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::::TGIF 5.19.17::::

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It's FRIDAY ladies!!!  What are your plans for the weekend?
Hopefully something super fun.
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TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
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TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
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TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
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Re: ::::TGIF 5.19.17::::

  • Not much tonight but I do hope to get some BD in this evening :)

    I have a wedding I'm playing Saturday night about 45 minutes out of town.  DH and DD are going to come with me and we were planning on eating dinner out there.

    I also have a wedding I'm playing Sunday downtown and DH is shooting the photos.
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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    My mother is coming into town this afternoon, so I'm kind of excited about that. We bought DD a toddler bed last weekend, so she wants to re-decorate DD's room this weekend.  More power to ya ma.  

    DH and I are planning to get some work done in the flower beds tomorrow if the weather will hold out, and then we'll hang out with my brother, SIL and nieces tomorrow night I'm sure. Sunday is Sundae Sunday at our church, so then there's that.  Then of course there's the never-ending laundry and house cleaning.  

    Pretty full weekend, but I like it.  It makes me feel all accomplished by Sunday evening.
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
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    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
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  • Its going to be HOT here this weekend. Taking girls to swim this afternoon/evening - DH is going to a baseball game.
    Tomorrow my older daughter has a practice recital at a local church festival so I'm taking her to that. DH has to go to a law school graduation so girls and I may hit farmer's market in the morning or buy some herbs to plant in our garden.

    Sunday I need to work. have to miss a lot of work next work for daughter's surgery so need to get prepared. Festival at our church on sunday so girls and husband will go to that.
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Not a whole lot of plans for us this weekend which is unusual. I want to clean out patio stones this weekend and possibly re-sand the joints. We just moved in this past fall and I don't think it's been maintained for years. I also want to get some flower beds ready to plant in a few weeks. We also will need to mulch but I'm going to wait until we plant. 

    I dont know if the weather weather will hold out for us so it's a possibility that we might just drink coffee/tea and lounge about reading and doing some inside chores. 
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  • @MooFish2364 - I want to lounge with tea and read! That sounds divine. But being outside and prepping garden is fun too.
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    OH! And I'm dying my hair tonight too.  Gotta get rid of this gray!!!  :s
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

     
    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
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  • my hairstylist just dyed my hair a couple days ago @tlq0726 - greys are gone!
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  • DS and I traveled to MI for my nieces baby shower.  We will be here until Sunday.  Not super excited as ya all know this was an oops so it stresses me out but I'm trying to move forward. 
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    @Mack2342 I hope you're getting a chance to take it easy. 
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

     
    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
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  • SP128SP128 member
    Confession:  I have virgin hair.  I have never dyed it before 

    @Mack2342  Hope it goes by quickly and as easily as possible.  

    @MooFish2364  Sounds so relaxing.  Enjoy.  I don't remember the last time I had an iced coffee.  May need to treat myself.  

    DH has the weekend off which is excellent. We only get about 1 in 6 weekends together since his schedule rotates. We have a massive amount of yard work.  This Monday is the last week of yard waste collection in my town!!!  

    ILs are coming over for dinner on Sunday.  I'm going to do instant pot baby back ribs, corn bread, potato salad and probably another side.  Need to think of a dessert.  Maybe peach cobbler.  Suggestions welcome : )

    Would love to go to dim sum sometime this weekend and hit up the outlets.  I doubt we are going to get to do everything.  

    FW should start soon.  Just got negatives on OPKs though.  


    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • I'm with the majority on here... yardwork/planting/outdoor activities (assuming the weather cooperates).

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

  • @SP128 I've also never dyed my hair.

    Tomorrow is the last tball game followed by a party but all of it takes place right in the middle of ds's nap time so dh might be going alone. Oh well. 

    I have 5 dresses to hem for a coworker, so I'll try to get them done this weekend.

    And of course, a mountain of laundry. I swear, I don't know how 3 people can produce so much dirty laundry!!

