of dollars if they don't have it already...OPKs are so frustrating. I don't think i'm going to do them next cycle. I fell like they stress me out more than help.
@galatickates I get the not wanting to temp for trying to plan BD, but you might want to just so you know when your TWW is starting, that you didn't have an an-O cycle, and you have an idea of when to test. It still might give you lots of good info, and peace of mind. Just something to consider
@mygoodcatlucy Good luck at getting your right stuff from Amazon! Thank goodness for prime! And yes, we have tons of leftovers and WINE ...so come on over!
@dragonette505 Thanks! I hope this egg drops soon too! So glad you had a good acupuncture day So you'll have to forgive me if you already said, but what is the next step for you? Are you scheduled for a transfer? Or are you guys trying to do another ER? Hoping that everything so far for you is going smoothly
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: Things.
R/R: Forcing H to have sex whether he wants to or not tonight. Boom.
CS/Q:
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why?
Thanksgiving. It's the one day that everyone in the family gets together without pretenses. Christmas is great, but it revolves around presents.
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: nothing yet
R/R: work today. Not terrible though. One more day and then done with testing... then I'll wait
GTKY: **Stolen from TWW** What is your favorite holiday and why?
HALLOWEEN!!!!! How are more prone not thrilled about this!
Candy and dressing up. What is better?
@dukestar5 You're right that reno is always more expensive than anticipated. Its because there's tiny projects you forgot to think about. But it will be amazing when you're done. We need to do a few things but we'll hold off until money since they aren't immediate needs - just my wishes.
Woohoo @Stargazer1lily! Yay for someone who understands the awesome that is Halloween. Also sorry for cd1.
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The uterus needs a lot of vitamins and minerals to function properly and red raspberry leaf tea has almost all of them. Red raspberry leaf is high in Vitamins C, E, A, B and has significant amounts of major minerals like magnesium, potassium, calcium, and phosphorus. It also contains essential trace minerals such as zinc, iron, chromium and manganese. These vitamins and minerals are in a readily absorbable form, making Red Raspberry Leaf tea a wonderful, food-based “supplement” during preconception, pregnancy and beyond. The nutritional boost that RRL gives you can help improve your immune system as well.Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19
Well, once he has an idea for something, he really likes to run with it; however, it is definitely the biggest project or idea he has had, so we will see what happens once we get more information on the budget and loan offer. He is anticipating it taking about 2-3 months, which in my head means 4-6.
@izza2 Go Izza! Get it girl!
@Mylitta How is the testing going? Also, yes to Halloween! Our friends usually throw a big, fun party and everyone dresses up. I am hoping they will host it again this year. Any ideas on what you will be for Halloween?
@mrsinterweb Thank you! Do you just taking it until you ovulate or throughout the whole cycle? (I know with green tea, it is recommended to drink it just from CD1 to O).
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19