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I need help

ashsashs
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Okay, so one of my friends(friend 1) offered to throw me a shower and I of course did not say no.  I have no sisters so I really didn't think anyone else would offer.  She is a friend from college but she knows one of my lifelong friends(friend 2) so friend 1 asked friend 2 to help.  Well, friend 2 got upset thinking that she would be the one to throw it since we are lifelong friends and I don't think she thought anyone else would offer but her.  Now, since they don't know each other very well, I feel like I am stuck in the middle.  I told friend 1, who is putting me in the middle, that I didn't want to be in the middle and that they would have to talk to each other.  I just don't want the two to be uspet at all or mad at me for some reason.  What should I do?

 Sorry I know this is confusing.

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Re: I need help

  • ValerianOddityValerianOddity
    Since they both obviously care about you enough to want to throw your a baby shower, perhaps they can be co-hostess of the event?  I don't mean to sound catty, but from what you posted, it sounds as if one (or both) of them might be behaving in a slightly immature fashion.
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  • ashsashs
    Yes, friend 2 wants to be in charge but I think they are both okay with being co-hostesses.  Friend 2 was just a little upset but I just talked to friend 1 again and it sounds like things may be worked out.
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  • justgnatjustgnat

    Have 2 showers?

    We've got a "friends" shower this weekend (to which we've invited 40ppl) and a "family" shower at the end of the month (another 40 ppl) and the ladies group at my church is throwing me one in Feb. DH and I also go to "his" church and I'd be willing to bet that our couples life group will throw us one too. We'll see.

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