@vvitchhazel I hope the 4 seconds of gratification you got by bragging to a bunch of strangers on the internet was worth the sadness and frustration you've caused to the ladies who have been on this board for many months, or for some, years--people going broke spending money at specialists, having invasive procedures, suffering silently at other people's baby showers month after month--oh wait, that's right, you already knew that
And you decided your 4 seconds of gratification was worth more.
ANYWAY... I also got faked out thinking someone else got their BFP. Womp Womp. Thanks, guys! You guys are so amazing. Thank you everyone for putting my mind at ease about the cramping. I'm still worried, but I'm sure that will never go away lol.
SN used to be soemthingclever Me: 28 DH: 35 Dx PCOS May 2015 Baby #1 due 12/7/17
@soemthingclever Congratulations! And no, the irony of this whole situation and our conversation about this thread a few days ago is not lost on me.
As for the other, I would say shame, shame we know your name. Except that we don't. And therein lies the problem. You posted three times and in those three, the only interaction you had was to ask someone a question about something to benefit yourself. Honestly, what in the world made you think, "Yeah, they would totally appreciate a grad post from me"?
@soemthingclever - YAY! Congratulations! I hope you have a fantastic 9 months!
Me: 35 DH: 28 TTC since June 2016 Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016 AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017 Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017 October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total) Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen 12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP 2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone Abnormal SIS Oct 2018 Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis. 12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN Our journey has come to an end.
Like I said, I was hesitant, but unsure. Clearly I made a huge mistake. I won't argue that. And I genuinely apologize for coming off as insensitive and it truly wasn't out of malice. I knew I only posted a couple of times, but I've lurked for awhile, before we officially decided to start trying. I'm not an idiot, I get that my lurking doesn't mean I have a relationship with anyone here, but I guess I got a bit overexcited and, in a way, wanted to feel more connected than I allowed myself to be. And in doing so, hurt a lot of you. I really wasn't trying to rub anyone's face in it. And I'm definitely not making excuses. I should've thought it through a little more than I did. I'm a major jerk and I deserve the flame. I didn't want to dirty delete, so I left my initial blurb of foolishness and deleted the details, so as to not hurt anyone else's feelings.
@soemthingclever While I'm genuinely sorry to everyone who flamed me (I'm totally serious, not sarcasm), I'm going to give you a direct apology. This thread really is meant for people like you and I'm sorry my misstep cast shadow on that. Congratulations on your BFP.
ETA: I'd also like to add that I get no gratification knowing what I've done. I'm not an uncaring person. I see what I've done and I really feel horrible. Shame on me. And good luck to all you wonderful women.
That was a sincere and (in my opinion) a very kind apology @vvitchhazel. To me it's nothing against you personally. I don't resent you for getting a BFP and I'm glad you recognize that posting here was wrong. Thank you for your reply and good luck with your pregnancy.
Me: 34 | DH: 33 Married Aug. 2013 TTC #1 Sep. 2016 ***TW***
BFP Jan. 15, 2017; MMC Mar. 4, 2017 at 10w6d BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF. BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d
@travelingcouple I just need to say how much I love your Jed Bartlet gif -- Bartlet for America and West Wing for LYFE!
My wife and I have conceived a babe with my body and frozen donor sperm through IUI, with medication support (clomid, ovidrel, and injections of progesterone) IUI #1, #2, and #3: Dec 2017, Jan 2018, and Feb 2018 - all BFN HSG Test: April 2018 - all clear! IUI #4: April 15/16, 2018 - BFP!! EDD: Jan 7, 2019
@vvitchhazel Apology accepted. It was very sincere. It's a shame you didn't participate more. I think you would have fit in well here. Congrats on your BFP!
SN used to be soemthingclever Me: 28 DH: 35 Dx PCOS May 2015 Baby #1 due 12/7/17
@vvitchhazel That was a very nice apology. It is not easy to own up not to just our triumphs but even to our occasional mistakes. Hats off to you, that apology showed strength. I have a very rough TTC week (in cycle20 now) but your reaction has warmed my heart. Have a smooth journey from now on.
Re: TTGP GRADS - Week of 3-27-17
And you decided your 4 seconds of gratification was worth more.
Me: 28 DH: 35
Dx PCOS May 2015
Baby #1 due 12/7/17
As for the other, I would say shame, shame we know your name. Except that we don't. And therein lies the problem. You posted three times and in those three, the only interaction you had was to ask someone a question about something to benefit yourself. Honestly, what in the world made you think, "Yeah, they would totally appreciate a grad post from me"?
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Me: 28 DH: 35
Dx PCOS May 2015
Baby #1 due 12/7/17
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
@soemthingclever While I'm genuinely sorry to everyone who flamed me (I'm totally serious, not sarcasm), I'm going to give you a direct apology. This thread really is meant for people like you and I'm sorry my misstep cast shadow on that. Congratulations on your BFP.
ETA: I'd also like to add that I get no gratification knowing what I've done. I'm not an uncaring person. I see what I've done and I really feel horrible. Shame on me. And good luck to all you wonderful women.
Married Aug. 2013
TTC #1 Sep. 2016
***TW***
BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d
BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP
All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF.
BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th
My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d
My wife and I have conceived a babe with my body and frozen donor sperm through IUI, with medication support (clomid, ovidrel, and injections of progesterone)
IUI #1, #2, and #3: Dec 2017, Jan 2018, and Feb 2018 - all BFN
HSG Test: April 2018 - all clear!
IUI #4: April 15/16, 2018 - BFP!! EDD: Jan 7, 2019
I appreciate your sincere apology. Best wishes.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Me: 28 DH: 35
Dx PCOS May 2015
Baby #1 due 12/7/17
@soemthingclever Congrats, girl!
Married: May 2015
TTC since September 2015
Eden: February 8, 2016
Ivy: April 3, 2018
Baby 3.0: Due September 26, 2020
Me: 29 DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016