My husband is kind of being a TW this morning. I do pretty much everything around the house, but this morning he has to drive to our new town to get construction permits for our remodel that starts next week. He's had a month to do this, but waited until the last possible second, of course. So before he goes, he tries to give me a list of things that he thinks NEED to get done today. Like canceling the cable, garbage, power, etc, doing change of address, blah blah blah. Ok honey, sure. Haha. I'll do that right after I'm done organizing the garage, grocery shopping, dropping off your packages to ups, picking up your dry cleaning, and going to work. No problem babe.
Ugh my TW is some neighborhood boys who stole a package off my porch. We actually saw them walking down the street by my house holding an amazon box the other day (no where near mailbox which we thought was weird) but one kid waved and I waved back. Then yesterday the exact same size box and bright green tape was on my porch - opened. It had a baby shower gift someone shipped to us. It had my baby carrier but my prenatal vitamins are missing. I just found out a neighbor found the box tossed in her front yard and brought it back to us. I guess the boys wanted to snack on prenatal vitamins since those are no where to be seen. We now have a camera set up on our front porch. We will be getting a lot more gifts in the mail. Thank goodness my neighbor was nice and brought me the carrier!
@breezybee Ughhh that's definitely worth of the TW title! @balletnerd That's so awful! I'm always paranoid about that too. That's the one thing I miss about apartment living, is the office taking packages for you. I have notes for UPS to leave our packages on the side of the house, which is inside the fence, but sometimes they ignore it and FedEX/USPS still leave them on the porch.
TW is DH! This morning I said, "I wish I could just get a PSL before work every day." And he goes, "I'm going to have to lock you in a closet." I was like, WTF, and he goes, "To keep you away from sugar." For one thing, I said I wish...I don't want to leave early every morning or spend the money every morning. Also, his paranoia is getting really effing frustrating. I get it, I have PCOS (NIR PCOS) so I'm more likely to have GD...but you don't have to comment on everything I eat, and you know what, I'm going to eat ice cream or drink a PSL now and if I fail my GD testing, I'll obviously have to deal with that then. He's being such a killjoy!
@MJDsquared WTF, Paul to your DH. I say have your PSL now, so you get at least one guilt free before your GD testing. My DH is giving up a bunch of carbs and eating more veg and walking after meals with me since my GD diagnosis. He's lost a pound already. Hopefully your DH is willing to give up his favorite sweets and his treats too, if you have to for the sake of the baby.
My TW complaint is for my mom. Who is wonderful and supportive and stresses me out so much. After a mostly non-contentious visit yesterday she tells me, literally on her way out the door, that my "face is getting a little dark" and it's probably a mask of pregnancy thing, but it will probably go away when the baby is born. And it "doesn't look too bad yet". Thanks, mom. Because I'm not stressing about enough right now. DH says he doesn't see it, and that my mom is just crazy.
Ugh I wish all moms and husbands would just STFU already. You're not pregnant, so you don't get to say anything about the way we look OR what we eat!!! How hard is that to understand?!
DW posted a picture of me facing sideways, showing off the bump on the beach during our vacation this weekend. We got so much love and great responses, but of course the one insensitive awful comment is the one ringing in my mind today... a friend of DW's who I don't even know made some comment like, "oh wow! My wife was pregnant around the same time last year and due the same time, and you could barely tell yet!"
Uggggghhh. Thanks dude.
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As of 12/15/2017, my new hashtag is #41 and pregnant!
My DH also gets a TW for a comment he made yesterday. I had a pants suit hanging in a closet he'd moved some stuff into and he was telling me what was in there. He mentions the suit and was like, "but I don't think you'll fit into that again." And I was like... "ummmmm excuse me? That suit is the size I wore immediately pre-pregnancy, why won't I be fitting into it?! You don't think I'm going to lose any of the weight I've put on?!" He clearly immediately recognized the error of his ways and made up some weird bs about how he just thought my body is going to be a different shape so he didn't think it would fit. And then he basically ran away lol. In general, he's been pretty sensitive about comments he's made and hasn't mentioned my weight or eating habits at all, so this isn't a normal occurrence, but I was still peeved.
