I must have slept on my neck funny on Saturday night. All day yesterday I had a stiff neck/shoulder. I put heat and numbing cream and all kinds of stuff, but nothing worked. This morning it hurts just as bad. Wahhhh
I still have whatever mancold DH shared with me. I have to save all my sick time for maternity leave, and although the sneezing, coughing, congestion sucks, it's manageable since I don't have a fever or anything. But after working Saturday, I didn't have enough time to recover at all for Monday morning. Hoping my Tylenol Cold PM and a nice, long sleep will help.
My BF today is twofold. First, I bought a nursing bra yesterday because my boobs are popping out of mine already, and it fit HORRIBLY. Like no woman in their right mind would put their boobs in this thing. It was awful. I'm extremely disappointed. Second. Total randos popping in to AW who then get butt hurt when informed about how the community works. For real? I'm so tired of people boo-hooing about how rude we are, (read: me) when I literally am just telling them how it works. How do these people even function in the real world? Are they constantly surprised every day when glitter doesn't shoot out of everyone's asses????
Lack of air conditioning in my house. Fortunately, I'm at work, but my house got up to about 85 inside yesterday with all of the windows open and a breeze going through. I do have a window unit in the bedroom at least.
DH developed a fever and chills last night. I am trying to avoid it at all costs so I slept on the small couch in the living room because that is the one DH wasn't sitting on. It is about 4' in length from inside arm to inside arm...I am 6'1". I woke up in so much pain so many times. I should have just slept on the floor.
The women's bathroom at work is out of order. For the fourth time in 2 months. It's more of an issue now because of how many times I have to pee. I really, really don't want to use the men's. I don't mind using random men's bathrooms, but for some reason knowing the men who use it is grossing me out.
@iheartichi Gross! Public restrooms gross me out, and I always imagine men's bathrooms to be even worse than women's. And how does that exactly work...Is it a single stall bathroom? If not, how do you keep other men from coming in?
I slept really badly last night. Allergies, body position, rib hurting when I cough, and TWO separate early AM instances of my cat biting my toes because he was hungry.
My BF today is twofold. First, I bought a nursing bra yesterday because my boobs are popping out of mine already, and it fit HORRIBLY. Like no woman in their right mind would put their boobs in this thing. It was awful. I'm extremely disappointed. Second. Total randos popping in to AW who then get butt hurt when informed about how the community works. For real? I'm so tired of people boo-hooing about how rude we are, (read: me) when I literally am just telling them how it works. How do these people even function in the real world? Are they constantly surprised every day when glitter doesn't shoot out of everyone's asses????
Yes. I read that thread and couldn't stop sighing and rolling my eyes. Like seriously people. Read more than one thread and you will instantly find out how we work here. It isn't hard, its common sense, and we don't have time/energy to blow smoke up your ass.
@dogdisnylovr ugh it's gross. There's 2 stalls in there with a main door that locks. The problem is that all the men have to walk right by me to get to the bathroom, so I can tell who was in there and for how long, and then my mind just grosses me out! The plumber we keep hiring told me last time that the women need to stop flushing little white mice down the toilet! Now when he comes in I just want to hit him. Here's a picture of our new bathroom:
@iheartichi Right, because leaving tampons in the trash can is going to smell amazing. That's not a good solution.
My bitch is the damn low pressure system we having coming through all week that is giving me headaches and drainage. I've woken up the last three mornings with a sore throat, and it does not please me. Also, every time I sneeze the baby kicks me. At first it was funny, but now it's becoming rather painful. Who knew someone who weights just over a pound could pack such a punch when displeased?
My own BF is people not showing up to their scheduled appointments at my work and then leaving nasty messages when I shut their cases down. I go out of my way to fit people in what works for them. It's pretty simple to show up or at least call!
Ticked off with the process of making an appointment with a specialist I need to see. They were trying to say that I couldn't see who I wanted to and that the Maternal fetal medicine doctor (who is not my doctor) had to recommend one. I'm in healthcare, this isn't how it works when you have a PPO insurance plan. I got my appointment with the specialist I wanted but dang. I feel bad for people who just roll with that.
My BF is Zika. I took my girls to the park yesterday and got bitten a few times by mosquitoes. I totally forgot to put on the bug repellent. Now I have convinced myself that I am the first case of Zika transmission in Hawaii. It's gotta start somewhere right?
Has anyone else had enough of going to work? I'm over it and ready for maternity leave already! I build websites for a living, and I honestly don't give a crap about anyone's website problems right now. I don't have much patience, I don't have a lot of cares to give, I don't want to small talk with coworkers, and I just don't want to sit at a desk all day. #firstworldproblems
Can it just be warmer weather please!? It's in the 50/60's all week and I am just over it. I am ready to open the pool and go to the beach. Nothing would please me more.
