Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? How many weeks will you be when you are having it? Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? How are you feeling about it? Are you doing a big "gender" reveal?
Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? Twinkle Twinkle Little Stars
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? Day before 31 weeks
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? My bff and SIL, although that doesn't mean I haven't sent some twin specific games that would be fun
How are you feeling about it? Good, except most of my sisters (I have 6) didn't show for my bridal shower, so I've got some low expectations.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? We announced the sexes at my grandfather's 75th birthday party about 6 weeks ago!
Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? Fall/pumpkin themed How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 31 weeks Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? My mom and BFF are. My mom is keeping me in the loop and giving me like 2 options to choose from, but I keep telling her I'd be happy with either option (which I honestly am) How are you feeling about it? Grateful. Last year when I was pregnant, my mom said she wasn't sure if she was going to throw me a shower. I haven't kept up with a lot of my friends from growing up who still live locally, and she said she didn't want to throw one just for her friends. But this year, she's changed her mind. So I'm very grateful she's throwing me anything and grateful for all of my family friends to celebrate. Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? Not at all. Everyone already knows it's a girl.
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Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? I don't think there is one!
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 32 weeks.
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? I suggested the location and helped pick the invites. Other than that, I don't think I am involved. Time will tell.
How are you feeling about it? Fine! It should be fun.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? No. We're team green!
Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? Mermaid/under the sea (not the little mermaid, haha)
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 30
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? I'm helping to decide things, but my mom is the one throwing it. I think my bff is helping some too!
How are you feeling about it? Excited!
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? We announced the sex at my 30th birthday party in June!
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This was for our DD 5 years ago, I don't think we're doing anything for this guy.
Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? She's About to Pop. We had popcorn, soda pop favors, lollipop centerpieces it was pretty cute. How many weeks will you be when you are having it? I was 32 weeks. Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? I got to put my input in. My mom, a few BFFs and MIL. How are you feeling about it? Honestly it was the most stressful time of my life. I wanted to keep it small since I didn't want a million eyes on me, however MIL wanted to invite everyone she knew because she thought they "owed" it to her, since she has been to xyz showers. When she wanted to invite SIL's MIL I flipped, MIL just said "she gifts good." There were 80 people there, I should have been more grateful but I just wanted a small thing. Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? No.
Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? not sure! But my sister is super excited about it, whatever it is How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 35, almost 36 weeks. It seems super late but timing is very tough this fall. My sister is getting married at the end of Sept so October was kind of out since I didn't want my mom/sister to deal with shower details in the midst of wedding stuff/honeymooning. I was also nervous about the NFL schedule since one of my biggest pet peeves (no offense if you're doing this) is when people plan showers and stuff during Sunday football games or other big sports events. 11/5 is my shower date and it's also the Pats bye week, so we figured it was a good day. Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? my mom, sister, and SIL How are you feeling about it? okay. I'm nervous about the shower being a month before I'm due and hope I'm not too stressed about putting gifts away and getting everything organized before the baby arrives. I'm also a little anxious about how I'm going to look/what I'm going to wear. I'm bumping pretty good now so can't imagine what I'll be looking like 3 months from now. Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? We did one a month ago. I told myself early on that I didn't want it to be a big thing, but it ended up being one, and it ended up being really fun. We hosted our close family and friends and treated everyone to some good bbq, dessert, and plenty of drinks. It was a very casual setting like "swing by if you can" kind of deal with no pressure on anyone to attend if they had other stuff to do. But as luck would have it, most people were around and it ended up being a great way to get everyone together. DH hit a pinata full of pink candy and it spilled out for everyone to see -- it was pretty fun. Then I had pink goodie bags for everyone to bring some candy home with them. My goal was to really try to make it as non AW as possible.
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Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? Pumpkin/fall theme baby sprinkle How many weeks will you be when you are having it? I will be 35 weeks along Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? My sister is hosting, I gave her some ideas. How are you feeling about it? I told her no baby shower stuff, no games, etc. Just good food and company! Very small group of close girlfriends. Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? No, we are not sharing what the sex of this baby is.
