On Monday, May 22, I went to my weekly appointment at 39 weeks and 6 days. My doctor did the routine check to see if I was dilating any and she said I was measuring a fingertip but that I'm still not even at 1cm. So the plan was to move forward with the induction on May 29th which I was happy about. Immediately after my appointment, I told my husband that I felt really different compared to all the other times my cervix was checked. I even said jokingly what if my doctor secretly jumped started labor. Anyways, I continued to feel very weird monday night with some aches in my stomach. Not thinking much more about it, I went to bed. I woke up multiple times throughout the night using the bathroom frequently like I had been doing, but when I got up at around 5:30am to use the bathroom, I felt strong like period cramps and I just thought it was because of the appointment the day before. The period like cramps became more intense and I started to notice a pattern so I opened up my contractions timer. They were about 3-4 minutes apart and they were lasting about 30-40 seconds each time. Plus when I went to the bathroom the next time, I noticed spotting. I remembered someone in our group said her contractions felt like strong period cramps, so I decided to call the nurse at my OBs office to see if I should get checked out. She said go straight to labor and delivery. So as we were getting ready to leave, those period cramps were getting stronger and started to feel some tightening too. So then we started grabbing the hospital bag, diaper bag, and the car seat. We checked in to labor and delivery thinking we were going to be sent home, but to my surprise, the nurse said I was 3cm which was a shock because the day before, my other doctor basically said 0cm. So I was officially admitted to labor and delivery. They checked me again about 30 minutes later and I was at 4cm. The contractions were manageable for the most part, but some were really strong. So I got the epidural right away to be safe. To speed up the story, the rest of labor was very easy. It was so easy because of the epidural, I couldn't believe I was really in labor. The problem was that I stalled at 5cm for a while and then 6cm for a while and the on call doctor was ready to move me to a c-section but every time he was ready to make that call, I would make more progress. So I went from 6cm to 9cm and this is after doing a few techniques with the nurse. Then I stalled at 9 for a while. Then finally I was able to push which was the worst part of the process not because it was painful but so exhausting to do at 2:30am since I was up since 5:30am the previous day when it all started. The other problem was that although Noelle's head was down, her head was tilted a bit and it wasn't coming below the pelvic phone. So again doctor was talking about c-section. So his last resort was to try the vacuum device to guide her head down and it worked right away and then I had to push a few more good times and Noelle came right out at 5:02 am weighing 7lbs 6oz, 20 & 1/2 long but she had to go to NICU for oxygen and to watch her respiratory system. She's doing better now, but they will keep her in NICU for another day or until she is ready.
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I forgot to mention that not only did I have an episotomy, I had a 3rd degree tear as well. The recovery is very painful by the way and I'm still dealing with the pain 6 days later.
I told my husband this is our 1st and last kid because I don't know if I can go through the process again. At first he didn't agree, but after seeing me in pain and after struggling to get sleep, he finally came around and said 1 is fine.
Re: Noelle's Birth Story (update #1)
Married: October 2014
Began TTC: April 2015
BFP #1: 9/18/15. EDD 5/18/16. MC 10/26/15. (9w)
BFP #2: 2/27/16. EDD 11/7/16. MC/D&E 4/20/16 (11w)
BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17
BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19.
11.2011 - DS1
02.2013 - loss at 6 wks
06.2014 - DS2
10.2015 - loss at 12 wks
03.2017 - DD
Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
DS2 5/17
#3 Due 9/20
Sweet Baby H 12.21.11
Sassy Baby P 03.26.14
Little Brother Due 05.22.17