    Happy weekend, ladies!
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    @pumpkin0913 I may have to ask you sewing questions!  I just got a sewing machine, that I have no idea what to do with :)  But I'm dying to try it out.
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

     
    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    And HOW have you managed to never dye your hair @SP128 and @pumpkin0913???  I wish I never had when I was younger, but now I definitely have to to cover the gray :(
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

     
    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • yeah I got my first gray hair when I was 25.  I'd say it's gotten worse since my mid 30s and I had to start dying it a year ago.  I only get it done every 6 months because I'm cheap.  I pretty much have black hair.  dang genetics!
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  • I started highlighting my hair when I was in mid 20s.  I'm blonde and it started getting darker so I wanted to brighten it. Still do it but only like 3 times a year
  • @SP128 and @pumpkin0913 Keep it natural!  It's such a pain and expensive habit to dye.

    I have tons of grays buy I dye.  I think I am going pastel teal this next time.  Summer hair, don't care. 
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    @justsuzie I love the pink! Was your hair light to begin with? 
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

     
    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    @tlq0726 @pumpkin0913 I also have a sewing machine I don't know how to use! YouTube videos make it look so easy-to-use - but the struggle is real for me.
  • tlq0726 said:
    @justsuzie I love the pink! Was your hair light to begin with? 
    Dirty Blonde...I have to lighten it in order to get the pastel pink.


  • @justsuzie - I also love your pink and want to see the teal! My daughter is six and she always tells strangers with colorful hair how much she LOVES their hair :) 

    I had a tough evening. Took my girls to the pool and it was pretty crowded tonight. it was good, but really hard because there were families with babies they didn't have last year and pregnant women. I had been in a smooth patch where I didn't have dates on the calendar that I had planned as being "x weeks pregnant" but now I'm hitting of bunch of dates where I did/do and it is impossibly hard. 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • SP128SP128 member
    @justsuzie love your pink. Teal will be fabulous summer haie. 

    @tlq0726 here are some reasons I never dyed my hair. When I was a teenager I would've be loved highlights. However I knew enough to ask my mother because the answer was always "no". When I was in college and grad school I was POOR. Now I don't dye because I don't want to maintain it. Not as poor but CHEAP and lazy. I know I'll dye when the greys come out. Now I'm fortunate enough that it is just a strand or two. 

    @ladipale so many hugs to you. It's so hard when there are reminders everywhere. It feels to me that everybody's life moves on and I'm stuck 


    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @ladipale Sorry for the rough evening last night.  I totally get what you mean.  So sorry.  A women I work with is coming back from maternity leave next week and I am dreading it.  I have tried not thinking how pregnant I would be but it's hard, especially on Wednesdays when I had a weekly sonogram.  Ugh.  Hugs.
  • Thanks @justsuzie Mondays were hard for me for a while - that was day I had my appointments so I totally understand! 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • @tlq0726 I'm super new to sewing, MH's great aunt left me her sewing machine and cabinet when she passed. The matching is from like the 80's, I'd love to get a nice new one, but I like the idea of using the one she sewed on. I agree with @Chawk17 about YouTube. Also pinterest has a lot of tutorials with great advice. 
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    @SP128 I wish my mother had told me no all those years ago  :/  Although I"d still be hiding the gray at this point I'm sure.

    I feel your pain @ladipale & @justsuzie.  It seems everywhere you go there are pregnant women or women with newborns just rubbing it in your face.

    @Chawk17 & @pumpkin0913 I'm really looking forward to this summer when I'll have time to practice.  I'm keeping DD in day care part time so she can keep a routine, so hopefully I'll get some practice time in while she's out of the house.
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

     
    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @justsuzie - that crazy quilt is AMAZING!
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    I am so jealous right now @justsuzie!!!
    Anniversary

    TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

     
    TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
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  • I love sloths!!
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  • Omg @justsuzie I love them! I've only done some smaller projects like oven mitts, rice heating packs, shorts for ds, but I'd love to get into quilting
  • SP128SP128 member
    You ladies are so crafty.  I can't even iron correctly.....

    Love the quilt @justsuzie
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128 you totally made me lol.  

    Thanks ladies.  I try to be crafty but after teaching art all day to monste---I mean children it's hard to find motivation.  
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