@peachy13 I had my shower right at 36 weeks and it was no big deal! It was actually nice to have something to look forward to and do those last couple of weeks.
I'm having 2. One on the East coast where I'm from. And one in AZ where I now live. We don't have plans for the AZ one yet.
Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? Co-ed BBQ
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 23 weeks. I know that's early but that way I'm flying across the country in my 2nd tri. My local shower will be later
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? MIL hosting. We are planning a lot together
How are you feeling about it? Excited! Mostly to see friends and family I haven't seen since Xmas
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? No. Just had a gender reveal party on Sunday
You guys are stressing me out with your set dates! When I texted my best friends who are throwing my local shower, one asked when I was thinking and I was like, "October or early November?" and she said, "That's what I was thinking!" but I haven't heard anything since.
As for the shower with DH's side...MIL asked when and I was like, "The other shower will be in October or early November, so any weekend between now and October!" Sooooo we'll see...
No shower here. We had one for DD1. We might do a Sip and See after the new year though. Not sure yet.
We had no theme for DD1, I was about 36 weeks I think? My mom and sister did most of the planning, I just gave them an invite list and a few requests for food (more vegetarian options aside from fruit and a veggie tray haha). I did request that there be NO BELLY TOUCHING at all. And it worked!
For DD2, we did cupcakes for my niece and nephew, filled with pink frosting. i then posted the video on social media as our announcement.
Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? I think we'll just end up with a color scheme vs. a theme.
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? It's not booked yet, but if it's the date we are looking at then I'll be 30 weeks.
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? My mom is hosting, so she should be planning it, but now she's overwhelmed so I will probably have to do most of it, which feels icky to me.
How are you feeling about it? At this point I'm stressed and anxious over it. I'm not crazy about being the center of attention and because of that it will be more for my family than for me. I'm grateful my mom wants to throw me one and I'm happy to help and give input, but I really don't think it's appropriate for me to plan the whole thing, which is what I see happening right now.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? No, we told everyone it's a boy when we told them we were pregnant.
Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? Family BBQ, Co-ed, and some decorations that are elephants and/or navy & grey. We don't have a lot of late summer/early fall reasons for a family party so I'm hoping it's more lawn games and BBQ fun than totally baby-to-be-focused. Neither DH or I like to be the center of attention.
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 30 Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? My mom and step-mom have been planning together.
How are you feeling about it? Ahaha. This makes me miss drinking. But they are -mostly- managing to peacefully co-exist. I think they're both having major culture shock, since they're very very different people with very different expectations and both love having absolute control over situations. Frankly, as long as there is food I'll be fine... the rest is all bonus/extra/icing. (OK, as long as there is food AND cake, I'll be fine.)
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? Nope. The whole family knows we're having a boy.
Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? Probably sports, or fall, not sure yet How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 32 weeks. We are having it on 10/21, which is our 5 year wedding anniversary! Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? I'm giving suggestions, but my sister, SIL and brother are throwing it so they are doing most of the planning. How are you feeling about it? I don't really like being the center of attention but my wife is VERY excited about it. Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? We did that father's day weekend when we received the results of our genetic testing.
splsmama2016 - How did you communicate the no belly touching? That's something I'm really nervous about.
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Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? I'm not sure. My friend mentioned yesterday something along the lines of Sugar and Spice, but nothing is set in stone.
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 28. I was going to have to push it to 32 weeks to accommodate my close friend being able to come, but she was able to make it work and now I won't be stressing about a shower at 32 weeks pregnant with twins. Oy, I was really nervous about that!
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? I would never plan my own shower. My bf and another close friend are planning it. They're PROS at this stuff, so I know I'm in good hands. I kind of want to be kept out of the loop so it can be a surprise
How are you feeling about it? Nervous about different friend worlds colliding, but that's always in my own head. I'm not inviting a bunch of my family members, because they're all weird and I never see them anyway. Otherwise good! I'm going to perch myself in a chair and eat delicious food and hang out. What could be bad about that?!
