I love the activity on the board this week. Let's keep it going.
My UO I don't think kids should have so many extracurricular activities. I think kids should have time to get bored and then figure out their own creative outlets.
11.2011 - DS1
02.2013 - loss at 6 wks
06.2014 - DS2
10.2015 - loss at 12 wks
03.2017 - DD
Re: UO - 6.29
DS1 7/24/15
DS2 5/7/17
Zoos: support or boycott?
DS1 7/24/15
DS2 5/7/17
11.2011 - DS1
02.2013 - loss at 6 wks
06.2014 - DS2
10.2015 - loss at 12 wks
03.2017 - DD
My UO is probably a FFFC but I am loving all the extra time now that I'm not pumping or breast feeding and my baby is well fed and happy and healthy. Yes, breast is best, but so is a rested happy mama. Formula is not the devil I once thought
Zoo's - Most Zoo's in the western world are fine, it's the ones, usually in Asian countries thy starve the animals and chain them up for photos with tourists etc that I have a problem with. 9/10 the zoo's in Europe, The US and Australia are all well cared for animals that are provided enough entertsinment and enrichment, the majority of animals are all bred in captivity and then sent to other zoos so it's not like they're pulling the animals out of their natural environment and caging them anymore.
I see modern zoo's as no worse than owning a cat, dog, horse, bird etc Most domestic dogs are treated worse than zoo animals.
eta: too tired, can't spell
DS - January 2014
TTCAL | April 2016
CP | June 2016
CP | July 2016
DS1 7/24/15
DS2 5/7/17
It's hard coming up with a UO that hasn't been said in the past 9+ months! Let's see... one associated to my daily life is that I don't think parents should be in contact with their kids at summer camp aside from letters. Give them some independence! No emails, no phone calls. Your kid is fine without you.
ETA: we actually don't allow phone calls, but parents try.
Married: October 2014
Began TTC: April 2015
BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w)
BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w)
BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17
BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
DS - January 2014
TTCAL | April 2016
CP | June 2016
CP | July 2016
Married: October 2014
Began TTC: April 2015
BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w)
BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w)
BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17
BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
+1 on not calling home from camp. I remember going to summer camp as a child and it did make it easier to adjust...if only my mother had remembered to feed our pet fish that year it would have gone perfectly.
I too am having a hard time coming up with a UO, but here's my try: I don't think fast food/frozen food is the devil. I wish I could get DD to eat better, but after just turning 2 and being super petite, something is better than nothing. We can duke it out about vegetables when she can understand me better.
I think accredited zoos are great. But I can't justify orcas at sea world. I was lucky to see orcas in the wild, including the orca, Granny, that was ancient (something like 100?) and that is presumed to have died last year. It was an awesome experience. I don't need to see them perform tricks for humans. Much like I don't go to circuses with performing animals.
May17 Siggy Challenge
Labor
DS1 7/24/15
DS2 5/7/17
for starters, the lifespan of wild orcas is claimed in Blackfish as 100yrs plus, whereas the NOAA states the average for males is 30yrs and females is 50 with both capable of reaching 60-90. One orca that reached over 100yrs old is hardly the norm.
I also never did say that I was ok with what sea world does, just that the Blackfish documentary is bullshit and badly done. All it is there to do is invoke an emotional response with very little actual fact, once you start looking into it, the whole film comes undone very quickly.
I am am ok with the orca shows at SeaWorld, I am also ok with captive breeding programs as well as the rehabilitation programs which may or may not result in the animal returning to the wild. I would much rather see an Orca in a more natural enclosure simply for the majestic creatures they are, but they are intelligent and the tricks etc can be a good way to stimulate them mentally while in captivity.
I am am also perfectly ok with circuses. In Australia at least, many of the animals are up to 10th generation of captive breeding, they are under strict guidelines with their animals for enclosure and transport, the animals are well cared for and there's very little difference between them and a domestic dog being taught tricks. The trainers care for their animals a lot, and the animals are obviously happy.
DS - January 2014
TTCAL | April 2016
CP | June 2016
CP | July 2016