Hello. I had a MC last week and I went back to the doctor a week later and I still have tissue that isn't being expelled. They want to do a d and c on me or use the pill. I was so scared I just asked for another week to see if my body can do it on its own. Has anyone else had this experience? Should I wait or just get it over with? I am so upset with our loss to begin with and I'm scared and have no idea what to do. Thank you guys so much.
I had waited to see if my body would do it on its own. It didn't, but I feel like I needed to wait it out. I don't regret it. Do whatever feels best to you.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I was in a similar position as you just two weeks ago. I got to the point though where I just wanted it to be over. I went ahead with the cytotec and it actually wasn't that bad. My doctor was okay with me waiting longer if I had wanted. It's so hard but remember there is no right or wrong choice.
Ivy: July 2010 | Stella: Dec 2012 | BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020
@dannixx for me I just wanted it be over as quickly as possible and recover as quickly as possible so I could start trying again. I elected to have d & c with both of mine. I didn't experience any pain and was back doing most of my normal activity the next day. I needed more time to recover emotionally than I did physically. Do what you feel is best for you. Sorry for your loss
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