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? We announced that the twins are girls on Facebook, so that was it.
@holzie-2 I have family who literally have no concept of personal space, so not only did my sister make a sign that said do not touch the belly, she also made an announcement once people started showing up. It was very polite "hey, guys, out of respect for my sister, please don't touch the belly." Only my aunt had an issue with it and pretty much assaulted me with her ice cold hands. Not ok lol.
Re: GTKY: Baby shower (sprinkle) theme
Twinkle Twinkle Little Stars
How many weeks will you be when you are having it?
Day before 31 weeks
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else?
My bff and SIL, although that doesn't mean I haven't sent some twin specific games that would be fun
How are you feeling about it?
Good, except most of my sisters (I have 6) didn't show for my bridal shower, so I've got some low expectations.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal?
We announced the sexes at my grandfather's 75th birthday party about 6 weeks ago!
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 31 weeks
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? My mom and BFF are. My mom is keeping me in the loop and giving me like 2 options to choose from, but I keep telling her I'd be happy with either option (which I honestly am)
How are you feeling about it? Grateful. Last year when I was pregnant, my mom said she wasn't sure if she was going to throw me a shower. I haven't kept up with a lot of my friends from growing up who still live locally, and she said she didn't want to throw one just for her friends. But this year, she's changed her mind. So I'm very grateful she's throwing me anything and grateful for all of my family friends to celebrate.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? Not at all. Everyone already knows it's a girl.
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#1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
I don't think there is one!
How many weeks will you be when you are having it?
32 weeks.
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else?
I suggested the location and helped pick the invites. Other than that, I don't think I am involved. Time will tell.
How are you feeling about it?
Fine! It should be fun.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal?
No. We're team green!
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 30
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? I'm helping to decide things, but my mom is the one throwing it. I think my bff is helping some too!
How are you feeling about it? Excited!
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? We announced the sex at my 30th birthday party in June!
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Hey whats the theme of your baby shower? She's About to Pop. We had popcorn, soda pop favors, lollipop centerpieces it was pretty cute.
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? I was 32 weeks.
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? I got to put my input in. My mom, a few BFFs and MIL.
How are you feeling about it? Honestly it was the most stressful time of my life. I wanted to keep it small since I didn't want a million eyes on me, however MIL wanted to invite everyone she knew because she thought they "owed" it to her, since she has been to xyz showers. When she wanted to invite SIL's MIL I flipped, MIL just said "she gifts good." There were 80 people there, I should have been more grateful but I just wanted a small thing.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? No.
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 35, almost 36 weeks. It seems super late but timing is very tough this fall. My sister is getting married at the end of Sept so October was kind of out since I didn't want my mom/sister to deal with shower details in the midst of wedding stuff/honeymooning. I was also nervous about the NFL schedule since one of my biggest pet peeves (no offense if you're doing this) is when people plan showers and stuff during Sunday football games or other big sports events. 11/5 is my shower date and it's also the Pats bye week, so we figured it was a good day.
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? my mom, sister, and SIL
How are you feeling about it? okay. I'm nervous about the shower being a month before I'm due and hope I'm not too stressed about putting gifts away and getting everything organized before the baby arrives. I'm also a little anxious about how I'm going to look/what I'm going to wear. I'm bumping pretty good now so can't imagine what I'll be looking like 3 months from now.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? We did one a month ago. I told myself early on that I didn't want it to be a big thing, but it ended up being one, and it ended up being really fun. We hosted our close family and friends and treated everyone to some good bbq, dessert, and plenty of drinks. It was a very casual setting like "swing by if you can" kind of deal with no pressure on anyone to attend if they had other stuff to do. But as luck would have it, most people were around and it ended up being a great way to get everyone together. DH hit a pinata full of pink candy and it spilled out for everyone to see -- it was pretty fun. Then I had pink goodie bags for everyone to bring some candy home with them. My goal was to really try to make it as non AW as possible.
