Trying to Get Pregnant
dukestar5
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TWW Tuesday 7/18
dukestar5
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Good morning! 
Month/cycle:
CD/DPO:
Timing:
Typical LP Length:
Testing:
R/R:
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be?
Re: TWW Tuesday 7/18
Month/cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 27/9
Timing: -2, -1, 0
Typical LP Length: 12-14?
Testing: no (already have some pre-AF cramping symptoms
boo).
R/R: My MIL invited us over for dinner tonight, so I don't have to cook!
CS/Q: Just out of curiousity, do you experience symptoms before AF arrives? If so, how many days before? I feel like I always get cramps and such 3-5 days before AF and it's no fun!
GTKY: for the home, I would say Restoration Hardware....I love looking at (but never buy) all of the awesome things in that store. If I was going to max out one for clothes, I might say Anthropologie!
Month/cycle: 6/4
CD/DPO: 19/6
Timing: good
Typical LP Length: 14-15
Testing: doctors office will probably test tomorrow, and I will probably test Friday if my temps keep staying really high
R/R: I am already SS, it is too early for this. Today is my last work day this week!
CS/Q: none
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be?
Probably target or Lowe's. I spend too much time at those stores.
@dukestar5 , enjoy dinner at your MILs. And I generally cramp 2-3 days leading to AF.
@dukestar5 - yes, i get death cramps the day before bleeding starts. Plus mood swings and irritability. It's a wonderful time for the whole house, HA!
Month/cycle:4/4
CD/DPO: 22/7
Timing: good
Typical LP Length: 12-13
Testing: going to try to hold off this time.
R/R: rave - hubby finally gets his shoulder fixed tomorrow! it's been since last fall that he tore it, and a long road trying many things. rant - he is scheduled for surgery... and it's going to be another 6 months or more before he's recovered. if this cycle isn't it, we're likely going to be waiting a few more before pain levels are low enough to do the deed...
CS/Q:
I dont fully understand the baseline temp calcs... I discarded the CD1 that was super high (mine drop towards the end of AF), hoping it would lower that baseline to more of an average of my pre-o temps. Can anyone explain how that works?
My Ovulation Chart
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be?
Max it out and not have to pay for it? Menards. On the surface it sounds boring, but I'd love a new front door, replace the hollow core doors in the house, redo the bathroom, etc. It'd be heaven
Married April 1st 2017
DS #1: May 2009
DS #2: Jan 2012
Month/cycle: 3/3 AL
CD/DPO: 21/4
Timing: all
Typical LP Length: 15-16
Testing: July 30
R/R: CA tomorrow, gotta pack and clean all day today
CS/Q: so I leave for CA tomorrow (my moms house), and our flight back is July 30. Should I pack a test so I can know if I need to expect my period on the plane? Or should I not pack any so that I'm not tempted at all to test early?
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be? Sephora..............or maybe west elm.......... if we lived in a house I'd definitely say restoration hardware or pottery barn but their furniture is generally too large for apt life
@holly321 I may be totally off- are you having surgery for your wrist tomorrow?
@AliW220. How did your husband hurt his shoulder somehow? Ohhhhh,,we would save so much hypothetical money if I chose Menards!
Be back later to post
High five to a fellow Menards lover LOL!
Married April 1st 2017
DS #1: May 2009
DS #2: Jan 2012
Month/cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 29/14
Timing: +2, +1, -1
Typical LP Length: 13/14
Testing: Going to hold off for a couple more days, kind of having AF like symptoms, but we shall see.
R/R: Rant: looking for apartments is the worst, my sister decided she is moving to Texas after the lease end on the apartment we have now. Unfortunately, DH and I would love to stay in the one we are at now, but its more than what we'd like to pay for for just the 2 of us. I did find a nice 2 bedroom just a little bit away from us, which is cheaper. So hopefully I'll hear something from them today. FX! Other than that I am going to be super bummed if AF does show up this time. It may suck right now, but it will happen I keep telling myself. Merp. Feeling just a bit down today.
CS/Q: I got nothing.
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be? That would totally be Target!
DD: 07/19/18
EDD: 06/22/22
Also - how did I not think of Target, like DUH. Def one of the best options... cute home decor (Nate Burkus is a decor GOD)... plus life's essentials.
Married April 1st 2017
DS #1: May 2009
DS #2: Jan 2012
Month/Cycle: 6/6
CD/DPO: 17/4
Timing: -5, -3, -2, -1, 0 (I’m exhausted!)