Has anyone else had enough of going to work? I'm over it and ready for maternity leave already! I build websites for a living, and I honestly don't give a crap about anyone's website problems right now. I don't have much patience, I don't have a lot of cares to give, I don't want to small talk with coworkers, and I just don't want to sit at a desk all day. #firstworldproblems
@stephy_p Just wait until we're well into third tri,haha. If your motivation is gone now, you're going to enjoy the last month! I hear you, though, my motivation disappeared the moment I felt like throwing up 24/7.
My own BF is people not showing up to their scheduled appointments at my work and then leaving nasty messages when I shut their cases down. I go out of my way to fit people in what works for them. It's pretty simple to show up or at least call!
I showed your post to DH and we both literal LOL'ed. In fairness to my cat, his bowls were pretty empty. But they can be such drama queens.
My BF is definitely the weather here. At one point in April we got to 70 and sunny and now for the last week it's been cold, rainy, and depressing. It's so hard to get out of bed in the morning after no sleep when it's crappy outside.
Don't bring your older kid to play at the little kids' train table if they're going to be a jerk and rip trains out of the 2 year olds' hands.
I take DD to MyGym a lot and there is this one a-hole 4 year old boy who is SO NASTY to her. It drives me nuts because you can see that his parents know he is a jerk and just take him there so he can run around while they sit in the corner on their cell phones.
I am constantly having to keep him from being a total jerk to my 13 month old and his parents could not care any less.
Can it just be warmer weather please!? It's in the 50/60's all week and I am just over it. I am ready to open the pool and go to the beach. Nothing would please me more.
Can we trade weather? We actually have beautiful weather here right now. 70s and 80s, but it is warmer than I would like with a broken A/C. Plus, it's supposed to hit 90 on Friday. Hoping everything is fixed by then.
My BF is kinda a repeat from a previous week. Between having to pee several times a night and just not being able to get comfortable because I'm so sore at night, I often cannot sleep very well.
But almost every morning, SO wakes up moaning about how bad he hurts and asking for backrubs. I hobbled to the bathroom in pain this morning and he has the nerve to ask me for a backrub and I ignored him. He asked why I was upset and I told him that it's the end of the world whenever he is in pain but whenever I have pain he does not seem to give a rats arse and still expects me to cater to him.
He claims that he would give me a backrub if I asked him too. Except I don't really want a backrub. I just want to be left alone, lol.
Because of him my DD will theatrically plop face down on my bed and hand me her baby lotion so that I can rub her back.
@cmar1006 totally with you on the weather! Cloudy and mid 50s here all week and when I left for work this morning it was in the 40s and I wished I had gloves when I was waiting for the train.
@msashley2010-2 It sounds like you are too good at giving back rubs! If I were you, I'd get a little worse everyday at giving back rubs until DH just stopped asking for them! Haha!! Seriously though, I don't know how you deal with him being whiney about his pain when you are more than likely hurting way worse than he is!
After today at work I have another BF and that is my new co-worker. We recently hired him in an accounting type position from our IT department because he recently graduated with a Masters in Business. He is so slow....and requires that I create detailed, step by step instructions for every single thing that I do. Today something that should have taken be an hour too 3 hours because he required instructions. And it's not high level instructions, it's instructions that my 11 year old step-daughter could follow. I know he is freaking out because I will be on maternity leave, but he really just needs to suck it up and step-up and learn the stuff. I didn't learn the job by reading instructions for everything, I just figured the shit out.
Don't bring your older kid to play at the little kids' train table if they're going to be a jerk and rip trains out of the 2 year olds' hands.
I take DD to MyGym a lot and there is this one a-hole 4 year old boy who is SO NASTY to her. It drives me nuts because you can see that his parents know he is a jerk and just take him there so he can run around while they sit in the corner on their cell phones.
I am constantly having to keep him from being a total jerk to my 13 month old and his parents could not care any less
I'm stuck in the box I wish this had been 4 year olds. These were at least 7 year olds!
Don't bring your older kid to play at the little kids' train table if they're going to be a jerk and rip trains out of the 2 year olds' hands.
YES I saw some little jerks throwing rocks at other kids at the park today. Also.... I just got back from my 4 year old niece's gymnastics class... Don't bring your kids to their activities (especially ones where they have to run around and do strenuous exercise) if they CANT STOP COUGHING. It's bad for the other kids, and that poor girl was miserable.
