Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
Glitter
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Back Again after my 3rd loss.
Glitter
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I just found out today that Baby has no heartbeat and has stopped growing. This was a hard hit after having two other miscarriages. I had one at 6 weeks cause unknown, one at 8w2d which was found to be partial molar, and now this one. I should of been 7+weeks but baby only measured 6+3 with no heartbeat. I had some light spotting and cramps so I had my hcg and progesterone done last week and hcg was 40k, progesterone 10.4. Then 2 days later hcg was 47,100 so we all had high hopes. I wish we would of taken progesterone though. It's harder and harder each time, i lose more and more hope. I have to have a d&c because the Dr said the sac is very large and he doesnt think i can pass it on my own without complications. This makes it harder since I have had one in April. I was on this board then and it helped so I knew where to go today after everything sank in. I know none of us want to be here but Its great having this group to come to.
Re: Back Again after my 3rd loss.
@pumpkin0913 I know. it helped me a lot with my last and i knew instantly to come here.
CP #1- due April 2017 lost 5.5 weeks
cp #2- due May 2017 lost at 4.5 weeks
iUI #1- BFN
IUI #2-BFN
IVF#1- transfer 2- BFP! Due October 2017 c/p#3 lost at 3.5 weeks
CP #1- due April 2017 lost 5.5 weeks
cp #2- due May 2017 lost at 4.5 weeks
iUI #1- BFN
IUI #2-BFN
IVF#1- transfer 2- BFP! Due October 2017 c/p#3 lost at 3.5 weeks
so so sorry to hear of your losses. I've had two consecutive within 11 months and I understand the pain and devastation. When do you expect results of your testing? Is there a reason the Dr didn't put you on progesterone when your levels came back so low?
You had testing done with the last d&c? If so, did the results reveal anything? Was it just testing on the fetus for chromosomal issues or testing on you for what the causes could be? Is your Dr an OB?
From what I know progesterone can delay ovulation if you take it before you ovulate so you can get tested (blood or scans) right after you think you've ovulated and then take it, or at first positive test. You can ask your Dr about that.
CP #1- due April 2017 lost 5.5 weeks
cp #2- due May 2017 lost at 4.5 weeks
iUI #1- BFN
IUI #2-BFN
IVF#1- transfer 2- BFP! Due October 2017 c/p#3 lost at 3.5 weeks
Me.30 DH.31
BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Together since 2006
Married 01.17.15
I had my d&c yesterday, almost a week after finding out baby had no hb. Its hard cause my body literally just realized it isnt pregnant anymore, it seemed to be holding on to the pregnancy and some of my symptoms just left about an hour after getting home from the d&c. My nipples are so sore, feel like fire and with a few hours after the d&c, my boobs deflated a cup size. The dr said since my hcg was pretty high at over 50k, my hormones would tank and ill be a damn mess. Like umm sir, ive been a damn mess, but seriously, i always struggle the week after because it hits me that I may not have another chance.
My first mc was at about 6 weeks, i miscarried naturally, it was horrible. I had clotting probs, er had to remove the clots for me, it was traumatic. My second which was in april was at 8w2d. I had a us at 6w4d and baby looked great, hb was great, we were so excited. Then i had spotting at 8w2d, so i went in to the us and baby had no hb and she said he must of literally just passed that morning because he looked great, growing right on target. but after the d&c results, we found out he had triploidy, 3 sets of chromosomes instead of one set from me and 1 set from dad, he got 2 from dad, 1 from me. it was partial molar. It seems they grow normal for a lil while then just stop. The news was hard because i not only lost the baby but i now had to undergo blood tests every few days, then once a week, then once every 2 weeks, etc. I wasnt allowed to conceive til hcg reached 0 and stayed there for 6 months. That was hard. I may have gotten pregnant too soon, i worry i harmed myself and baby but the dr wont know til we get the results from the tissue. My Dr, who is my regular ob/gyn has been with me through both pregnancies, and done both d&c. We thought the first two were just bad luck, a coincidence, but now we will look more into my side after babies results come back.
@fiorip Hey girl, i also remember you. wish we didnt connect on this subject but Im glad to see you on the bump. how are you? And yes so many emotions but we will be so much stronger in the end.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Pregnancy #2-Due 8/24/17 MMC-01/09/17
DD-Due 10/24/17
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility