I've just come up with these questions so feel free to add any more you may have with our check ins
What are your current goals? How have you been working on reaching your goals?
What have you been eating, and drinking? Share your recipes!
Do you have anything else you want to share with us?
Do you have any comments or suggestions to add to the thread?
Re: Health and Fitness (5/12)
I'm in maintenance mode on the weight side of things. I don't get on the scale as much as I use to. My goals now are probably more yoga pose related. I'm always trying to push a pose to the next level of difficulty. Right now I'm working on loosing up my hamstrings for left and right splits. I need to work on my handstand more too. I've avoided it for long enough. I also want to make sure I get in at the studio at least 3 times a week. I'm going to push myself to the harder classes instead of the easier ones.
I tend to drink and eat pretty healthy but I have that dang sweet tooth! This week I have not been very creative with dinners so I need to get back on it.
I have a complicated relationship with my body these days... I had been at a steady weight for about 10 years but with the 2 pregnancies in 10 months, I gained a bit of weight and I just can't shed it... I'm still wearing the same clothes though. I wouldn't be that worried about my weight if my doctors weren't so worried but I feel like all they see is my BMI and it being on the tip of 'overweight'. But here's the thing - I eat so healthy. like 80% paleo/whole 30 compliant and I workout a ton - I've taught 5 barre classes in the last 48 hours - which is a workout... so I'm kind of at a loss. I also love being active - hiking, mountain biking, etc and when I limit calories - I literally cannot do those things.
What are your current goals? How have you been working on reaching your goals? Lose the 10 lbs I gained during the pregnancies. I'm eating well, sometimes tracking my calories on LoseIt! app and doing lots of barre and some Orange Theory classes
What have you been eating, and drinking? Share your recipes! A typical day for me looks like this:
bfast - eggs and avocado
snack - almond butter and banana
lunch - dinner leftovers or big salad with a protein (tuna or chicken)
snack - nuts
dinner - a Sunbasket meal
(occasional wine or beer after dinner - about 2/week)
Do you have anything else you want to share with us?
The most frustrating thing for me right now is that my husband has lost a bunch of weight - all diet related, he hasn't worked out one time.... sure, he had more weight to lose but UGH!
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
What is orange theory?
Orange Theory is a HIIT workout with treadmills, rowing machines and weights. I really like it! I'm just having a tough time balancing it with my new barre instructing schedule. I should be able to go more in the summer --- 5 more week!
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
What are your current goals? How have you been working on reaching your goals?
Lose 25 lbs. I gained 70 lbs when I was pregnant with my DS 2 years ago. I've lost about 50 of that and want to lose the rest. I've been doing weight watchers which I have done for the past 15 years. I lost all my weight within 6 months of starting weight watchers and maintained until I got pregnant
I also teach jazzercise for exercise. I used to run but have leg issues and can't anymore
What have you been eating, and drinking? Share your recipes!
no recipes just try to eat healthy and keep track of calories
Over the past few years, I have varied in weight over and over by ~10lbs. I'd like to drop the 10 and then maybe another 5-10. Honestly it's more about getting back into better shape and feeling better because of it. My stress eating since August hasn't been great, so I turned over a new leaf with this cycle and started back on exercise routine of working out every day before work (4 days per week, usually stationary bike or lifting) and then swimming on at least one of my days off and going on a hike with DH on one of our days off together. It's been so nice! I want to get back to doing more yoga too as it's so good for the body and the brain. I'm already feeling better and I've dropped ~3lbs in the past 2-3 weeks. I'm also eating way healthier!
What have you been eating, and drinking? Share your recipes!
Breakfast: I make protein smoothies in the AM. I blend oranges with kale, chia seeds and flaxseed meal and pour the mix into cupcake trays to make "smoothie blocks" then in the AM, I throw one of those in a blender with almond milk, vanilla protein powder and some frozen fruit (berries & pineapple) and then drink that on my drive to work and in the early part of the day after my AM workout.
Lunches I've been eating homemade wraps with lavash bread, mixed greens and other veggies with some meat protein (chicken or turkey). I work 10 hour days (or more) so I also have been having a protein bar at work to help boost my energy since my job is pretty active.
Dinner can be anything from flax cereal with almond milk and dried fruit to salad, soup or chicken.
That's at least what life is like during the work week. Weekends are different, but still focused on healthy. I've discovered that I love eating lavash bread slightly toasted with almond butter and fig butter (TJs is amazing!).
I'm also almost 2 weeks and 4 days without chocolate. Crazy!
