Have you been or have you scheduled? I'm switching hospitals from where I had my first, and I'm really having anxiety over this. I don't know why! I scheduled a tour for next Monday. I'm curious if anyone else has done one for this pregnancy.
Our hospital does scheduled group tours. We will go on one of those, but I haven't read over the paperwork yet. I have met with the lactation specialist, and we had our NT scan done there. So I'm happy with what I've seen so far.
My hospital includes a tour as part of the childbirth class they offer. The childbirth classes are only open to patients 32 weeks and more, so we'll do the class and tour then.
I'm delivering at the same hospital where I had my other two, so I'm not bothering with the tour. But I did with my first, and I would if I were going to a new hospital.
my hospital recommends doing their tour when you're 7 months I think... so im waiting a couple more months before I do it
Me: 36 years old DH: 42 years old
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TTC #1 Since April 2016 HSG/FSH/AMH/E2/SA all normal DX: unexplained IF spontaneous BFP 01/01/2017- Alexander was born sleeping 04/13/2017 at 19w1d ic/chorio September 2017 HSG #2 & Gonal-F/Femara/Ovidrel/IUI #1 = ep (Salpingectomy of left fallopian tube) spontaneous BFP 01/02/2018 EDD Aug 30th It's a GIRL! Cerclage placed on 03/02 Cerclage removal 08/02
I went on a tour/ took child birth classes with my first. I'm really glad I took the tour because I like knowing where I'm going and where I will be. If I was switching hospitals I would want to take another tour. They have changed the childbirth center since I had my 2 year old, but I just visited my friend who had a baby recently and it didn't seem much different
@Sugargirl1019 I contacted the hospital directly and scheduled one last time. I'm glad we went so we could see what to expect. We also did the class that showed videos of medicated birth vs non-medicated and went through al the steps of labor. Also, was it you who was asking about cute comfy pjs? I got some passed down to me from old navy, super super comfy!! And DH likes them because they're not sweatpants and a t-shirt. Tag says Old navy intimates. Softest pants ever.
I'm not going to do one... but, my OBs office is at the hospital and I walk by the labor and delivery unit every time I go, so I feel pretty comfortable with it. If it weren't for that, I would definitely do one because outside of my appointments I know nothing about the hospital.
My hospital offers a free child birth class, breast feeding classes, newborn care class and baby safety class all of which I signed us up for. They also have a free sibling class (for different age groups up to 7), grandparent classes (to update grandparents on current best practice sort of stuff), a class designed for women who have already have kids but want a refresher and after the baby is born they have an infant massage class (that one has a cost but it's super minimal). They also host a weekly post partum meeting. The other hospital in town has similar classes. My OB gave me info on them but it was also all online. They also offer tours separately from the class but we'll just go then.
Hopefully our new hospital will be officially open by the time LO is born in September. With DS I did a maternity tour that alleviated some of my anxiety. Planning on doing it again once it gets closer to my due date since we should be in a new facility.
@Sprite2012 I share with you in your anxiety! I have switched hospitals for this birth (only because of my insurance change) and I do plan on taking a tour. Part of me feels like its a waste because I know I am having a c-section and they don't give tours of the operating rooms, but at least I hope to check out the recovery rooms and learn about services available post-partum.
We've moved since DS was born, but I saw the maternity ward when my bff had her son last year. I may see if they do quick group tours, if DH wants to see it. Last time, it was a part of our childbirth class.
Here is my advice. Mainly for first time moms: If they offer birthing classes or breast feeding classes take them! I regret not taking the breast feeding class. I really think it would have helped me with my DS. Also I know in Georgia if you don't take a epidural class and sign a paper saying you want one you don't get it. So make sure you check that out when you are asking about classes and such
@kelseyrayray that is some inhumane treatment withholding an epidural because you didn't take a class on it. I feel like some of us FTM are going in with intention of going "drug free" but once that labor kicks in everything is up for change.
Here is my advice. Mainly for first time moms: If they offer birthing classes or breast feeding classes take them! I regret not taking the breast feeding class. I really think it would have helped me with my DS. Also I know in Georgia if you don't take a epidural class and sign a paper saying you want one you don't get it. So make sure you check that out when you are asking about classes and such
I think they do this in Kentucky too? My SIL had to take an epidural class. Some moms can't just take off work whenever and go take a hospital class. What a ridiculous policy.
@Ae_Lovely321 I agree. I had no idea about it either until someone I'm my A15 bmb told me. So I called the hospital and asked and they said they won't give it to you unless you have taken the class.
@kelseyrayay That's pretty ridiculous. I wonder what the reasoning is? An epidural is expensive and hospitals make money on them. I can't process why a hospital would deny you one because you didn't take a free class....
I did for DS (who was born just 17 months ago) and I'll be delivering at the same hospital so I won't bother this time around. But i found it very helpful when I went last time. Esp at my hospital - the building is ancient and very maze-like.
I didn't do tours for either of my last two and won't for this one (all different hospitals). I worked L&D & surgical services as a nurse prior to becoming an NP, so maybe this is why I didn't feel it was necessary. I think it's great for easing anxiety and giving you a time to ask pertinent questions that you might not think of otherwise. I've worked at hospitals where no class = no epidural. While I don't agree with this practice, I understood it from the perspective of the anesthesia teams. That being said, find out if your hospital has this policy and go to the class regardless of what you are planning (med free, hypnobirth, water birth, etc....). ALWAYS better to have ALL OPTIONS open because those with this policy will not change it no matter how much you beg, scream, cry. (Unless, of course you have a c/s...then of course, you get a spinal, general, or an epidural depending on the situation).
Re: Hospital / Birth Center Tour
TW:
HSG/FSH/AMH/E2/SA all normal DX: unexplained IF
spontaneous BFP 01/01/2017- Alexander was born sleeping 04/13/2017 at 19w1d ic/chorio
September 2017 HSG #2 & Gonal-F/Femara/Ovidrel/IUI #1 = ep (Salpingectomy of left fallopian tube)
spontaneous BFP 01/02/2018 EDD Aug 30th It's a GIRL!
Cerclage placed on 03/02
They have changed the childbirth center since I had my 2 year old, but I just visited my friend who had a baby recently and it didn't seem much different
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
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Also, was it you who was asking about cute comfy pjs? I got some passed down to me from old navy, super super comfy!! And DH likes them because they're not sweatpants and a t-shirt. Tag says Old navy intimates. Softest pants ever.
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
DS2: EDD- 09.08.17