GUSH FEST ALERT!!! I am really loving my husband right now. He's being so supportive and amazing. He's reading (listening to) baby books, he's interested in what's going on. He's staying in with me to watch movies on a Friday night. He's giving me back rubs. He's running me the perfect temperature baths. He's making me every snack I want - even if I insist I can do it myself. I am LOVING him. The most important thing: let them know how much you appreciate it!
My husband is honestly a saint. He's taken on so much since I had HG and have been in and out of the doctor - I don't know what I would do without him. He event vacuumed yesterday - I think I fell in love all over again.
My hubs picked me up early from work yesterday after asking my bosses permission and took me on a surprise weekend getaway. Im currently getting a facial at the Ritz Carlton.
DH recently started a 2nd job and has still been incredibly good about picking up my slack since I haven't been 100% the last few weeks. I don't give him enough credit sometimes.
My SO is really taking good care of me while going through this morning sickness phase. I've been at his place for weeks and he just takes care of me with no complaints. I'll be moving to his place soon. I can't imagine not having him with me right now.
He's still been making me a smoothie every morning. And he's been so great at making food that appeals to me. Cooking almost every night. We have always cooked together or been pretty equitable with cooking but he knows I've been exhausted so he's pretty much taken over. He kills me when he asks what "baby" wants for dinner.
31 years young from Seattle(ish) 5 years married FTM and PGAL EDD is 12/23/17 -- It's a BOY! ---
He rode the carousel with our daughter today when even watching it go around made me sick. He's been cooking, cleaning and generally being Mr. Awesome. I know I'm worried about doing all things right since we've lost 2 in 2 years but I think he's even more worried. He'd much rather I rest while he keeps the world together. I'm pretty lucky.
So I have many genetic diseases (5 if you want to know) that make it extremely (and I mean extremely) difficult for me to lose weight, I stopped eating carbs, only ate fresh homecooked foods, I hate salt, and I moderately exercised. In 6 months of doing that i lost 0 pounds. That's how bad it is. So my endocrinologist after doing my 4th round of bloodwork and discovering another disease realized what was wrong and basically the only way I'm going to lose weight is by getting the roux en y gastric bypass procedure. So my insurance may not cover this, and if we pay out of pocket it is almost $23,000 (I almost cried when I heard this number). Upon telling my husband this and me saying that it's something we'll have to talk about he immediately responded with "there's nothing to talk about, I don't care if we're in debt for years to pay for it, the most important thing is your health and anything we can do to fix some of your issues". I just about started bawling, my husband isn't a super affection gift giving guy, but him saying that without hesitation shows more love than any gift ever could.
My DH is cooking breakfast right now while I am lounging in the bed. Even though I treated him kind of badly last night. (I was angry about something stupid). Also, he has been cleaning, vacuuming, and doing laundry non-stop all week to try and get rid of the cat's fleas. I've helped where I can but he has taken the brunt of the work.
I've been upchucking about 90% of what I've been eating since Thursday afternoon and have been feeling so awful that I've barely been able to move. DH has not only taken care of our son and played with/entertaining him, but also did 3 weeks worth of laundry, cleaned the living room, vacuumed, did the dishes, and took care of feeding our son every meal. I'm so in love and I hate that I can't even show him how much I appreciate him right now
Last night my hubby painted my toenails for me. They were looking terrible, but if I scrunch my midsection much it makes me super nauseous, so I hadn't done them in a while. He did a great job!
Ive been sick all weekend so DH told me to take a nap today ...totally took advantage and took a 3 plus hour nap. Woke up to fresh baked choc chip cookies and they are baking banana bread now, an empty sink and grocery shopping done. Lesson: take more naps Haha
Re: Why My SO is Awesome 5/20
I am really loving my husband right now. He's being so supportive and amazing. He's reading (listening to) baby books, he's interested in what's going on. He's staying in with me to watch movies on a Friday night. He's giving me back rubs. He's running me the perfect temperature baths. He's making me every snack I want - even if I insist I can do it myself. I am LOVING him. The most important thing: let them know how much you appreciate it!
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
My saintly DH is currently driving around town trying to find me a coke slushie that I so desperately need at the moment. I want all the cold drinks.
from Seattle(ish)
5 years married
FTM and PGAL
EDD is 12/23/17
-- It's a BOY! ---
May Siggy Challenge: TV mom
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2