Do you have anything else you want to share with us?
I'm worried I may have restricted calories too much this cycle and my lining may have paid the price. I hope that is the case and maybe next cycle I will eat more and have a better lining. I am going to desperately hold onto that hope until I'm proven wrong. Time will tell...
Do you have any comments or suggestions to add to the thread?
Thank you @vlagrl29 for getting this started!
TTC#1 - 6.3.16
BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
Misoprostol 4x
D&C - 9.12.16
Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
TTC#1 - 6.3.16
BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
Misoprostol 4x
D&C - 9.12.16
Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
@weareturtles - you inspire me about how long you've gone without chocolate. I caved 2 nights ago with come cookies.
I am also a yogi. I hate to sound too cliche but it really did change my life. I used to do various types of vinyasa classes at work and would go like 3-4 times a week. But they fired the yoga instructor to save money (I work at a college). I would love to do more professional classes but we are saving money for fertility treatments so I've been just doing it at home. I live in a rural area and while there are nice places in town, they are pretty expensive.
Im not really eating anything too special. We just eat as clean as possible. No frozen or canned stuff, and as many veggies as possible. I also try to eat health fats like avocado so I can keep my weight up in a healthy way, as my cholesterol is slightly on the higher end (more proof that being skinny doesn't mean you're healthy).
@MooFish2364 - I totally agree that yoga is life changing. I really don't know what I would do without it.
What are your current goals? How have you been working on reaching your goals? I’m trying to lose 20 pounds by sometime in August so that my RE will agree to do the progesterone biopsy before I go on my vacation. I’m down 5 pounds.
I have been skating twice a week lately, and need to stick with that. Plus need to do more treadmill, P90 weights, and pilates.
What have you been eating, and drinking? Share your recipes! Well, since DH’s ‘friend’ has caused me so much drama I’ve been off the band wagon the past week, but after this weekend I’ll be getting back into eating smaller portions and less junk. Plus more exercise.
The yo-yoing with weight has really gotten me down. I’ll do really well, eat healthy and exercise and drop 10-15 lbs. Then I get pregnant and bloated, I’m exhausted so I don’t exercise as much even though I’m eating well (and doctor says I shouldn’t skate while pregnant since it’s a fall risk *sigh*), and then I miscarry and I’m depressed and I gain weight. It’s a cycle of epic suck. Plus I think my stomach will never go back to the way it was before pregnancies.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
I am 170 lbs and 5'7" - so yeah, I feel you on the weight! I'm not even that curvy - super athletic
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
Ooh yay I love this thread! Thanks @vlagrl29
What are your current goals? How have you been working on reaching your goals? Over the last few months I have been focused on making healthier choices to make sure my nutrition is helping and not hurting a potential pregnancy. It has sucked because I have given up on working out, I gained weight with every time I have been pregnant and then miscarried and been left with the weight after (not to mention the ice cream while miscarrying). Since I am now benched, I've been dropping the calories down, while still making the best choices in an effort to lose some weight before a next potential pregnancy.
What have you been eating, and drinking? Share your recipes!
A usual menu for me is:
Breakfast - Coffee with milk, 2 hard boiled eggs, apple with melted peanut butter. Sometimes a ham egg and cheese, or drippy egg w/ whole wheat toast.
Lunch - Lentils with red pepper, cucumber, tomato, green beans with balsamic dressing and feta cheese (I love this because I hate salads, but this feels more like a pasta salad with the lentils!) If you haven't tried lentils, do it and don't knock them - they have a good amount of protein (11g), dietary fiber, and a ton of folate which is great for pregnancy! Or a tuna sandwich with veggies or leftovers haha.
Snacks - Nuts with dark chocolate nibs (have to have the chocolate), Stove popped popcorn, all kinds of fruit
Dinner - Usually some form of chicken with vegetables, sweet potato, brown rice. (homemade chicken meatballs, ground turkey tacos, grilled chicken breast, chicken sausages, cheeseburgers are usually repeats on our menu)
Do you have anything else you want to share with us?
I recently quit soda after being a long term addict. It was so hard but I'm so proud of myself.
@ladipale We eat pretty similarly! What is a sunbasket meal? They just put in an orange theory near us so many I need to try it!
@weareturtles The smoothie block sounds genius! I love swimming too – wish memberships weren’t so expensive. Do you have any information on how restricting calories can ruin the lining? I haven’t heard of this before, then again, I haven’t heard of a lot.
@moofish2364: You’re doing it right! I think just making healthier choices overall is the best “diet” and works the best.
