My TW is lunchtime today. First, I took a bite of bread and it tasted SO SOUR. I didn't see any mold, but ugh. Next, I spilled my whole (24 oz) water bottle on the floor. Then I dropped my pad of butter on the floor too. And my cat flipped over my new glass of water and it spilled all over the table, the remote and my kindle (which was thankfully in a case). Then I yelled at my cat and now I feel really bad about it.
My ex and his lawyer are both HUGE TWs!! Currently at court arguing about our parenting time and a few other small things. My ex is bickering over wanting an extra 12 hours a month, spread out over 2 weeks, so essentially 6 hours twice a month. I said no. Then he said yes. Then I said no. Then he said yes. Then I said, you know what, a good compromise is when both parties walk away unhappy, so how about we meet and the middle and say 3 hours each of those days. He said no. Well okay, then. Let's leave it upto the judge. This is sooooooooooo annoying!!!! Anyone who has ever been in a relationship with a controlling, manipulative, jerk, understands exactly the kind of person I'm dealing with.
This woman, adult woman, in my office is afraid of elevators. Fine, I get it, I don't like enclosed spaces much either. Our new temp office is on the 6th floor. Every.single.day she asks me to take her up and down in the elevator whenever she has to go somewhere, no matter how busy I am. And each time freaks out, screaming and grabbing mt arm or running off the elevator before the door closes. The first 6 weeks of this I didn't mind, but now i am so over it bc she doesn't act like that when other ppl are around. I get being scared but I can't be your personal escort all day!
@cmessamore I'm sorry you're dealing with a jerk of an ex. Hopefully the judge comes down with a ruling you're happy with.
@jess0212 You've been doing this for 6 weeks? Oh hell no! I'd be telling her that you understand her fear, but that you can no longer be her escort in the elevator. It reaches a point where it's disruptive to your work day, and I'm guessing personal elevator escort is not in your job description...
@jess0211 You are waaaaaaaay nicer than I am. Absolutely hard no on that. If she's that scared, she can take the stairs. Doing it once or twice is one thing - every time?? F that.
My husband just got a new (to us) Jeep with leather seats. We talked about a back seat cover to protect the leather from our dog, looked at them at Petco and online together, and I ordered one from Amazon. It came in, I showed my FIL the cover and then he asked if we were going to use it today when we took our dog to the groomers. DH then tells him he has no intention of using it and that the trunk is fine. Now I have to go through the trouble of returning it when he could have just told me he didn't want it when I brought it up the first time.
My TW is my phone and it's case. I got an otter box to protect my phone. I accidentally drop my bag, with my phone in it, on the tile floor at the office and my screen cracks! Are we sure it's not a Monday?
My TW is my coworker. She was out yesterday and it was a full day of amazing silence. She's back today an she won't stop talking about what she did yesterday, telling on other coworkers for skipping out early last week and how she has SOO MUCH WORK to do. Sit down already and work on all that work you have then. (This is a every day thing but it's always so much worse after I get a day of silence when she's out of the office.)
Thanks, fire department, for closing the road into our lake community for the carnival. Now all traffic is diverted to my road and it's taking forever to get home.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@slaven I still cover up the back of my keep when I take the dogs because it has fabric back there and getting dog hair off of that is annoying. And our big dog has a tendency to throw up during car rides. I do have a seat protector under DDs booster seat and will have another for LO
Ever since my step kids are allowed to see their mom again the disrespect has gone through the roof. My TW this month is the drug addiction that changed what I'm sure was once a wonderful woman, into a mother who taught her kids to live their lives with hate in their hearts and that they aren't worthy of love or respect.
DH almost made it a freaking week without being the TW. Decided to take a bath and use his old iPad to watch a show, the iPad my DD uses. Curious me opens up Dropbox and finds videos of him having sex, what the actual F. Best part is anyone at his work could see them because it's a freaking public Dropbox. I'm disturbed and pissed and I really don't want to talk to him and I'm sorry but there are just times that I do not want to be pregnant because I don't want to be pregnant with him. I want one happy f'ing pregnancy, just one where it's not heartbreak at the end of a shaming struggle throughout it. Is that too much to ask?
@MaximumEffort I'm confused. Videos of him or videos of the two of you? Cause if they were non consensual videos of you.....thats massive abuse of power and is ringing massive alarm bells. If its of him and someone else.....wow! I am so sorry you are going thru this stress.
@kissthesky32 no with other women, one in his office. Both during his last relationship before me which really wasn't that long ago and they weren't the only ones. When he said it was a "bitter sexless relationship" I didn't realise he was getting his fill by cheating on his gf. How damn naive of me.
@MaximumEffort I'm sorry, that's incredibly inconsiderate and insensitive of him to have kept those and even more so to leave them somewhere accessible to not only you, but to DD and possibly more people.
Re: TW Tuesday 6/20
@jess0212 You've been doing this for 6 weeks? Oh hell no! I'd be telling her that you understand her fear, but that you can no longer be her escort in the elevator. It reaches a point where it's disruptive to your work day, and I'm guessing personal elevator escort is not in your job description...
He knew I was mad and folded all the laundry.
TTC since August 2018
@jess0211.... my 2yr old is also afraid of elevators. She's screams,cries and refuses to get on unless she's carried. Only she's 2...
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