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TGIF Check-In 3/31

What's everyone doing this weekend?
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  • Tonight we are meeting friends for dinner and laser tag.  Celebrating my friend's boyfriends birthday.  This weekend is pretty open.  I want us to do some yard work tomorrow.  The weeds are coming in.  We need to bring out the spring patio stuff as well.  I'm excited everything is blooming!
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  • @vlagrl29 I've never played laser tag! Sounds like fun :smile:

    Our building finished pressure washing our balcony this week, so we'll be moving everything bck out there and probably get some planting done. I got a big water/sand play table through Freecycle at the beginning of winter for DS, and it's finally warm enough for him to use it for the first time!
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  • @pandawares- I had gotten a water table for DD when she was about 2 - she loved it!
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  • @pandawares I second @vlagrl29 on the water table. DS got one for his first birthday last year and he loved it! 

    DH is coaching our nephew's t-ball team, and there's a game tomorrow morning so DS and I will be watching that then we have a birthday dinner for DH's aunt tomorrow night.

    The rest of the time we will be outside doing yard work and I have a sewing project I want to finish. 

    Have a great weekend everyone!
  • Have a great weekend ladies! I'm home too. Been using the non-working weekends to study for my boards (not until June but I gotta use what time I got), and this weekend catching up on the John Adams series on HBONow--it's so good!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • We have an insane weekend and I'm over it already. Tonight we have the wake for our friend's mom and tomorrow the funeral. Then DHs extended family is in town so we are having dinner with them. A friends bday party Sunday and my daughter has a piano recital Sunday afternoon. Monday my new quarter starts up and Mondays are my crazy days. At some point I have to meet with our new nanny because she is picking up my daughter starting on monday! 
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    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
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    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • No big plans this weekend.  Hoping to unpack and recoup from vacation (laundry and whatnot). 

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.  Hopefully FET after that.

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

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    Rainy with a mix of snow in New England. Awesome. Have to go out with my mother briefly. Can't wait to hear her yell at me to get preg. 
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    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128- tell her to f off! lol easier said than done.
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  • I'm not doing anything this weekend except for work. Watching the snow and rain fall and wishing I can get motivated enough to work out this weekend. Probably not though


    @vlagrl29 can't believe you have things blooming and its snowing for us here in N.E. lol!
    @pandawares had to look up what a water table is and kinda wish I had one for myself lol #innerkidme
    @pumpkin0913 Your weekend watching a ball game and the birthday sounds fun!
    @amberruka its always a great weekend when you can catch up on your favorite series!
    @ladipale Oh wow your weekend does seem crazy!
    @dpjennifer I always need a vacation from my vacation so I feel you! 
    @sp128 This weather is ridiculous. I'm over it. Also your momma needs to chill out. When my mom pisses me off I just stop seeing her, or leaving our phone calls very brief. I feel for you.
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    @MimoCa She does need to chill.  She went from "You need to study hard so you can get a good job" to "Work more to make that money" to "Don't just focus on work, you need a baby."  Seriously, every f&*#ing time I see her.  Didn't tell her about the last pg because I knew she would blame me for the mc for being "too old" and saying "I told you so."  

    Meeting her at 1:30 tomorrow.  Mother was like, "Are we going to do lunch?"  I responded, "Nope."
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    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
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  • oh goodness @SP128 - your mom sounds like she's always thinking in the future.

    I practiced yoga at home today for about an hour.  Makes me feel so much more strong and keeps me grounded.
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  • Tomorrow is my birthday and we are going out for breakfast.  Fingers crossed it is relaxing and I don't have to deal with a moody four year old.  He has been difficult today due to being overtired.  Nothing else going on....

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • @hdaley happy birthday!
    @sp128 your mom asian, because mine is and that's how she sounds top lol. All my friend's Asian parents are the same too!
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    edited April 2017
    @MimoCa hahaha. She sure is Asian !!  She tells me I'm going to die alone if I don't have children. I'm laying hereand listening to this rain and sleet. Wtf ?

    @hdaley enjoy your day 
    ***TW***
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    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @hdaley Happy Birthday!!!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @hdaley Happy birthday! I thought it said "moldy" four-year-old.
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    edited April 2017
    @sp128 I'm sure there has to be a support group to deal with Asian mothers, their inability to be proud of their kids, inability to think their children know anything and their incredibly way too high standards and pure dissatisfaction with us as adults. If not, I'm starting one! :expressionless:

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    @MimoCa  You should do one at your restaurant after hours.  I would so be there!
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Well last night I had a + OPK so you know what that means. >:)

    Tomorrow is my birthday so I'll be out and about all day. Have brunch in the morning with my dad's side and then dinner with my mom and stepdad.

    I need to get some school work done too though. Today is my official start date for my Master's program through WGU.
    31 years young
    from Seattle(ish)
    5 years married
    FTM and PGAL
    EDD is 12/23/17
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  • Happy Birthday @hdaley !!
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  • Lots of birthdays! Happy birthday @moonlady !

    I'm currently tackling Mount Washmore AKA the (mostly) clean pile of laundry in front of our balcony door (furthest spot in our apartment ... hence the cleanest floor space lol). I picked up some planter boxes, potting soil, and seeds at Dollar Tree today, so we'll be decorating/planting/playing on the balcony while it's sunny tomorrow!
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  • Happy birthday @moonlady
  • Happy Birthday @moonlady and good luck on your Masters!

    Happy Birthday @hdaley

    @pandawares, water and sand tables are the best. They've definitely been some of the most played with toys in this house! 

    @vlagrl29, laser tag sounds awesome! 

    AFM: 

    DD1 had a birthday party on Saturday so DD2 and I ran some errands. I had a special olympics swim meet on Sunday, that ate up pretty much the whole day. 
    DD1 4.14.10
    DD2 8.22.13
    MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
    Expecting #3, EDD 1.29.18

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