I'm heartbroken to say that I am leaving the November group. After an ER visit for severe cramps and spotting on Saturday, we saw that the baby hasn't grown past 6 weeks (I should be just about 9 weeks) and there is no heartbeat. My HCG levels were just around 5000 and the light spotting/ strong cramps were a further bad sign that this wasn't going to be viable. My first appointment with my doctor was scheduled for monday already, so my husband and I went yesterday to talk with the doctor, praying for good news but knowing this was unlikely. The doctor asked us to return Friday for an Ultrasound because having 2 ultrasounds only 36 hours apart wouldn't show us anything new/helpful. If on Friday there is still no sign of a heartbeat or development, we will know for sure. In the meantime the spotting has gotten stronger and cramping is very painful. We are heartbroken and devastated , but I'm trying to keep my head up. This forum was a treasure for me in these first few weeks and you ladies are great people. I wish you all the best and hope everyone has healthy, strong babies. I'm so comforted knowing that I will have a great support system once I get pregnant again (yes, it will happen, I'm so sure!)
Best of luck and thanks for being such a great group!
So sorry. I think this is one of the hardest things. Remember to take care of yourself, physically and emotionally.
TTC#2 for 2 years!
August 2014: Went off the pill to conceive #2 March 2015: BFP - M/C at 6 weeks October 2015: Natural BFP - MMC, discovered at 12 weeks, D&C one long month later Mar-Sept 2016: Unexplained secondary infertility, 6 rounds Clomid + IUI, all BFN October 2016: IVF = chemical pg March 2017: Natural BFP
I am so very sorry to hear this. That happened to me last time, and it was so hard. One of the hardest parts was the not knowing, the waiting, to know for sure. I hope you get your answer soon. I'm praying for you!
Re: *TW* Good luck to all the November moms
DD- 9
DS-6
c/p- April 2016
missed m/c- 6w5d; discovered 8w2d- September 2016
August 2014: Went off the pill to conceive #2
March 2015: BFP - M/C at 6 weeks
October 2015: Natural BFP - MMC, discovered at 12 weeks, D&C one long month later
Mar-Sept 2016: Unexplained secondary infertility, 6 rounds Clomid + IUI, all BFN
October 2016: IVF = chemical pg
March 2017: Natural BFP