Mine is hurricane Irma. My inlaws live in Puerto Rico and my parents/sister live in Miami. I'm in North FL so I don't think it will be too bad for me but I'm so worried about my family.
I have some more TWs because it's a Tuesday that feels like a Monday.
TW to whatever jackass(es) decided to set off fireworks and cause a massive wildfire about an hour away. Now the air quality is shit (it's seriously like 'snowing' ash here) and also it's super hot and now we can't sleep with the windows open to try and cool it down in our house that doesn't have AC. Aside from those selfish and less important reasons, tons of people are being evacuated and the fire is encroaching on Multnomah Falls which is a beautiful and popular spot to hike and it makes me sad.
DH's dad works for a Catholic organization and DH's dad as well as another employee who runs their social media are very pro-social justice (you know, like Jesus would've been) and every time the FB page posts something I always read the comments to see the idiotic, closed-minded responses. Not sure why I do that because it's infuriating. But anyway, today they posted something saying, "The Holy Family was a migrant family" (you know, because of the DACA thing). All the people who responded saying, "Yeah but they were legals!" and also another guy who just kept spouting about how Muslim countries don't allow Christians to build churches or practice their religion there (how is this relevant?) are major TWs. I'm not religious at all and I just don't understand how people who follow a religion based on Jesus so completely miss the entire message of Jesus.
@acgonzalez22 That's so scary. I hope your family all stays safe. I'm hoping Irma somehow changes course or doesn't end up being as bad as they're currently anticipating. Hugs to you!
My TW is my own kidney. My baby girl sits really low and so this pregnancy i have been prone to tract infections. During a big one couple months ago my kidney started to retain fluid. They thought it was a stone but they cant find it bit i have painful flare ups where im in crippling pain but not much to do until i deliver. I had one yesterday and so i went to doctor and got pain meds and two forms of antibiotics. One to take twice a day to get rid of a new uti and then a daily one for rest of pregnancy to keep them at bay. I know its all worth it in the end but i hate being in pain. The pain medicine helps but makes me feel high as a damn kite allll day and i had stuff to do today :-/ oh well. Maybe tomorrow lol.
My TT is that my SO is being soo super nice and picking up the slack by cooking last night when i was in pain. Hes also being nice about my mom coming to stay since his sister needs to come stay here some weekends as well so it just relieves all my stress i had about the situation after delivery :-)
My TW is myself. I didn't eat enough this afternoon and now it's almost dinner time and I'm a hangry bitch but if I have a snack it'll ruin my dinner... and the toddler is just being a toddler but my hanger is making it really hard to be a rational mom right now... and DH is at an after work dentist appointment so he won't be home until later...
@elvenchick92686 sorry that you're going through that. Hope this new combo of meds give you some relief.
DH is being a TW today. He won't let me redecorate our bedroom, which will be shared with baby, in peace. He is pushing back on the smallest things like replacing an old lamp and getting curtains where we only have a basic roller shade. It makes me feel like I'm being frivolous but I'm not even spending much- I've been forgoing much more expensive things he was down for (like getting a new couch in the living room/moving to a bigger place). I just want everything to look good in our bedroom/nursery combo and he is taking all the fun out of it!
@blueskies17 thanks!! So far the one pain med has worked. I took it at 10am and have yet to have anymore pain and the effects are wearing off. I am really hoping that the daily antibotic will prevent any flare ups going forward cause thats to high for my pain tolerance and m usually pretty good about handling pain :-/.
I am sorry your DH is being that way!!! My SO always trying to rearrange or decorate but then complains when we dont have money lol. We have cleaned out the house so no more doing stuff till we get baby shower stuff :-).
It's not Tuesday, but I don't feel like starting a new thread... my TW/WTF today is me. I forgot my phone at home. Maybe my subconscious decided that I really need a day off of negotiating with my clinic, pharmacy and insurance company?
Ugh how annoying @blueskies17. My husband has been complaining about buying things too, but I just ignore him and get it anyway and tell him he'll love it when it gets here. And he always does, so it works out! Hope he stops being a TW, because that shit is not cool.
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@balletnerd That's so awful! I'm always paranoid about that too. That's the one thing I miss about apartment living, is the office taking packages for you. I have notes for UPS to leave our packages on the side of the house, which is inside the fence, but sometimes they ignore it and FedEX/USPS still leave them on the porch.