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TTC #1: Sept 2016
BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
BFP: 3/24/17
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BFP: 8/26/18
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? I will be 35 weeks along
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? My sister is hosting, I gave her some ideas.
How are you feeling about it? I told her no baby shower stuff, no games, etc. Just good food and company! Very small group of close girlfriends.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? No, we are not sharing what the sex of this baby is.
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Hey whats the theme of your baby shower?
Co-ed BBQ
How many weeks will you be when you are having it?
23 weeks. I know that's early but that way I'm flying across the country in my 2nd tri. My local shower will be later
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else?
MIL hosting. We are planning a lot together
How are you feeling about it?
Excited! Mostly to see friends and family I haven't seen since Xmas
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal?
No. Just had a gender reveal party on Sunday
As for the shower with DH's side...MIL asked when and I was like, "The other shower will be in October or early November, so any weekend between now and October!" Sooooo we'll see...
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
We had no theme for DD1, I was about 36 weeks I think? My mom and sister did most of the planning, I just gave them an invite list and a few requests for food (more vegetarian options aside from fruit and a veggie tray haha). I did request that there be NO BELLY TOUCHING at all. And it worked!
For DD2, we did cupcakes for my niece and nephew, filled with pink frosting.
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? It's not booked yet, but if it's the date we are looking at then I'll be 30 weeks.
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? My mom is hosting, so she should be planning it, but now she's overwhelmed so I will probably have to do most of it, which feels icky to me.
How are you feeling about it? At this point I'm stressed and anxious over it. I'm not crazy about being the center of attention and because of that it will be more for my family than for me. I'm grateful my mom wants to throw me one and I'm happy to help and give input, but I really don't think it's appropriate for me to plan the whole thing, which is what I see happening right now.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? No, we told everyone it's a boy when we told them we were pregnant.
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 30
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? My mom and step-mom have been planning together.
How are you feeling about it? Ahaha. This makes me miss drinking. But they are -mostly- managing to peacefully co-exist. I think they're both having major culture shock, since they're very very different people with very different expectations and both love having absolute control over situations. Frankly, as long as there is food I'll be fine... the rest is all bonus/extra/icing. (OK, as long as there is food AND cake, I'll be fine.)
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? Nope. The whole family knows we're having a boy.
How many weeks will you be when you are having it? 32 weeks. We are having it on 10/21, which is our 5 year wedding anniversary!
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else? I'm giving suggestions, but my sister, SIL and brother are throwing it so they are doing most of the planning.
How are you feeling about it? I don't really like being the center of attention but my wife is VERY excited about it.
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal? We did that father's day weekend when we received the results of our genetic testing.
splsmama2016 - How did you communicate the no belly touching? That's something I'm really nervous about.
TTC for the second time
7 IUIs, 1 cancelled due to too many follicles, 6 BFNs.
IVF #1 & 2 Failed
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Beta #2 12/21 - 230
Beta #3 12/18 - 3066
I'm not sure. My friend mentioned yesterday something along the lines of Sugar and Spice, but nothing is set in stone.
How many weeks will you be when you are having it?
28. I was going to have to push it to 32 weeks to accommodate my close friend being able to come, but she was able to make it work and now I won't be stressing about a shower at 32 weeks pregnant with twins. Oy, I was really nervous about that!
Are you doing all the planning or is someone else?
I would never plan my own shower. My bf and another close friend are planning it. They're PROS at this stuff, so I know I'm in good hands. I kind of want to be kept out of the loop so it can be a surprise
How are you feeling about it?
Nervous about different friend worlds colliding, but that's always in my own head. I'm not inviting a bunch of my family members, because they're all weird and I never see them anyway. Otherwise good! I'm going to perch myself in a chair and eat delicious food and hang out. What could be bad about that?!
Are you doing a big "gender" reveal?
We announced that the twins are girls on Facebook, so that was it.