What your Spouse said that made you mad

AntWolfe · April 2017

I don't know if it's the hormones or my normal anxiety & depression but my DH said something that has me hiding in the bathroom until my anger subsides. Anyone else have these moments where you're too angry but not crazy enough to say it out loud that their pissing you off?

AntWolfe · April 2017

Ps what he said is that he hasn't been sleeping well because he is stressed about a lot of thinga right now. Well honey the sleep number doesn't lie...you have been sleeping better than me the past few nights. In fact when I wake up terrified from these crazy dreams. You're snoring loudly.

kaitlinliz · April 2017

DH is constantly saying things that make me wanna scream but he's been working 2 jobs and sleeps maybe 3 hours a day so I will hope it's just his lack of sleep. His one job ends this week so I'm praying it'll stop once he sleeps more but ugh I feel ya

ariasbabyblog · April 2017

He said that my nausea was probably psychosomatic because I didn't really start to have issues with nausea until I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago. Que the completely blank stare of "I have so many angry things I was to say to that, I can't pick one".

LadyBugMe101 · April 2017

He said the place I love my quesadillas from is closed as in not in business. This made me mad. Not his fault but he broke the news so I was mad at him.

@ariasbabyblog oh no, I did not struggle with nausea with my first and this time it's so bad. Not cool because the struggle is real. Hope he understands.

jess0211 · April 2017

He has commented several times how the pregnancy is more stressful for him. Uh huh. Sure it is.

rms924 · April 2017

jess0211 said:

He has commented several times how the pregnancy is more stressful for him. Uh huh. Sure it is.

Omg. My husband says the same thing !!! All bc I can't do as much around the house and w ds @jess0211. Dude. It's not for forever. It's a few weeks during first tri. It will be over at some pt and I'll be helpful again.

Edited bc autocorrect is is never correct

MaximumEffort · April 2017

@AntWolfe my DH says the same damn thing about sleep, he's usually snoring away and crowding me. He even dared to ask me to wake up with DH and let him sleep in because he doesn't get to. I had to remind him that I'm up at 5:30 the days I work and do my 13 hours and when i don't work in up at 7 for DH, no sleeping in here kiddo.
Or he will ask if he can do anything for me AFTER I've finished but throws a fit if I ask him to do the job he said he would or finish it. Today he was a good sport and when I asked if he was done vacuuming he said he was. I pointed out that the canister was still full and the vacuum was in the middle of the room.

ShePersisted · April 2017

We were rushing our 3 yr old to school trying to catch a bus when a mother of 4 kids who lives in my building passed by coming back from the gym. He immediately goes, 'see she has 4 kids but yet has time to go to the gym'. I wanted to kick him so hard. She is a SAHM ( not that makes her lIfe that much easy) and she is not currently dealing with heavy fatigue and nausea like me. I also work 10-12 hours a day. Ugh I just was so annoyed with that remark. I did not talk to him all day.

mamaticali · April 2017

DH has said that I should be able to function without my anxiety medication ( had to stop cold turkey until my OB appt) and that it's been 17 months since our son was born + I should be on the way to being well. (Yes, he is still alive)

ineedsixeggs · April 2017

Bless their hearts. They don't even know.

Mine has been much more helpful this time around (I think witnessing the delivery changed his tune) but I've tried to burn a hole in his head with my laser vision when I mention how sick or tired I am and the jokester says "me too."

jka427 · April 2017

Mine looked at me and said "how far are we now? 7weeks?"

Um try almost 10!!! Glad to know you're over there not stressing about each passing day.

Also so I have an SCH and am on pelvic rest until at least Wednesday and he keeps making comments like "you know what would be nice? Sex."

captainfoxtrot · April 2017

@ShePersisted Like, what the fuck? Who even talks to their pregnant partner like that? Man. I am full of pregnancy rage reading this thread. I am ready to kick asses.

cmessamore · April 2017

My DH said the most awful thing to me last night. I'm still coping with it. He said, "we're out of ice cream." There was almost tears being shed. Daggers beamed from my eyes in his direction. I'm not even sure who finished the ice cream. But I was distraught. I may either take a trip to go get some, or hope he brings home more later!!!!!!

rnleolife7 · April 2017

I have gone from working out 4 times a week and eating a clean diet to not feeling like working out at all thanks to this fatigue and nausea. Also have be craving cheese and breads/crackers which I didn't eat before. I was complaining to SO today and he said "Then get your butt up and run." I was ticked. I responded with "Must he nice not growing a human that makes you want to puke every 5 minutes and having energy to workout. He apologized pretty quick after that.

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