Hi all –
I’ve been casually stalking this board since receiving the results of mine and DH fertility screenings. There are so many brave and supportive people here that I knew I should post to get some advice and perspective.
I’m 31 and DH will be 40 this May. We’ll be married for 2 years in October and we share two amazing dogs (both pitties), who we love to death.
Despite treating our dogs like children, we both knew we wanted real kids, so we started TTC at the start of 2016. After a year, we sought help from a fertility clinic. My screenings presented nothing strange or concerning; however, DH’s SA came back with a big fat 0. He was then later diagnosed with Klinefelter’s Syndrome.
I’ve been keeping it together emotionally, mostly because this has been pretty trying on DH. But I also know that we still have hope. Our urologist laid out our options and told us that even with this diagnosis, there’s still a 70% chance of finding sperm.
I’m curious to know if anyone has experience with this diagnosis and what route you took. Did you biopsy and freeze sperm before starting an IVF cycle or did you start the cycle and then do the biopsy right before egg retrieval, not knowing if they’ll even find sperm?
It sounded as if the doc recommended the latter, given that they usually lose sperm during the freezing process and that they may not find a lot to begin with. He also mentioned that the biopsy could be pretty intensive and that it could take several months for DH testosterone levels to normalize.
At any rate, was just wondering if anyone here has any advice or experience they’d like to share. Thank you for reading and I look forward to getting to know you all!
Re: Intro & advice on Klinefelters diagnosis
My DH doesn't have Klinefelter's, but he does have retrograde ejaculation, and it's been hard on him feeling like it's partially "his fault". I've just assured him that I don't blame him and I'm not upset with him, and I've been very careful to get his permission before sharing any information about what's going on with him with our friends and family. I don't mind talking about my end of things.
MFI - Due to blockage
IVF#1 Feb/Mar 2017 - ER: 14 Eggs, 13 Mature, 7 Fertilized, 1 Blastocyst (PGS tested abnormal)
IVF#2 May 2017 - ER: 16 Eggs, 14 Mature, 5 Fertilized, 1 Blastocyst (PGS tested abnormal)
IVF#3 July/Aug 2017 - ER: 15 Eggs, 13 Mature, 12 Fertilized, 6 Blastocyst, 5 PSG normal (3 Girls, 2 Boys)
FET# 1 September 29,2017 1st Beta - 236 2nd Beta - 806 3rd Beta - 2932
Due Date - 6/17/18 Father's Day!
@caitb13 Congrats on your ER today! Fx for a great report :)