@dpjennifer: If you’re willing to share, why won’t they do the progesterone biopsy if you’re not a certain weight? Congrats on 5 lbs down! I completely understand what you are going through with the up and down of being pregnant, gaining weight and then not being pregnant, with extra weight
When I had my miscarriage, my goal afterwards to get me back mentally was to run a mini marathon. I have been running 5 days a week and progressively started running more the past month putting in over 30 miles a week. I did a 12 mile run earlier this week. I look at me running this race as something I can do to honor said baby.
Weight wise, I would love to even get back to this pre pregnancy weight because going back on the pill has wreaked havoc on my body. My periods have been irregular on it so it's more like every 8 weeks.
I don't follow a diet and have a sweet tooth which may be part of my problem.
@msstephanielynn good for you on quitting soda. That's a big vice for me. Any tips?
@40momma bmi isn't that accurate. Personally, if I stop exercising I drop a few pounds but that definitely doesn't mean I am healthier than what I was at a higher weight.
Thanks @rklinge0 I know in my head the whole BMI thing isn't accurate and I should really step off google sometimes but it still makes you feel crappy. It's funny cause if someone were to guess my weight, they would usually guess about 140-145, when I tell them I'm 155 they never believe me. I guess I hide it well
@vlagrl29 I used to run both street and trail. The street running is really hard on your body but trails tend to take a bit of the impact off the bones. Weird that your pubic bone hurt, I wonder if it had anything to do with your form/posture
TTC#1 - 6.3.16
BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
Misoprostol 4x
D&C - 9.12.16
Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
msstephanielynn Congrats on kicking the soda habit! That’s a big one.
As for the progesterone biopsy… apparently according to the 2nd REI I’ve seen, my chance of MC is about 35% right now. Apparently my chance of MC with IVF right now is 30%. If I lose 20 lbs. they think my chance of MC will be 30% as well. (Not that I believe any of this, and doctor’s with their happy BS about how low my MC rates are… hard pill to swallow after 4 MCs and a healthy pregnancy seems impossible). But anywho, after every test we’ve done I think medical science has given up on us and doctor’s no longer know what to say besides lose weight, because it’s about the only thing left that we can control. The reason for losing 20 lbs (besides the above) with progesterone is 2-fold from what I can understand. Basically they hope that if I lose the 20 lbs, my 35-37 day cycles will return to a ‘regular’ 28 day cycle. Which is never going to happen because when I was 55 lbs. lighter than my heaviest, when I first got AF, I didn’t have a ‘regular’ cycle. But also because I guess progesterone levels can vary based upon your weight? So I guess if I’m eating healthier and exercising more and lost weight I could show different progesterone levels than what they currently are? That’s the best that I understand it. Since doing the biopsy should get a good overall picture, instead of just seeing what it is for that exact part of that exact cycle. So, instead of getting the biopsy right away, then losing weight and my body and progesterone and cycle possibly all changing and needing to do it again… they wanted me to lose 20 lbs. first. If ANY of that makes sense?
vlagrl29 and 40momma That’s why I don’t run, and I roller skate instead! It’s supposed to be better for your knees and body… of course, that’s when I don’t do something stupid and fall on my knee/tailbone/etc.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@rklinge0 - Your running sounds awesome! It's definitely what I would like to get back to. As for the soda, first step was getting it out of the house. My husband also quit with me so that helped. I just couldn't help myself if it was constantly there. The next step was to find a replacement - it was flavored seltzer for me. The first few weeks were the hardest. I thought about it every day and had headaches, but after a few weeks a few days would go by without thinking about it, days turned into weeks. I still haven't gone months without it, but knowing that I'm able to live without it for a while makes it that much easier to say no. PS - It's been great on my budget since a 12 pack store brand seltzer water goes on sale 4/8$! Good luck!
@dpjennifer - Ugh it sounds like they are really putting you through the ringer here. It would be interesting to see if something similar comes back for me when I meet with the RE. My cycles are also long (I get a positive OPK around 20/21 days) and I am also overweight. I suspect progesterone has something to do with it. I'll definitely loop back with you!
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@dpjennifer I'm no doctor (I mean, I wish, I could have a pretty fancy house) but why haven't they just tried either pushing timed ovulation with clomid/biosimilar and following with supplemental progesterone? Or even progesterone alone after confirmed ovulation? Just curious because I would think that would be worth a shot?
DD2 8.22.13
MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
Expecting #3, EDD 1.29.18
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1