Ladies,
I had an ectopic pregnancy last September that was treated with methotrexate at about 7 weeks. Next Monday I'm finally going in the the HSG test to see if my tubes are blocked. I'm freaking out a bit - if it is blocked, my OB said I'd have to see a fertility specialist about options, but that most people go for IVF instead of surgery. I'm not sure I'm up for either option, and while I know I shouldn't be worrying about it until the test is done, bc it could be OK...I can't help it! I dont know much about IVF but it seems like a stressful journey, and I dont know where to begin any research. I should add I already have the most wonderful 2 year old daughter, we've truly been blessed with her, my pregnancy was easy (besides gd) and she is the perfect kid! I guess Im just afraid of ruining our happy family of 3 by something going wrong either IVF or surgery. Guess I'm just looking for any advice or validation of my feelings. My husband is the type not to worry about anything until we know for sure...and I'm the complete opposite, freaking out over every possible outcome!
Re: HSG Test Next Week after ectopic
I had an ectopic 2 years back, got hsg done, it was a bilateral block. That been said- there are a lot of false positives and false negatives in this test. Sometimes, the tubes go into spasm just because of the dye, doctor says its blocked and they are actually open. And there have been a lot of stories when women were able to conceive naturally after the test, it's believed that the test kind of clears the tubes in case of minor problems.
i did a laparoscopy after, they said they cleared the tubes and it was a go!!! 8 months no luck, we went for iui, no luck again. I am now waiting for my first fet.
thats my story, just relax and go for the test, and take it from there, worrying right now is not going to help.
How old are you? Your SO?? His SA?
DH and I have no kids and we WERE told we had to go straight to ivf/icsi. :/ It felt <i>impossibly devastating</i> at the time. That was September/October 2016. And now that we are perhaps getting closer to it, I just want to get on with it already! No word of a lie, now the whole prospect seems like nbd. More like a huge pita, and a boatload of cash! Lol :s
GL to you next Monday and fx for the all clear! :D
*typos
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
**trigger warning** I am also lucky to have a 6 year old that was no problem conceiving so we know I can get pregnant and carry to term. So maybe that's why there was no urgency for me to go the IVF route immediately.
my office also told me to take ibuprofen prior to HSG and it really was worse in my head than the actual procedure.
GL
*TW previous child and pregnancy*
I have a 3 year old that was conceived with no issue just like you. We don't know why I ended up with a blocked tube but after a year of trying for baby 2, we did the HSG and no doubt one of my tubes was blocked. You can go different routes, according to my RE. We tried clomid to really amp up the eggs, and they can monitor (through ultrasound) to see if the eggs are on the "good" side, and you can just give it a good old fashioned try that way
At this time we looked at either surgery or IVF. I was just so over the process so I know it's personal but we opted to do IVF. Mainly because IF we want a third baby, we hoped to get frozen embryos and have a much easier time. I know it's different for everyone but it did work right away and I'm pregnant with 4 spare embryos frozen.
I know how overwhelming it all can be, I felt so helpless until we finally picked a plan. Feel free to message me at all, happy to answer other questions at all