Hello! I love old-fashioned, but unique names such as: Matilda, Elise, and Iris. My husband hates unusual names and prefers common names from our age group like: Sarah, Ashley, Brittany etc. I finally thought of Laura/Lora, thinking that this would fit both our styles. However, he still doesn't like it. I am about to pull my hair out looking for a name that doesn't make at least one of us cringe. Do you have any ideas? Something feminine and sweet for me, but simple enough for him?
Print out the top 1000. Give him a highlighter, and then veto any names you don't like.
^^ This. Print out names or find a baby book. This is what I did with my husband. I have him highlight names he likes then I go off his list, there is usually at least 1 name you can agree on!!
My husband also kept suggesting names from our age group at first but I explained to him that I'd be scared they will grow up to sound like "Mom names" the way we associate Deb, Barbara, Kathy, Diane, etc with mom's in the generation above ours. It wasn't that he was totally sold on those names (Jessica, etc) but just that those are the names guys are more familiar with if they don't think much about baby naming. Try explaining to him that reasoning, show him graphs with name popularity over time, and maybe he will open up to some of your choices!
Re: Common or Uncommon Girl's names?
Alison
Alexis
Bryn
Juliet
Rose
Grace
Jillian (Jill)
Samantha (sam)
Lydia
Kori
Lorelei
Savannah
Celia
Erin
Kylie
Kiera
Colleen
Caroline (Carol)
Megan
Angela (Angie)
Victoria (Vicki, tori)
Fiona
Laura
Wren
Jillian
Lucy
Tara
Susan (sue)
Amelia
Bethany
Cadence
Darlene
Emily
Hannah
Jacqueline
Juliana
Kimberly
Liliana
Lindsay
Melanie
Melody
Rebecca
Sally
Vanessa
Laurel
Lilian (Lily)
Emily
Claire
Philippa (Pippa)
Catherine (Kate)
Ava
Pia
Louisa
My husband also kept suggesting names from our age group at first but I explained to him that I'd be scared they will grow up to sound like "Mom names" the way we associate Deb, Barbara, Kathy, Diane, etc with mom's in the generation above ours. It wasn't that he was totally sold on those names (Jessica, etc) but just that those are the names guys are more familiar with if they don't think much about baby naming. Try explaining to him that reasoning, show him graphs with name popularity over time, and maybe he will open up to some of your choices!
Good luck!
Annette
Juliette
Melanie
Nora/Norah
MC @ 5w 03/16
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Rebecca
Helen
Judith
Ruth
Victoria
Natalia
Alessandra
Audrey
Ingrid
Colleen
Bridget
Renee
Angela
Pamela
Tabitha
Suggestions-- Fiona, Leona, Arden, Lorraine, Eloise/eloisa, Claire/Clara, Sawyer, Sadie, Eileen, Lydia, Celia, Celine, Hazel, Olive, Lucy, Gemma, Caroline