MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
Heyyyy all you people, come to Oregon! Hee hee. I just moved here 3 years ago (Portland area) but we love it. Family is completely on the other side of the country but whatever.
1. Y'all know me. I think. 2. WTO CD6 I think. 3. R/R: been AWOL but my boards are now over with. It was a bloodbath. Find out in the next 2 weeks. Just keep thinking of all the things I over-thought and guessed wrong. 4. GTKY? was this a reading question? I kinda stopped reading these past few months with studying but I did squeeze in the James Patterson 16th Women's Murder Club, want to get back to one I started on the early history of New Orleans (in laws live there and the city absolutely fascinates me).
@dpjennifer I love your snark on TTGP this morning, btw
@amberruka - glad you are back after boards! nothing you can do know (easier said then done, i know!) have you visited central oregon yet? its amazing!
**** TW - kids and loss mentioned **** ~~ married 8.11.07 ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~ ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~ ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC ~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
@ladipale it was on the thread about trying to have a specific gender baby.....should be just a few threads down, easy to find.
I haven't really spent any time in central OR (any time off I go to NY, TX, NOLA to see family), but when my mom and I drove here from Atlanta we came across 84, OMG so gorgeous! Been meaning to get back on the other side of the state!
@amberruka Glad your boards are done with! Hope they went well and that you passed. And yeah, I sometimes enjoy being a bitter hag.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
@jchpg and @zamora_spin I also hate when people say that. I feel that I should have went in to see my RE away sooner than I did. It took us six months to get pregnant and at the time everyone told me that. Oh now you know you can get pregnant, that's great. But now it's been a year and a half since my loss and I'm still not pregnant. I should have went to my RE last summer.
1. Introduce yourself if you're new. I intro'd a long time ago but then disappeared - I'm 35 years old- DH is 41....I've had two losses- a MMC over 10 years ago and a second tri loss 04/2017 ......no live babies in between 2. Status? self benched this cycle- June was my first AF post loss and it was terribly irregular- I bled for over 3 weeks so I'm crossing my fingers for a normal cycle in July 3. R/R? we have just started going around family again after losing our son and everyone TRIES to be comforting, including my mother in law who talks about a second tri loss she had inbetween having her two sons- and I appreciate the thought but I just get so tired of talking about it every time I'm around them but don't know how to say that without sounding like a complete b**** 4. GTKY: What are you currently reading? I wish I had time for books
Me: 36 years old DH: 42 years old
Married: 05.2012 TW:
TTC #1 Since April 2016 HSG/FSH/AMH/E2/SA all normal DX: unexplained IF spontaneous BFP 01/01/2017- Alexander was born sleeping 04/13/2017 at 19w1d ic/chorio September 2017 HSG #2 & Gonal-F/Femara/Ovidrel/IUI #1 = ep (Salpingectomy of left fallopian tube) spontaneous BFP 01/02/2018 EDD Aug 30th It's a GIRL! Cerclage placed on 03/02 Cerclage removal 08/02
@harleyquinn0621 I'm so sorry for your loss. People often just don't know what to say. Could you ask them (maybe even via text) to let you be the one to bring up the loss if you feel like talking about it? (If that would be preferable to you).
1. Introduce yourself if you're new. I'm a lurker coming out of hiding. I'm 36, husband is 28. In my first marriage I struggled with infertility (PCOS). With current husband we got miraculously pregnant after 3 cycles. Then we had a MMC in May at 12w2d (baby was 8w4d). 2. Status? First 2ww after our MMC, super anxious. Scared I'm not pregnant. Scared I am. 3. R/R? I work in mental health and it's amazing how many clinicians, good strong clinicians, have no clue how to react to a loss. 4. GTKY: What are you currently reading? Textbooks. I'm in my last semester of class work for my MSW. So I read a lot about trauma and family/group therapy. In who free time I have I'm trying to re-read the Harry Potter books.