Typical LP Length: 13 days
Testing: 29th?
R/R: I bribed myself to work out yesterday by saying I could get hibachi afterwards if I went to the gym. Probably negates the entire 45 min gym session but something is better than nothing right?
CS/Q: Link in siggy.
GTKY: I love Coach or maybe a candy store. To be honest though, I would never max my credit card out. I am such a cheapo
@dukestar5 – Sorry about your pre-af symptoms. I maybe get cramping the day before but not 3-5 days beforehand. That so sux that you do!
@holly321 – fingers crossed for you! Is the doctor’s office doing bloodwork or pee stick? I’m already SS too and I’m only 4dpo so you are not alone.
@aliw220 – GL to your H tomorrow! I hope that the pain isn’t bad/this is your cycle so you don’t have to wait until he’s feeling better.
@doxiemoxie212 – OOO that’s a hard decision. The two times I was on vacation during expected AF I did not pack one. It was more for the reason that I didn’t want to do it around my family and then have to keep that secret since we would want to wait a few weeks before telling them. You could always buy one if you get the urge?
@ajsanders-2 – you have great will power! With your typical LP length being 13/14 I would be testing no later than tomorrow, if not later today if AF doesn’t show up. GL finding an apartment!
Married: August 2014
TTC #1: February 2017 - BFP 7/28/17; EDD 4/8/18; DD born 4/7/18
TTC #2: February 2019
No CHs yet but I'm coming on over
Month/cycle: 3/3 after a couple losses
CD/DPO: 16/2
Timing: -2,-1,O
Typical LP Length: 14-15
Testing: way to early for thinking about that
R/R: we're on vacay this week. Just doing daily fun stuff. So nice! And I thought I'd spend this whole week waiting on O so I'm glad that's out of the way.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be?
Probably target!
DS: born oct 2012
TFAS: BFP #1 aug16. miscarriage sept16
BFP #2 nov16 MMC dec16. d&c jan17
BFP #3 sept17 EDD 5/31/18
fingers crossed for our rainbow baby
@justkeepswimming8 some days its really tough but some how I do it! If nothing happens today I will for sure be testing! TY!
DD: 07/19/18
EDD: 06/22/22
@ajsanders-2 Apartment hunting is usually no fun. I used to live with my sister and it was great. Hopefully you have enjoyed your sister time! It may be nice to move with your DH into somewhere different after she leaves.
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Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 21/10
Timing: -4, -1, +1
Typical LP length: 9-11 days
Testing: Likely not. AF should be here in the next few days
R/R: I've been busy in the mornings and by the time I make it here in the later afternoons I get overwhelmed and end up just reading post and not commenting/posting. This morning, I had an anxiety attack on the way to work as I don't remember closing the garage door. I think I may need to go back up on my medicine. Rave: Cold brew coffee. And MH. He has been very supportive lately, which like most men, emotions and feelings don't always come naturally. And I get to see my sister this weekend, so I am super stoked!
GTKY: Menards or Target. Maybe Target and then I can buy Menards gift cards
Month/cycle: 2/?
CD/DPO: 25/7
Timing: -3, -1, 0, +1
Typical LP Length: 14?
Testing: nope, not yet
R/R: just trying to get in back to work mode (teacher) while doing this is no fun!
CS/Q: nah
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be? Amazon! I would have literally everything I need!
@holly321 target is just bad! I love it so.
@aliw220 good luck to your DH. In the 15 yrs I've been with my hubs, he's had 5 shoulder surgeries. It's no fun!
@doxiemoxie212 I know I should say don't pack any. But let's be real... I wouldn't be able to stop myself. And if I didn't, I'd cave and find a way to secretly buy one there lol.
@ajsanders-2 good luck apartment hunting!
@justkeepswimming8 you just made 'room' for the good meal! Imagine the guilt if you didn't lol
@jrm_14 if I don't make it here early in the day I get overwhelmed also lol. I especially cause I'm always mobile, which makes it harder.
DS: born oct 2012
TFAS: BFP #1 aug16. miscarriage sept16
BFP #2 nov16 MMC dec16. d&c jan17
BFP #3 sept17 EDD 5/31/18
fingers crossed for our rainbow baby
Month/cycle: 3/3
CD/DPO: 35/?
Timing: unknown
Typical LP Length: unknown
Testing: tomorrow... again
R/R: just a super long cycle for me. I think my tatas are getting fuller which is usually my only sign of AF and/or pg so it's still not helpful but hopefully a sign that either isn't too far away.
