December 2017 Moms

WTF Wednesday 5/10



WTF or who TF has your panties in a twist today?

Me: 29  DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016

Re: WTF Wednesday 5/10

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  • tmk0325tmk0325 member
    @holzie-2  wtf?? That's just plain rude!  I told my girlfriends I was pregnant this last weekend because we were going to a wine tasting bridal shower and all I got were crickets.  Silence and mouths hanging wide open.  I was like, "the appropriate response is congratulations."  We are telling our parents this weekend, I'm really curious to hear what they say considering SO's mom's first comment last time was "well are you going to get married?"  I'm anticipating hearing that one again too. 
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @tmk0325 lol I heard the marriage one a lot when we got pregnant with DS.  It didn't end until we actually got married this past January (and we basically got married then so that I can be on DH's ins which had infertility coverage...we would have eventually but that expedited it a bit)  people should learn that it's 2017 and families come in all shapes and sizes. 
    DH: 34 | Me: 35
    DS1 9/24/13
    DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
    MFI (SA #1
    Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
    MFI (SA #2Count 7 mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
    AMH .328 
    | FSH 13.2 
    Oct. 2016: Clomid + TI
    IVF: ER 3/1/17; 5 retrieved, 3 mature & fertilized
    Results: 2 PGS normal embryos
    Planned on August 2017 transfer
    **TW**
    Natural BFP 4/3/17,Expecting baby boy via RCS 12/7/17

  • WTF labs. 14 vials today! I almost passed out.
  • NME44NME44 member
    @holzie-2, @breezybee, @tmk0325, ummmm...y'all need some new bosses/"friends." Like, seriously???
  • @acgonzalez22 UH. I have my first appointment Friday and I remember alll the vials with the first set of labs. Not looking forward to it!!! 
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Trust me @NME44 I I'm counting the days until I can peace out of that job and NEVER LOOK BACK! (Except to visit the girls, of course, cause I love them)
  • rachswirachswi member
    WTF to the passive aggressive friend on facebook giving me crap for saying I've often "endured" sex with my husband to help him feel better even when I'm totally not in the mood. Sex makes him feel better and when he's in a better mood, everyone benefits. (She posted about how this was not loving. False. Having sex because I know it will make him feel loved and feel better is the very definition of loving).
  • @acgonzalez22 I had my labs today too. Holy blood loss Batman. 

    @breezybee @holzie-2 @tmk0325 Boo to lame friends and bosses. 

    My WTF is to one of my coworkers who loves to throw me under the bus for anything that doesn't go according to plan. He loves to defer all responsibility for anything that doesn't go the "right" way, yet miraculously takes all the credit for things that do go well. Ugghhh. 




  • peachy13peachy13 member
    edited May 2017
    @holzie-2 @tmk0325 ugh how rude! I don't think I've ever responded to someone's pregnancy news without saying "omg congrats!" first.

    We ended up telling DH's two siblings and their spouses because we knew they knew -- and their response was "yeah we know." No congrats or hugs or anything. Both couples had babies fairly recently and were acting like wise old pros, giving us unwanted advice on how to handle pregnancy and whatnot. Enormous eye roll. I feel bad for DH because his siblings always seem to get the good attention first and then his news is thrown by the wayside, such as our engagement, wedding, and baby news. It only happens like a year or two behind everyone, but no one seems to care very much. It's old news to them. I'm the oldest in my family so I'm used to a little more attention for being the first to do stuff, but I could never imagine reacting to my younger siblings' major life news in such a casual/dickhead manner. 

    eta words
    Me: 33 DH: 34
    Married: Oct 2015
    TTC #1: Sept 2016
    BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
    BFP: 3/24/17   <3  DD1 born 12/2/17
    TTC #2: July 2018
    BFP: 8/26/18 <3  DD2 born 5/16/19



  • I am way too lazy to tag everyone, but holy crap, I want to punch all of your WTFs in the face!

    Except: @breezybee, I hope this boss isn't the one married to an RE who I know does something in the women's health field (can't remember what exactly). Because geez, bedside manner much?!
    Me: 29 || DH: 29
    TTC #1 4/2016 || dx NIR PCOS 7/2016 || BFP 4/2017
    DD - 12/28/17 <3

    TTC #2 3/2019
    BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
    BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
  • NME44NME44 member
    @peachy13, I kind of know how that feels. This is my 4th pregnancy and 4 for 4 one of my SILs was also pregnant at the same time. This time one is "accidentally" pregnant (but she wasn't using anything to prevent.) I'm just over it. Doesn't make my kids any less loved or less special.  :)
  • No no no no @MJDsquared. This is my OTHER family that I work with 2 days a week. She's old money and doesn't work and just loves to hang out in the kitchen while I make lunches and cook dinner and give her opinion about everything.  I just stay at this job because is easy money and I make my own hours, but god I hate it sometimes. 
  • I'm a day late, but WTF to my mother in law. Apparently she told my brother in law that Rosie (the first grandchild in their family) will always be the favorite because she is the first. Uh, what?!
    Me 29 I Him 26
    Married 4/22/16
    TTC 9/2015
    **TW**
    BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w)
    TTCAL 6/15/16
    BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017
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