@zamora_spin i went to my first big family event. luckily it wasnt that bad.... i got a couple of 'i'm sorry for your loss' from people who have not seen me recently but otherwise no one discussed it... i did get one little comment from my mother in law.. "i really want to be a grandmother"...which kind of made me uncomfortable but otherwise it was ok....
Me: 36 years old DH: 42 years old
Married: 05.2012 TW:
TTC #1 Since April 2016 HSG/FSH/AMH/E2/SA all normal DX: unexplained IF spontaneous BFP 01/01/2017- Alexander was born sleeping 04/13/2017 at 19w1d ic/chorio September 2017 HSG #2 & Gonal-F/Femara/Ovidrel/IUI #1 = ep (Salpingectomy of left fallopian tube) spontaneous BFP 01/02/2018 EDD Aug 30th It's a GIRL! Cerclage placed on 03/02 Cerclage removal 08/02
Re: TTCAL week of 6/26
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
1. Y'all know me. I think.
2. WTO CD6 I think.
3. R/R: been AWOL but my boards are now over with. It was a bloodbath. Find out in the next 2 weeks. Just keep thinking of all the things I over-thought and guessed wrong.
4. GTKY? was this a reading question? I kinda stopped reading these past few months with studying but I did squeeze in the James Patterson 16th Women's Murder Club, want to get back to one I started on the early history of New Orleans (in laws live there and the city absolutely fascinates me).
@dpjennifer I love your snark on TTGP this morning, btw
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
@amberruka - glad you are back after boards! nothing you can do know (easier said then done, i know!) have you visited central oregon yet? its amazing!
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
I haven't really spent any time in central OR (any time off I go to NY, TX, NOLA to see family), but when my mom and I drove here from Atlanta we came across 84, OMG so gorgeous! Been meaning to get back on the other side of the state!
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months. Hopefully FET after that.
#BitterHagPartyOf1
2. Status? self benched this cycle- June was my first AF post loss and it was terribly irregular- I bled for over 3 weeks so I'm crossing my fingers for a normal cycle in July
3. R/R? we have just started going around family again after losing our son and everyone TRIES to be comforting, including my mother in law who talks about a second tri loss she had inbetween having her two sons- and I appreciate the thought but I just get so tired of talking about it every time I'm around them but don't know how to say that without sounding like a complete b****
4. GTKY: What are you currently reading? I wish I had time for books
TW:
HSG/FSH/AMH/E2/SA all normal DX: unexplained IF
spontaneous BFP 01/01/2017- Alexander was born sleeping 04/13/2017 at 19w1d ic/chorio
September 2017 HSG #2 & Gonal-F/Femara/Ovidrel/IUI #1 = ep (Salpingectomy of left fallopian tube)
spontaneous BFP 01/02/2018 EDD Aug 30th It's a GIRL!
Cerclage placed on 03/02
I'm a lurker coming out of hiding. I'm 36, husband is 28. In my first marriage I struggled with infertility (PCOS). With current husband we got miraculously pregnant after 3 cycles. Then we had a MMC in May at 12w2d (baby was 8w4d).
2. Status?
First 2ww after our MMC, super anxious. Scared I'm not pregnant. Scared I am.
3. R/R?
I work in mental health and it's amazing how many clinicians, good strong clinicians, have no clue how to react to a loss.
4. GTKY: What are you currently reading?
Textbooks. I'm in my last semester of class work for my MSW. So I read a lot about trauma and family/group therapy. In who free time I have I'm trying to re-read the Harry Potter books.
Married 1/28/17
TW:
BFP #2 10/10/17, MC 11/4/17
BFP #3 12/17/17 Birth 8/13/18
BFP #4 4/21/19 Birth 12/5/2019
TW:
HSG/FSH/AMH/E2/SA all normal DX: unexplained IF
spontaneous BFP 01/01/2017- Alexander was born sleeping 04/13/2017 at 19w1d ic/chorio
September 2017 HSG #2 & Gonal-F/Femara/Ovidrel/IUI #1 = ep (Salpingectomy of left fallopian tube)
spontaneous BFP 01/02/2018 EDD Aug 30th It's a GIRL!
Cerclage placed on 03/02