I know this is a day late but Tuesdays are my Mondays. Umm other drivers! I swear everyone has forgotten how to freaking drive!! You decided to cut me off at 50mph without even using your blinker and when I honk at you, you wave as if I was letting you merge?!? Oh you don't know whether you wanna do 20 over or 10 under and just change lanes without blinker and not wear your seat belt? These are just a few separate instances I've dealt with this morning.
i'm having a really rough day. woke up in a huge funk...pretty depressed...i posted about it and a friend replied "LOL it's all worth it thought right??" ummm what? also...i went to the dentist because everyone said to keep your dental health up during pregnancy...well even with good insurance, i have to spend $300 on scaling and planing, and 2 cavities. this means no more baby moon to monterey bay (about 6-8 hours away by car) which we were hoping to do on 6/4 (my birthday) husband said we can probably still do it if we push til after 6/9. but it is literally my last week in the 2nd trimester and 6/16 is the beginning of my 3rd. has anyone ever road tripped early in their 3rd?
We have a 5-6 hour drive planned for July, I'll be about 30 weeks. Run it by your doctor to make sure they think it's ok for you. Mine told me to just factor in a stop every hour or so to get out of the car and stretch my legs. I pee that often anyway.
Here's a PSA for all you ladies since I learned the hard way: do not eat beets during pregnancy. I nearly had a heart attack when I looked down at a toilet bowel of completely red urine. I thought I was hemorrhaging or something until I remembered the entire bag of dehydrated beet chips I had from Trader Joe's today. Don't eat them- not worth the scare.
Re: Bitchfest 5/8
My coworker quit on Thursday so I'm here from 6:45am until 5pm.
I'm overly uncomfortable today.
MONDAYS SUCK.
Me & DH: 31 | Married: 5.4.13 | TTC: April 2016 | BFP: 1.8.17 | EDD: 9.13.17
Eta- mobile bumping typo
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
Second. Total randos popping in to AW who then get butt hurt when informed about how the community works. For real? I'm so tired of people boo-hooing about how rude we are, (read: me) when I literally am just telling them how it works. How do these people even function in the real world? Are they constantly surprised every day when glitter doesn't shoot out of everyone's asses????
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Me 34 DH 34
PCOS
Baby number 2 due 4/11/20
ETA words
Me: 34 | DH: 31
Married: Nov. 7, 2015
TTC Since: February, 2016
BFP: December 20, 2016
My bitch is the damn low pressure system we having coming through all week that is giving me headaches and drainage. I've woken up the last three mornings with a sore throat, and it does not please me. Also, every time I sneeze the baby kicks me. At first it was funny, but now it's becoming rather painful. Who knew someone who weights just over a pound could pack such a punch when displeased?
I'm very glad I'm not scheduled to work today because I feel 95% dead
My own BF is people not showing up to their scheduled appointments at my work and then leaving nasty messages when I shut their cases down. I go out of my way to fit people in what works for them. It's pretty simple to show up or at least call!
Me: 34 | DH: 31
Married: Nov. 7, 2015
TTC Since: February, 2016
BFP: December 20, 2016
I'm tired of pretending I care and of being nice.
@stephy_p Just wait until we're well into third tri,haha. If your motivation is gone now, you're going to enjoy the last month! I hear you, though, my motivation disappeared the moment I felt like throwing up 24/7.
DS2: EDD- 09.08.17
I am constantly having to keep him from being a total jerk to my 13 month old and his parents could not care any less.
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Me 34 DH 34
PCOS
Baby number 2 due 4/11/20
But almost every morning, SO wakes up moaning about how bad he hurts and asking for backrubs. I hobbled to the bathroom in pain this morning and he has the nerve to ask me for a backrub and I ignored him. He asked why I was upset and I told him that it's the end of the world whenever he is in pain but whenever I have pain he does not seem to give a rats arse and still expects me to cater to him.
He claims that he would give me a backrub if I asked him too. Except I don't really want a backrub. I just want to be left alone, lol.
Because of him my DD will theatrically plop face down on my bed and hand me her baby lotion so that I can rub her back.
Me: 34 | DH: 31
Married: Nov. 7, 2015
TTC Since: February, 2016
BFP: December 20, 2016
also...i went to the dentist because everyone said to keep your dental health up during pregnancy...well even with good insurance, i have to spend $300 on scaling and planing, and 2 cavities. this means no more baby moon to monterey bay (about 6-8 hours away by car) which we were hoping to do on 6/4 (my birthday)
husband said we can probably still do it if we push til after 6/9. but it is literally my last week in the 2nd trimester and 6/16 is the beginning of my 3rd. has anyone ever road tripped early in their 3rd?
We have a 5-6 hour drive planned for July, I'll be about 30 weeks. Run it by your doctor to make sure they think it's ok for you. Mine told me to just factor in a stop every hour or so to get out of the car and stretch my legs. I pee that often anyway.