CS/Q:
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be? The thought of maxing out a card gives me anxiety but I would say At Home for home decor! I can spend a lot of money there
@dukestar5 I don't usually get cramping with AF, but as I mentioned above I get full breasts (which let's be honest, are still really small but at least for a few days they aren't microscopic anymore which is a plus!)
@aliw220 and @holly321 GL with surgeries tomorrow! Hope everything goes smoothly and everyone heals quickly.
@doxiemoxie212 have fun on vaca! I had a work trip just a few days ago and I went BSC bc I wanted to test but didn't have one with me. Turned out to be way too early as I'm still here in TWW and it was silly but it still stressed me out. Do whatever you need. And wow student loans!! At least there's a plus side.
@ajsanders-2 GL with the apartment hunt! I simultaneously love and hate that process! Hope something can pick you back up today
@justkeepswimming8 I lolled at your being exhausted from your timing
@catlady1215 enjoy vaca!! Glad you don't have to worry about O!
@jrm_14 MH has the same panic attack about the garage door every single time he leaves the house. Every time. Because he left it open once. Lol
@dukestar5 yay for no cooking!! Also I have some bowel issues 2-3 and headaches or migraines before AF but cramps don't generally come until CD1
@AliW220 Good Luck with DH surgery
@doxiemoxie212 take a test just in case you get the desire that way no store run
@catlady1215 have fun on vacation
@jrm_14 I like the way you think with gift ca@dukestar5
Month/cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 18/3, just got CHs this AM
Timing: -3, -1, +1
Typical LP Length: 11
Testing: I'll probably test 10 and 14 DPO, so 25 and 29
R/R: Except I haven't been sleeping for crap recently and it's going to be as hot as the sun n this week.
CS/Q: Nada
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be?
My first instinct was Torrid but LBH I don't need that many clothes. So Bed, Bath, Beyond. I would love to redo all the beds, my bathroom, new towels, pillows and all the kitchen stuff I want. And outdoor furniture
HX
DSD: 17
DS: 4(Nov'14)
MMC:8/17
MMC: 1/18
BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19
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@dukestar5 – I normally just get some cramps the day before she shows up. Hope she stays away for you!
@holly321 – Best of luck on the testing!
@aliw220 – That sounds really painful! I hope it goes smoothly and recovery is quick.
@doxiemoxie212 – Tough call, but you can always go and get one if you really want to test when you are away.
@ajsanders-2 – Ooohh that is exciting! FX for you!
@catlady1215 Have a great vacation!
@justkeepswimming8 I am with you on the candy. But I think mine would be cupcakes instead.
@jrm_14 Sorry you are having a rough day. But really awesome that YH is being so supportive. Chin up!
@cards10 I am the same on the breast front. I get so excited on that one day when I can actually full out the bra cups ...sad.
@kindbytealikat welcome! Yay for CH! I was super excited when I got mine for the first time this month.
ETA more posts.....
Month/cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 23/7
Timing: -2, -1, O
Typical LP Length: 10-12'ish
Testing: Only if the wicked witch doesn't show up.
R/R: Taught a new release this morning at the gym. Always gives me anxiety teaching something new so had crappy sleep. But, we nailed it! I wont be able to walk tomorrow, but that is tomorrows problem ha!
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be? If I had answered this question before we bought the house a few years ago it would have been a completely different answer. These days I think I have a small investment in HomeDepot already. But if it was purely to spoil myself, probably somewhere like LuluLemon. Gym chic is a thing.
P&G today, as we're heading out to breakfast, but hopefully I'll have time later to get back on
@dukestar5 I don't usually get any cramps (or any other symptoms) before AF... I never realized that was so unusual until now...
Month/cycle: 7/7
CD/DPO: 20/7
Timing: Ox2
Typical LP Length: 13-14
Testing: Sunday
Rave: I was super nervous about my cooking class, but everything went really well yesterday. Today definitely looks more intense though...
CS/Q: Nope, but chart in spoiler for stalking.
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be?
Probably Amazon, like @marajadejen said, or a nice local furniture store, since all of our furniture is hand-me-down. OR, a home improvement store so we could get new cabinets and counters and windows and appliances.
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20
@catlady1215 Glad to see you over here! Fx this is your cycle.
@jrm_14 If I come in late sometimes I just can't pick up everyone. I think it's nbd.
