I am 8 weeks pregnant tomorrow after struggling with secondary infertility for 19 months. I got pregnant unmonitored my second cycle of clomid. Over the last year I have been infertility buddies with a good friend who has struggled a lot for 4 years to get pregnant.
I know as much as anyone how challenging it can be when people get pregnant and so many people we know are. I know she is happy for me but I do understand she may be resentful that treatment has worked well for us and she is still struggling especially when we already have one child.
I am not sure if I talk about this pregnancy or not. I plan to ask her and just say "do you want to hear about this stuff or is it better if not because I am fine and get it either way." I guess just looking for any advice to help her and continue to support her with her infertility struggles and be sensitive to how that feels.