Well i made this post originally just so that i may ve t because of the hormones and felt that my family was against me. Now apparently i am not allowed to vent the way i do but that i need to properly check and double check not only my grammar but spelling as well, as to not offend anyone. I spend what free time i can on two boards of January and February because i am due on January 31st however not sure if i will do a c section or not. Further more i think that jumping down someones throat for venting in their own way while they were obviously upset is wrong. Then to show disrespect to other boardes whom are not apart of this group is even more upsetting. We are grown adukts and apparently no one gives a crap about others feelings only about what offeneds the eyeballs. If you can't stand what i say or my spelling then by all menfs block me but don't disrespect me or say that i obviously don't have a bachelor's of science in psychology when i worked my ass off working full time, being a mother and full time student to get a 3.40 on that and furthing my education with my masters all because i don't take the time to correct my offending and therefore eye bleeding grammar. That is all have a lovely weekend as i am off to watch my daughter in her all stars tournament.
I think PPs were trying to bring it to your attention that your posts are hard to read. If you are posting, whether venting or not, I assume it's because you want people to read what you are saying. Yet you make that very difficult. I notice that in your response you took the time to actually separate your sentences. I'm pretty sure that's all anyone ever wanted so I don't really see what the big deal is. Also, don't blame the fact that you were upset and venting on the way you wrote because every single post I've ever seen from you has looked like that. Just saying.
@the_other_mother my comment was really only for the way things escalated during the thread with our ladies. You don't really know the tone or attitude of this group and I 100% believe it escalated and there was hurt feelings due to hormones. That being said I think you ladies from other boards had ever right to come over and defend yourselves. I'm not blaming that on hormones.
@the_other_mother my comment was really only for the way things escalated during the thread with our ladies. You don't really know the tone or attitude of this group and I 100% believe it escalated and there was hurt feelings due to hormones. That being said I think you ladies from other boards had ever right to come over and defend yourselves. I'm not blaming that on hormones.
Fair enough. I just think it's one thing for someone to say "I'm feeling this way because of hormones," and another thing for a third party to claim hormones on the behalf of others. I know I personally get really annoyed when someone tells me that I'm feeling or reacting a certain way because of hormones.
Hi December I love you guys igdaf! My 2 cents super late but whatevs. Regarding 12/17: Having strong opinions and the guts to say where you stand does not make you mean. We have been verrrrry agreeable on this board, so this lively discussion may be new for some of our members.
IMO I hate when hormones get blamed. I'm responsible for my actions and mouth, I'm not some instinctual animal that loses control cause I'm growing a baby.
And as far as the grammar, I was not going to say anything because not everyone has the same education level. Yeah I noticed it, but it was decipherable. What if she has been a high school dropout and this was one of the main places she could get info. Not all towns have prenatal or birthing classes available. Now that you outed that you're in a Masters program, it does kind of mean we will expect better. Sorry not sorry?
Hi December I love you guys igdaf! My 2 cents super late but whatevs. Regarding 12/17: Having strong opinions and the guts to say where you stand does not make you mean. We have been verrrrry agreeable on this board, so this lively discussion may be new for some of our members.
IMO I hate when hormones get blamed. I'm responsible for my actions and mouth, I'm not some instinctual animal that loses control cause I'm growing a baby.
And as far as the grammar, I was not going to say anything because not everyone has the same education level. Yeah I noticed it, but it was decipherable. What if she has been a high school dropout and this was one of the main places she could get info. Not all towns have prenatal or birthing classes available. Now that you outed that you're in a Masters program, it does kind of mean we will expect better. Sorry not sorry?
While I agree with pretty much everything that you said. I just want to point out, OP has been called out politely once before on the February board and magically her next few responses were so much easier to read. She also claimed the same "I'm too busy to care" excuse. Which in my book = I don't care enough about this community, you all can deal with my crappy writing because I have deemed it not important.
@meatball37 I never peeked at Feb but I agree with your interpretation of the subtext. Once she let us know how educated she was, I was like "waaaait a second."
Hi! I'm also from December. I just wanted to pop in and say how reminiscent this all is of the June/July16 drama that went down. It was popcorn worthy!! However, I'm fresh out of popcorn, so please hold until tomorrow when I hit up Costco.
Hi! I'm also from December. I just wanted to pop in and say how reminiscent this all is of the June/July16 drama that went down. It was popcorn worthy!! However, I'm fresh out of popcorn, so please hold until tomorrow when I hit up Costco.
I frequently lurked the drama between those two boards. There was quite the banning at one point!
OMG I hadn't read this thread since I read the original post, and I am so glad I did! Thank you everyone... the "kind" ones, the "nasty" ones. No one was hurt, so I think we can all just say we appreciated some drama finally
I never opened this thread because once I saw who posted it I knew I wasn't going to be able to read it. Then today, I see that it has over 50 comments and I'm like I gotta see what's going on here. Boy am I glad I did! Absolutely hilarious! Legit laugh out loud funny.
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That being said I think you ladies from other boards had ever right to come over and defend yourselves. I'm not blaming that on hormones.
Hi December
I love you guys igdaf! My 2 cents super late but whatevs.
Regarding 12/17: Having strong opinions and the guts to say where you stand does not make you mean. We have been verrrrry agreeable on this board, so this lively discussion may be new for some of our members.
IMO I hate when hormones get blamed. I'm responsible for my actions and mouth, I'm not some instinctual animal that loses control cause I'm growing a baby.
And as far as the grammar, I was not going to say anything because not everyone has the same education level. Yeah I noticed it, but it was decipherable. What if she has been a high school dropout and this was one of the main places she could get info. Not all towns have prenatal or birthing classes available.
Now that you outed that you're in a Masters program, it does kind of mean we will expect better. Sorry not sorry?
Once she let us know how educated she was, I was like "waaaait a second."
Hi! I'm also from December. I just wanted to pop in and say how reminiscent this all is of the June/July16 drama that went down. It was popcorn worthy!! However, I'm fresh out of popcorn, so please hold until tomorrow when I hit up Costco.
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