@justkeepswimming8 Sometimes to get back into the work out routine I think we need extra positive reinforcement, even if it counteracts the actual exercise.
@ajsanders-2 I hate moving. I hope you find a great place soon!
@doxiemoxie212 Idk, I would probably bring a cheap test with me because I am weak. I wonder the same - if I can max out a card and not get a bill that would be awesome, and I have a massive credit limit too.
@holly321 Fx for your testing this week!
@AliW220 Glad YH is getting fixed up. On your chart question - I couldn't remember exactly how FF draws your line - turns out you can use two methods, the FAM method or the advanced. FF is likely set on advanced for you and it tries to use your overall pattern of temps to detect O. (https://www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/Coverline-calculation-method.html). I have found that even where my temps are higher at the beginning of the cycle due to AF, FF does not have trouble detecting O. I don't discard early cycle temps, the only temp I might discard is a very high temp close to when I expect to O due to sleeping poorly/late/too much booze.
@marajadejen I love Amazon!
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Not going to do a full update because my temp dropped even a little more this am and I'm just waiting for AF, so I'm not really TWW anymore but also not WTO quite yet. Acupuncture yesterday went well - made me super tired. He recommended coming in every other week to start and based on the fact that I am O'ing there is not anything specific he is working on except overall health. He said something about my kidney pulse being weak so he worked on my kidneys. There's pretty much no one around me who specializes in fertility. The one I picked does treat for fertility (just not a specialist in it) and he has really good reviews and is educated well. No idea if this will do anything but I am just really into trying stuff that can't hurt.
If I could max out a credit card - I would also do Amazon. I mean, I love actually seeing stuff but I could buy EVERYTHING at Amazon (but only if I'm never going to get the bill)...
Month/cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: 24/11
Timing: -2, -1, 0, +1
Typical LP Length: 13-14 days
Testing: BFN again today.
R/R: Ok, so I know that I'm still testing really early, but seeing those BFNs is so disheartening. Just spent a while crying on MH's shoulder. If this cycle doesn't happen, we're into cycle 6, after which we start getting IF testing (because I'm over 35). I was so naive going into this, and didn't even consider that there could be issues.
CS/Q: No questions
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be? I've been shopping for clothes lately, so I'd go with Modcloth.com!
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@dukestar5 I rarely get symptoms pre-AF.
Sorry you're having to deal with that.
@AliW220 I hope your hubby's surgery goes well! Fx.
@doxiemoxie212 Safe travels to CA and have fun!
@ajsanders-2 Sorry you're feeling so discouraged as well.
@jrm_14 Anxiety is no fun.
@dukestar5, have fun at dinner! Do you know what's on the menu? I don't get many pre-AF symptoms, but I guess I'm in the minority that doesn't spot before AF starts too.
@holly321, look at you being all practical picking Target and Lowe's! Those are great picks.
@aliw220, best of luck to YH! I might be right there with you TTA for a bit if this isn't our cycle too.
@doxiemoxie212, I'm the wrong person to ask about bringing a test. I pee in all the things 9dpo. Have fun in CA! You're going for YH's exam, right? Good luck to him!
@ajsanders-2, good luck with the apartment hunt. I agree that it's stressful and not a lot of fun.
@justkeepswimming8, good job on getting the workout in. I usually crave pizza and beer after a hard workout, so you're doing better than me! Hibachi sounds delicious!
@catlady1215, have a great vacation week! Hope it's fun and relaxing!
@jrm_14, glad YH is supportive. Sounds like you could use it if anxiety is getting to you. Have fun with your sister!
@cards10, sorry you're lost in your cycle. Hopefully you figure out where you're at soon!
@kindbytealikat, Welcome! Looking forward to getting to know you.
@nitnat007, what do you teach?
@hedgepig, are you learning to cook some new dishes? What have you been making?
@zamora_spin, sorry to hear you're WFAF. I'm glad your acupuncture appointment went well! Hope it helps you. Keep us updated on it.
Month/cycle: 8/7 (7/6, 3/3 AL)
CD/DPO: 22/5
Timing: -2, -1, O
Typical LP Length: 15 days on progesterone
Testing: Probably this weekend
R/R: I'm losing all motivation at work. Now we have new mini meetings every morning to go over what we did the day before and what our plans for the day are. I think things will be better when the interns are done after next week since they can be a distraction, but I think I just have to find a way to reset.
CS/Q: just a lot of BSC going on here. Thanks a lot, progesterone.