TW is DH! This morning I said, "I wish I could just get a PSL before work every day." And he goes, "I'm going to have to lock you in a closet." I was like, WTF, and he goes, "To keep you away from sugar." For one thing, I said I wish...I don't want to leave early every morning or spend the money every morning. Also, his paranoia is getting really effing frustrating. I get it, I have PCOS (NIR PCOS) so I'm more likely to have GD...but you don't have to comment on everything I eat, and you know what, I'm going to eat ice cream or drink a PSL now and if I fail my GD testing, I'll obviously have to deal with that then. He's being such a killjoy!
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
My TW complaint is for my mom. Who is wonderful and supportive and stresses me out so much. After a mostly non-contentious visit yesterday she tells me, literally on her way out the door, that my "face is getting a little dark" and it's probably a mask of pregnancy thing, but it will probably go away when the baby is born. And it "doesn't look too bad yet". Thanks, mom. Because I'm not stressing about enough right now. DH says he doesn't see it, and that my mom is just crazy.
DW posted a picture of me facing sideways, showing off the bump on the beach during our vacation this weekend. We got so much love and great responses, but of course the one insensitive awful comment is the one ringing in my mind today... a friend of DW's who I don't even know made some comment like, "oh wow! My wife was pregnant around the same time last year and due the same time, and you could barely tell yet!"
Uggggghhh.
Thanks dude.
Due date 12/9
I can't figure out the pregnancy countdown tickers, but I do know how to make a signature!
#40andpregnant
As of 12/15/2017, my new hashtag is #41 and pregnant!
TW to whatever jackass(es) decided to set off fireworks and cause a massive wildfire about an hour away. Now the air quality is shit (it's seriously like 'snowing' ash here) and also it's super hot and now we can't sleep with the windows open to try and cool it down in our house that doesn't have AC. Aside from those selfish and less important reasons, tons of people are being evacuated and the fire is encroaching on Multnomah Falls which is a beautiful and popular spot to hike and it makes me sad.
DH's dad works for a Catholic organization and DH's dad as well as another employee who runs their social media are very pro-social justice (you know, like Jesus would've been) and every time the FB page posts something I always read the comments to see the idiotic, closed-minded responses. Not sure why I do that because it's infuriating. But anyway, today they posted something saying, "The Holy Family was a migrant family" (you know, because of the DACA thing). All the people who responded saying, "Yeah but they were legals!" and also another guy who just kept spouting about how Muslim countries don't allow Christians to build churches or practice their religion there (how is this relevant?) are major TWs. I'm not religious at all and I just don't understand how people who follow a religion based on Jesus so completely miss the entire message of Jesus.
@acgonzalez22 That's so scary. I hope your family all stays safe. I'm hoping Irma somehow changes course or doesn't end up being as bad as they're currently anticipating. Hugs to you!
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
My TT is that my SO is being soo super nice and picking up the slack by cooking last night when i was in pain. Hes also being nice about my mom coming to stay since his sister needs to come stay here some weekends as well so it just relieves all my stress i had about the situation after delivery :-)
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
DH is being a TW today. He won't let me redecorate our bedroom, which will be shared with baby, in peace. He is pushing back on the smallest things like replacing an old lamp and getting curtains where we only have a basic roller shade. It makes me feel like I'm being frivolous but I'm not even spending much- I've been forgoing much more expensive things he was down for (like getting a new couch in the living room/moving to a bigger place). I just want everything to look good in our bedroom/nursery combo and he is taking all the fun out of it!
They helpfully called my husband today to let "me" know about the "health resources" they offer. Which are all weight loss related.
He said, "Uh, you know she's currently 6 months pregnant with twins, right?"
There was a pause as they tried to find an appropriate, scripted response. "We just want her to know about the resources available to her!"
To add insult to injury, I've only gained a net 5 lbs. with this pregnancy, and eating is miserable due to heartburn. Just...GAH!
They did "cross my name off the list". Thanks. Sheesh.
I am sorry your DH is being that way!!! My SO always trying to rearrange or decorate but then complains when we dont have money lol. We have cleaned out the house so no more doing stuff till we get baby shower stuff :-).