Hi there! I'm struggling a bit right now. My DW and I did our first ICI this month. The TWW is incredibly difficult. Also, this is so so so expensive.
We're struggling to both deal with the stress of the TWW. We have a foster daughter who we're in the process of adopting. That almost feels easier than this.
Has anyone tried TTC and decided it wasn't for them? I don't want to give up in the first month but this is the hardest thing I've ever done. And my heart goes out to all the foster children who need permanency - we're still a licensed home, just not accepting placements at the moment.