GTKY: my first thought was Banana Republic or Ann Taylor, but I'm thinking I could do more damage at Nordstrom's.
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
And thank you to all you ladies who wished us luck
Married April 1st 2017
DS #1: May 2009
DS #2: Jan 2012
Month/cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 27/9
Timing: O-2, O
Typical LP Length:
Testing: If AF hasn't shown up by Friday
R/R: We made it to our campsite and got settled in! The weather is beautiful!
CS/Q:Chart in spoilers. My temp was taken at a normal time and was down again, but still above the cover line. [spoiler]
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GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be? Nordstrom! I love clothes shopping!
@dukestar5 I have symptoms about 3 days before. Usually bloating, back pain, cramps, and being cranky AF
@holly321 keeping my fingers crossed for you!
@aliw220 good luck to YH. What is Menards?
@doxiemoxie212 pack a test! That way you don't have to run out to get one if you get the urge to POAS.
@ajsanders-2 good luck with apartment hunting!
@catlady1215 enjoy your vacation
@jrm_14 that's great that YH is being so supportive. And yay for quality time with your sister.
@cards10 it drives me crazy and PMS and early pregnancy symptoms are so similar.
@kindbytealikat yay for CHs!
@nitnat007 glad the new release went well!
@hedgepig I'm glad the cooking class went well!
@zamora_spin I'm glad your appointment went well.
@darkstar42 I'm sorry that you're being referred for testing, but hopeful that you can get the answers you need. Lots of hugs.
Married April 1st 2017
DS #1: May 2009
DS #2: Jan 2012
@doxiemoxie212 Coming home to a clean house after a trip is seriously amazing. Happy cleaning!@justkeepswimming8 If you FIRST workout THEN you get hibachi, it is totally positive reinforcement
@catlady1215 Shout out to fellow Target lover. I'm also typically mobile.
@cards10 MH is the SAME WAY about freaking out about things or perseverating if something happened 1 time. Like when his Ma didn't get the bathroom sink turned off all the way, so he then wanted to check the faucet whenever she used it after that.
@kindbytealikat It probably says something about me that I think how to cheat the questions and get gift cards to other stores, ha.
@nitnat007 What do you teach at the gym???
@hedgepig Did I miss what the cooking classes are for? Making delish things? Learning new skills? And you and @Zamora_spin are brilliant about choosing Amazon.
@darkstar42 FX it is still too early. Sorry about the BFN, though
@icecubeinthedesert Is there a difference between Ann Taylor and Ann Taylor Loft?
ETA: @mileswithmyles and @AliW220. Yes, Menards is a home improvement store. It is the Wal-Mart of home stores, like Home Depot, Etc. It originated in WI, though is in some other upper to mid Midwest states, too.
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
Hope that things improve after those interns are gone. How long were they there for?
@mileswithmyles Have a fantastic time camping!!
Me: 30 | DH: 31
Met: August 2006
Married: July 2012
TTC #1 since June 2016
***TW***
BFP: 7/12/16 | MC: 9/12/16
BFP: 1/18/17 | MMC: 2/13/17
BFP: 10/7/17 | EDD: 6/21/17
MTHFR: homozygous A1298C
Interns - well clearly you are just too nice and helpful, which is why they all keep coming to you! But totally get the frustration on not being able to get stuff done. Hopefully people get back from vacation soon.
Month/cycle: 7/7
CD/DPO: 15/1-3?
Timing: -1, 0 We got lazy this month because of house renovating hell
Typical LP Length: 12-14
Testing: AF is expected on 8/1, so if she's MIA any the end of that week I'll test then
R/R: Rave-We may be moving into our house as early as this Sunday but hopefully the end of next week at the latest! Rant - Work is being actual work and I'm super busy and my body is fighting me and making me tired all the time. I think it's my anxiety meds doing it. Anyone else have experience with this?
CS/Q: not at the moment
GTKY: If you could max your credit card out at one store, what store would it be? Ulta, and it is maxed out. Because I'm super responsible. Lol
@jrm_14, yeah, I am having wrist/elbow surgery tomorrow. Oddly, I am excited. I am sick of the tingling and coldness. It has been 10+ years.
@justkeepswimming8, probably pee stick, but there paperwork mentioned blood work, so maybe? And I workout to eat all the time. I did it the other day so I could eat leftover moussaka for breakfast.
@catlady1215, enjoy your vacation!
@cards10, hopefully you have an answer soon, preferably not Af! And thanks!
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20